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No Message From The Other Side?
Why don’t I receive any contact from my loved one on the other side? This is a frequently asked question which often comes my way.
I don’t always have an answer, but often the truth is that the questioner is either anxious, or wanting it so much that they are blocking the reason for their question.
Sometimes people will say they’ve begged the deceased to give them evidence of their survival, and to just let them know that they are happy and healed from any emotional or physical trauma they knew on this side of the veil.
At times, the messages from their loved ones, given to the messenger such as myself, are undeniable proof of their existence after death. These evidential messages can be very detailed, and yet some receivers still tend to doubt.
The most convincing messages spirit can deliver, I feel, are those of a humorous nature, which can be fairly personal at times.
Such was the case of a lady I read for recently whose husband died at a young age in a car accident. Apparently he used to have a problem with zippers in his trousers, and I was able to describe the antics connected to this humorous issue. She laughed and cried, because it was not only true, but it wasn’t something she had ever discussed with anybody else.
I Am Responsible For Me
We all make mistakes. Each one of us has looked back on our life path and thought, if only I could go back and change it.
I wish I would have bought that house while it was still available at a lower price, because I would be on easy street by now.
Or if I could go back and take that amazing job, which I did not realize was so wonderful at the time, due to my youth and inexperience, I could have retired with a huge pension and many benefits by now.
One of the biggest regret that comes up quite often, is wishing to go back and tell relatives and friends that we love them… before they passed away so unexpectedly. I have so much to say to them right now, I wish I would have said it then.
My favorite saying, and yes, I am guilty of this myself: if I could go back to my teens with the knowledge I now have as an adult, I would change the course of my life and do things differently.
Yes, it would be nice if such a magic wand or time machine was available to us, so we could travel back and start over. However, truth be told, in our youth, we probably would have done the same things again.
The knowledge I have now, is because of the life lessons and mistakes that I have made. My errors and poor decisions created who I am today!
Am I perfect? Heck, no. Do I still mess up? Oh, yes. However, do I carry the things I messed up in my backpack of hardships, or do it let them fall to the ground and return to Mother Earth, and not let them move forward with me?
Wishing You A Blessed Holiday Season
Valued clients, as we approach the close of another remarkable year, our hearts are filled with gratitude for your continued loyalty and support.
Your trust, courage, and commitment to your personal and spiritual growth have made 2025 a year of profound connection and meaningful transformation. We are humbled and honored to walk this sacred path with you every day.
Your calls motivate and inspire us daily. You remind us why we do what we do. Why we show up, hold space, offer guidance, and continue striving to uplift every soul who seeks the guidance of spirit.
Because of you, our mission continues, our purpose endures, and our dedication to service remains with each passing season.
This year, through triumphs and trials alike, we have witnessed your resilience, your breakthroughs, and your beautiful unfolding to live your best life.
It has been our privilege to support you this past year as you navigated life’s shifting tides, embraced new opportunities, and stepped ever more fully into your authentic power.
We look forward to continuing this sacred partnership with you, offering clarity and spiritual insight whenever you need it.
The holiday season reminds us of the things that matter most in life: compassion, love, inner peace, and the quiet miracles that shape our lives. It is a time to cherish the connections that uplift us and to honor the divine spark that flows through us all. May this season bring you moments of stillness, heartfelt joy, and the comforting warmth of those who love and cherish you.
Are You Desperately Seeking Your Soulmate?
As a psychic reader, I often deal with questions about love and relationships. Many clients ask about meeting their soulmate, twin flame, or special life partner.
A dear client once told me how desperate she was to find her soulmate. She said she wouldn’t be happy until she met him, as she believed he would complete her.
But Spirit did not respond with a simplistic prediction or quick fix. The message was clear and direct: she would never find a man to complete her. Instead, she would have to find happiness and fulfillment from within. Only after she accomplished this would she be able to find lasting happiness in a relationship.
I gave her some things she could do to help her and I was later thrilled to get an email from her telling me how thankful she was. She was looking to all the wrong things and people to give her the happiness she so desired.
