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The Inevitable Misery Of Clinging To Your Partner

Click Here NOW for a FREE psychic reading at PsychicAccess.comIf you wonder how a life of destruction, misery and unhappiness is most easily produced, then the answer is: through clinging. Whatever we won’t let go of, or ease up on, will eventually choke us to death, or vice versa.

Immediately note here how something in us resists these words. Some anxious, unresolved, threatened feeling rears its ugly head in defiance, declaring we will not release or ‘let go’ of anything or anyone we don’t want to. Ah! But we will, because nothing lasts forever – least of all those relationships we so dearly depend upon, or identify with, for our happiness and survival.

The reason we are often so defensive about letting go of a failed relationship, is because the seeds of doubt have usually begun to sprout, bringing with them a host of trees which bear fruit of uncertainty. We were originally driven by the thrill of a newfound excitement, but that thrill has slowly begun to change into a dreaded familiarity.

With familiarity the edges of contempt soon show themselves in minuscule ways in our discontent. We try to smile more broadly, laugh a little harder, with added sincerity, but the prickly thorns have begun the wear and tear the fabric of our make-believe, bliss-soaked relationship.

Desire always precedes the anxiety of being able to maintain a relationship’s relevant importance. Uncontrolled, unconscious desire changes frequently, without our approval or consent. We can easily recognize it when we have the inclination to change things in other people. Misery soon follows, as we allow expectation to enter the frame of reference, with our subtle demands. No good.

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The Hidden Meanings In The Letters Of Your Name

Click Here right now for a FREE psychic reading at PsychicAccess.comWhen you embark on the awesome, unconscious probing of your inner spiritual nature, any demystifying, esoteric approach can be helpful and appropriate in revealing deeper understanding and insight about who you really are. A lesser known, but validly pertinent psycho-analytic tool available to us is the metaphysical analysis of the shapes of the letters of our name.

It is also known as grammatomancy (divination using the letters of the alphabet), and it is best used in conjunction with Numerology and Astrology. The ‘alphabetic alchemy’ of the letter in your name can be applied as an investigative detecting rod, to unravel certain latent gifts locked within a person’s psyche. One can apply this technique as a beginning barometer and incisive indicator, while eliciting a psychological search for meaning and clarification in the personality.

Hidden in the letters of our names is a treasure house of unexplored truths, which not only educate and enlighten, but also entertain. Specific energy vibrations are attached, or attributed to each letter of the alphabet.

But, more importantly, the cosmic reality interwoven in the unique blending of the individual letters comprise a specific destiny, not automatically disclosed at the conscious level. How the chosen letters are strung together, comprise a certain alchemical constitution of sorts, not unlike the various essential molecular elements which make up, let’s say, a piece of furniture. A far-fetched proposition, I realize, but not altogether, unlikely.

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The Pretense Of Hyper-Sensitivity

Click Here for a FREE psychic reading right now at PsychicAccess.comOnce we realize we have been misunderstood in one of our casual remarks, we typically try to immediately turn it around,. We try to add a more agreeable flavor, in the hopes that the offended or confused person will take it as a well-intended supported compliment. It’s usually rather ridiculous, really, but nonetheless in these situations we continue to ‘make certain’ we are not seen in a controversial manner, or in a ‘bad light.’

When such an ambiguous occasion arises, we are perfectly aware of what we are doing and how we are doing it. But, does that make one bit of difference to us? No. If we were not nearly so phony and apologetic in our deference, we may even get a lucid glimpse of what we were really saying, along with the motivation behind our attempts to butter up the other.

What exactly is it that we are hoping to accomplish? Why is it important to remain on a level of satisfactory exchange with the other, in fear of upsetting them? Do not these innuendos ring a melody of falsity? Does not the planted, erect knife in the butter fall once the butter melts?

In other words, what is hidden in the relationships we feel so insecure about, and in need of continuing such a façade of nicety?

We work so hard to maintain the supposed idea of decency we have long since cherished, nurtured and polished in our own minds. We do nothing to upset the apple cart. And, when an unsuspecting, misunderstood statement is made, maybe even in jest, we immediately try to reabsorb the awkwardness left behind. We feel we must absolve ourselves in the light of the other, and will actually go out on a thin brittle limb of more flattery, in hopes it won’t snap to reveal our embarrassment.

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Spiritual Awakening ‘Turns On The Light’

Click Here for a free psychic reading right now at PsychicAccess.comWhat exactly is a spiritual awakening, and is there a way you can tell if you are having one? Here are some ways to be aware of what is happening to you.

The first sign is usually when you are no longer living in a ‘dream world,’ where you used to see everything through your human ego and you were overly focused on the future and your past. This is a clear sign that you are becoming more spiritually aware. You have a greater awareness of your individual self and the connection between that and everything else. Things start to come into better focus in your life and make more sense.

