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Stop Comparing Yourself To Others

click here for a FREE reading at PsychicAccess.comI believe that my own tendency to compare myself with others began at a young age, when my mother would constantly compare me to my cousins. For example, she would talk affectionately about their lovely physical attributes, like their thick hair, high cheekbones or deep-set eyes. Their personalities were louder and more assertive than mine too.

I was an overweight kid, and the more withdrawn I became, the more I would eat. I felt that my overweight was seen by others as greed, but I now believe I was layering deep insecure feelings.

I now know too that I was not meant to be like my cousins. In hindsight, I thank my mother for the life lessons. Perhaps she helped me in learning about insecurity and experiencing an inferiority complex. Today, I have a much deeper understanding of how my clients feel, when they don’t feel good enough. Or, as is often the case, when they are concerned about their children not feeling good enough for whatever reason. This is not always due to faulty parenting. Parents often suffer terribly when they see their kids, whatever their ages, suffer from lack of self-esteem. They see their kids as having every reason to be super-confident, yet witness them withdrawn and unhappy.

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De-Stress To Live A Balanced Life

click here for a FREE reading at PsychicAccess.comEveryone deals with some type of stress in their lives. Some people endure more than others, but it is really not about situations that occur in a person’s life – rather their reaction to it.

It is important to reduce excessive stress in your life, and developing strategies to live a more balanced life, for many different reasons.

When people are less stressed they are more capable of making good decisions in their lives. A person’s intuition is better when their stress levels are low, and it is important to feel balanced emotionally in order to live a happy life.

High levels of stress can also lead to physical problems in a person’s life. Throughout the years of providing psychic readings to people all over the world, I am very sensitive to their energy. With many of the people I have done readings for over the years, the person’s stress level in different areas of their lives can come through very strongly. When a person has a lot of stressful energy around them, it can block out positive energy from coming into your life.

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The Power Of Your Words

click here for a free reading at PsychicAccess.comIf only people realized how powerful their words are each time they make a statement. For example, I have heard some of my callers say things like, “I always attract partners who cheat on me.” The caller will be phoning in with hopes of getting a prediction which indicates a brighter future. And yet, in the meantime, they are programming their subconscious to accept their old negative dialogue.

I aim to help these clients understand that bringing about change is a process. To begin with, they truly have to want change. In truth, there are some individuals who derive a subconscious comfort from remaining stuck. Also, they need to feel worthy, which is why positive affirmations are so helpful.

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How To Avoid The Sunday Blues

click here for a free psychic reading at PsychicAccess.comI am sure you can easily picture the following scene. Your weekend has been somewhat action-packed. You have had your night out with friends, been for a meal with the family, and perhaps had a couple of hours at the gym on Saturday morning. The weekend was awesome, until Sunday evening arrives. Then your mind turns to what the week ahead could have in store for you…and your mood suddenly change for the worse.

If you suffer from what is known as the ‘Sunday blues,’ then it is essential you look at what you can do, from a practical point of view, to make the first day of the week far better than you may currently be experiencing it.

It is imperative you begin by looking at the actual reasons you dread your Sunday evening, and having done so, focus on what you can do about it. Get ready to take some action! Continue reading

You Are Amazing

click here for a free psychic reading at PsychicAccess.comYou are powerless when you worry about pleasing other people, but when you focus on being an amazing person and creating an amazing life then you become powerful. As you gain a foothold on who you truly are and how you wish to present yourself to the world other people begin to recognize and respect you in new ways. Focus on the amazing person that you are.

Oftentimes we see you get caught up in other people’s business, wondering and worrying what they are thinking and what they are saying. As you focus on those external things outside of yourself it steals your energy and renders you powerless. It makes you weak in your thinking and insecure in your being. There is very little value in focusing on obsessing over their influence.

Remember, everything is always unfolding perfectly. Let go of trying to control other people and other things outside your power of influence. Move into yourself where you have full and complete control over what you are thinking, what you are feeling, and what you are saying. Because at the end of the day, as you look at yourself in the mirror the only person you need to answer to is yourself en God.

Rise up into the magnificence that you are creating a beautiful purposeful life. As you align with the best version of yourself people will either begin to step into your life, or they will step out. Continue reading

Living On Purpose

click here for a free psychic reading at PsychicAccess.comOften times we see you struggling within the constraints and confines of your humanness, of your ego. Remember, as we have told you many times before, this is all an illusion.

Your heart yearns for experiences and so you have created various experiences in this lifetime to help you evolve and advance as a soul. But your Spirit, your Higher Self is the perfection of your essence. It is the oneness with God, the universe, all that is. It holds no karma nor lower frequencies and this beingness is contained within you.

You have constant access to the energy of your Spiritual nature. So, when you feel yourself out of alignment or out of sorts move through your Soul into the depths of your being aligned with your Spiritual Self, your Higher Self, the God within you. It is this space that you receive inspiration, and inner knowing.

Become more purposeful in your actions and be present with the awareness of where your power lies. Do not allow yourself to be blown about in the wind, like a ship on the sea. Do not run ‘willy nilly’… scattered here and there in your life. Continue reading

Let Spirit Put Ego In Its Place

click here for a free psychic reading at PsychicAccess.comI recently had a conversation with a lovely, learned lady who was quite beside herself, because her husband of ten years simply got up and walked out on her… with no explanation whatsoever! She was understandably beside herself with shock and grief. I asked her what kind of relationship she felt they had and she assured me it was a very loving one. I find it almost impossible to believe that a loving, caring partner would all of a sudden just turn his back with all they had shared together and walk out the door, in what appeared to be a cold and callous man.

I then asked her why she felt they had such a good situation between them and she said it was because she loved him so much. She did all she could to keep him happy and satisfied. Well, now we were obviously getting somewhere. On further probing I found this man had been emotionally detached, and certainly oblivious to her needs. How can this, by any definition, be a warm and loving relationship?

Her ego most assuredly suffered a blow, but I do wonder where spirit was in all of this. It would make no sense to me if spirit accepted such a one-sided relationship that was  completely devoid of any care or kindness.

My suspicion is that she had convinced herself that this ‘relationship’ had to maintain itself, or she would not be an ‘acceptable’ woman if she did not have a prominent male in her life, even under these trying conditions. There we go, when ego runs the show a myriad of pains can certainly appear on the horizon! Continue reading

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