She then asked me the right question and I was so happy she remembered! How could she connect with her true beloved?
I remote viewed and explained where I saw him and felt it was someone from her past and how she could find him by simply not looking, and we discussed many different things about this person.
She never realized it, until I finally mentioned to her, that this was her best friend that she had been in touch with for many years. They had had their ups and downs, but as I explained, even the best of marriages are like roller-coaster rides. It is not the easy connections that we gain the greatest amount of soul growth from. Instead, the relationships that aren’t easy are the ones that you become wiser from and gain the most wisdom from.
Anger Blocks Intuition, Joy Clears The Way
For years, I carried a weight I didn’t fully understand. It wasn’t physical, and it wasn’t easily named. It was more like a festering storm tucked away inside me, a simmering anger that lingered in the corners of my being.
I thought I had mastered the art of containing it. I could smile, be reasonable, even offer calm advice to others.
But deep down, I felt its subtle pull, like an ominous undertow. It twisted the flow of my intuition, muffled the inner voice I used to trust, and dimmed the vibrant colors of a magical world around me.
Anger, I came to realize, is not always loud or aggressive. Sometimes, it is silent and slow-moving, like a heavy fog that sneaks in while you are not looking.
It dulls the senses. It compresses the heart. And perhaps most insidiously, it clogs the channel between you and your inner knowing. The kind of knowing that does not need explanation, just a quiet space to rise and speak.
For the longest time, I kept reaching for inner clarity. I meditated, I journaled, I pulled cards and sat in silence, hoping for something to break through.
But the insights felt fuzzy, the messages confusing. It was as if someone had turned the volume down on my inner voice, and I couldn’t figure out how to turn it back up.
You Create Your Own Happiness
Too often, people find themselves trapped in a shadowed corner of life, believing that happiness lies just beyond the next relationship, paycheck, job, or home. But true joy isn’t found in any of these external pursuits.
As the Dalai Lama so wisely said, “Happiness is not something ready-made. It comes from your own actions.” Pause for a moment and really reflect on that. It’s a beautifully simple truth, yet so many of us struggle to embrace it.
We’ve been raised in a world that teaches us to chase after happiness as though it’s something ‘out there,’ just one success or possession away. But here’s the sacred truth: happiness begins within.
This is a difficult statement for many to comprehend. “How can I be happy, if I have nothing? you might ask. “I am alone. I have no job, no money, no love.”
And yet, the answer is simple and profound: no one else is responsible for your life. No one else is responsible for your happiness. You are the sole creator of your reality.
Your emotional well-being, fulfillment, and general experience of life aren’t determined by outside forces, other people, circumstances, or luck. Living your best life starts with you.
Happiness isn’t something someone can give you or take away. What you think, believe, and do determines if you feel satisfied or unfulfilled.
Wishing You A Joyful Holiday Season
Valued clients, as we come to the end of a busy 2024, we want to express our deepest gratitude for your unwavering support throughout another successful year. You continue to inspire us and we are honored to be a part of your personal and spiritual journey.
Thank you for the profound impact you have on our team and our work. Your loyalty and trust not only strengthens our resolve, but fuels our passion to continue making a difference. You are the reason for the continued success of our soul circle, and we are deeply grateful to you for being a part of our growth journey.
Through many ups and downs, we have remained committed to being a source of encouragement, healing and guidance throughout the past year. It is our privilege to help you meet life’s challenges, embrace your opportunities, and manifest your highest good. We look forward to continuing to serve you and touching many lives in the years to come.
At this time of year, we are also reminded of the true spirit of the season, which transcends the hustle and challenges of everyday life. It is truly a time to reflect on the extraordinary connections that enrich our lives and to celebrate the kindness, compassion and love that unite us all.
We hope that this holiday season brings you many blessed moments of laughter, joy and heartfelt connection, whether you are surrounded by loved ones or spending time in quiet reflection. If you find yourself alone this season, remember that you are never truly alone. Spirit walks beside you, the Divine protects and guides you, the Universe always has your back, and we are always here for you as part of your chosen soul family.