When you closely examine various religions and faith traditions, there is usually a common thread that describes this state of heightened awareness as nirvana, enlightenment, or awakening. This new consciousness happens when you stop being the observer, and instead ask yourself, who is observing?

Many people go through life on ‘autopilot,’ because that is what they were taught, or they simply fell into a routine without giving much thought to who they really are, or what they truly need or desire to make their life meaningful. Asking such questions about yourself is important for your personal growth and self-realization. It is ‘turning the light on’ so to speak. The first step in growth is always the awareness of the present moment followed by an impulse to change something. Continue reading

An ‘Awareness Yawn’ For The Whole Truth

Click Here for a FREE psychic reading right now at PsychicAccess.comThe majority of human beings believe they tell the truth most of the time. Few will admit they lie. And none will disclose just how often, when, and how they twist the truth ‘a little’ to suit their needs. They convince themselves they are not really lying, when they know very well that their distorted versions of the truth are deceptive.

We are curious creatures. Adept at swindling ourselves to favor a certain idolized self-image we have created. One that we must maintain consistently in as much as our sovereign power allows. Hah! How utterly ridiculous and futile are our attempts to portray an untruth so vividly transparent. We can’t hide from our true self, for that’s who we live and die with.

It’s all a matter of unconscious perception. An awareness yawn would serve to do the trick of waking us up, but we’re simply not interested, especially if it involves ‘disturbing our self-indulgent illusions.’ We want to continue to believe how wonderful, well-informed, funny, intelligent, attractive, spiritually evolved, dedicated, hard-working, honest, caring, decent, committed and interested we are.

We walk around as if we not only have an ace up our sleeve (an extra added edge), but can make it magically appear at will. We sincerely think no one can see through our considerately, deceptively masked, incognito ‘what’s in it for me’ personality.

These deceptively constructed guises are particularly prevalent when we are entering into new relationships. That’s when we really put on the ‘dog and pony show.’ We come across so deliberately ‘put together’ and manicurely maintained. It matters not, if that ‘face of the hour’ is nowhere near the panoramic view of incalculable distortion occurring on the inside. We are on a personal quest; we want something. And, nothing will deter us from our conquest.

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Relationships Are Transpersonal Mirrors

Click Here for a FREE psychic reading at PsychicAccess.comRelationships come in all shapes and sizes, just like people. No one relationship is ever the same, nor can it be compared to, or competed with. Every relationship is dynamic and has a plethora of unique characteristic.

Our multi-faceted, highly complex relationships define us. They mold, shift, alter, arrange, blend, extricate, cajole, and elicit both the best and worst in us. Much is entailed in the transpersonal acrobatics we set off, in order to be effective in getting what we want from others. Dare I mention, on top of all that, the clandestine involvements we keep secret?

If and when we concentrate our distorted perceptions on what we’re getting from the relationship, instead of simply ‘showing up for the gig,’ we wouldn’t miss a vitally important aspect of each relationship: the opportunity to see ourselves more truthfully and clearly. In fact, relationships are the crystal clear mirrors of who and what we truly are.

It’s too easy to get ‘hung up’ on the blinding effect of erratic dancing in the blurred shadows of external forces operating in our various, multi-layered relationships. We can, however, learn much about ourselves, should we be vested enough to add sufficient interest, inclination, effort, actual involvement and committed attention in proportions necessary to solicit hidden motives from ourselves. Then we will reap the astounding benefits of self-disclosure.

By becoming more acutely aware of the whole, perplexing, spidery-webbed picture, we render a much better receptive state of mind. This sponge-like mindset solicits an initial discovery phase, in which much of our inner motivations can be clearly seen.

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The Truth About Being Spiritual

Click Here for a FREE psychic reading at PsychicAccess.comWhat has drawn you to spirituality? For some people it is just a source of fun, something to do over lunch. The New Age industry also offers so many cool things to buy and wear, and great retreats and seminars to attend. These are certainly much better recreational pursuits than drinking in a bar, and not everyone finds enjoyment in sports.

For others it has become a substitute church or religious community for those dissatisfied with dogmatic Christianity and other organized religions. It satisfies their longing for social interaction and having some contact with like-minded folks.

Others pursue what they consider a ‘spiritual path’ because they think it will make them a ‘better person,’ or offer them a cool new career, or because they dislike themselves and think (or hope) that by acting like a ‘good person’ they will somehow be rewarded and accepted. Due to low self-esteem they hope they might win the attention, good graces, or ‘love’ of some spiritual guru or deity, which will hopefully  make them feel better about themselves.

If you resonate with any of the above motivations for your spiritual pursuits, then this article is not for you.

First off, everyone is spiritual. Why, because they are alive, living a life as a human. All souls designed their lives in the state of their higher self, working with their spiritual guides before they incarnated. However, not every soul incarnates to become awakened. Each life teaches us, and is part of our soul evolution journey.

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