spirit guidance
Your Spirit Guides Will Never Lead You Astray
“My guides must hate me! Why else would they lead me to things that cause me so much pain?” someone once said during a reading. “And where is my guardian angel when I need him?”
It was not the first time I’ve heard such sentiments from a distressed client. This kind of disappointment and frustration is not uncommon because it cuts to the heart of spiritual seeking.
It is certainly a valid concern. If angels, guides, and ancestors are meant to guide, support, and protect us, then why do they sometimes lead us to pain, heartache, and even trauma? Do they really have our backs, or are they inflicting suffering upon us for some strange reason?
I confess that there was a time in my own life when I also asked these kinds of questions.
But after years of working as a professional psychic and energy healer, as well as through my own spiritual growth journey, I’ve since come to a comforting conclusion. Our spirit helpers always operate from a place of divine wisdom, unconditional love and compassionate support.
Then why, you may ask, do bad things sometimes happen to good people? It’s simple, really. Any detour from our highest good does not occur because spirit somehow miscalculated, neglected, or misrepresented anything.
When we encounter trouble, it is usually our own doing, or something we co-created with others. Whatever the reason or cause, we alone are always the common denominator.
Below are a few examples of such self-inflicted calamities that I have repeatedly come across in my work, as well as how they differ from actual spirit guidance and divine intervention.
How She Found Her Way Back
Not every psychic reading begins in light. Some start in silence — the kind that weighs heavy in the heart.
When she first reached out to me, her question was brief, but the energy spoke volumes. There was pain behind her words, and she barely dared to ask: “Am I still in here somewhere?”
She had been in a relationship that, at first, felt exciting—perhaps even fated. “He swept me off my feet,” she once said. “I thought he saw me.”
And maybe he did, in the beginning — just enough to mirror back what she most longed to believe about herself. That she was worthy. That she was seen. That she was loved. But what unfolded was far from love.
The charm that once made her feel chosen gradually twisted into control, criticism, and a subtle erosion of her spirit. What looked like affection became possessiveness. What felt like closeness became confinement.
She had once been a vibrant, creative soul bursting with ideas and dreams.
But as time passed, she began to disappear. “I used to feel like a magical flame,” she confessed. “Now, I’m no more than a tiny heap of ashes under his tyranny.” Her sparkle had dulled. Her job unraveled. Her friendships faded.
But then she called me on Psychic Access and the runes reminded her that the embers of her true self and soul essence were still burning.
What To Expect From Your First Psychic Reading
Getting a psychic reading for the first time is exciting, but also a bit intimidating, or even nerve-wracking. You may experience a mix of emotions: intrigue, excitement, nervousness, and even skepticism. That’s all completely normal!
If you’re unsure about what to expect, how to prepare, or which questions to ask, we’ve got your back. At Psychic Access, we understand the range of emotions that accompany your first session.
That’s why we’ve created this guide to help you feel more prepared, empowered, and open to the insights that await you. Your first reading is a deeply personal experience, and we’re here to ensure that it is also empowering, enlightening, and transformative.
The first step to having a powerful reading is knowing why you’re seeking one. What is your goal or intention? Why are you seeking a reading?
Are you seeking clarity about a relationship or your love life? Do you need insight on your career or business, or finances? Do you want spiritual guidance with your path or purpose. Or are you simply curious?
A reading with an expert psychic or medium can be a powerful, life-changing experience. Defining your intention sets the energetic tone of your session and lays the foundation for meaningful guidance.
Take a moment to center yourself and ask, “What do I hope to gain from this reading?” Having a clear purpose allows spirit to align the reading with your highest good.
You Are More Powerful Than You Know!
You have a lot more creative spiritual power in you than you probably realize.
Within you resides the spark of divine intelligence, the same infinite creative force that shaped the stars and set the universe in motion. Seriously.
You’re not just a physical being trying to figure out life — you’re a creative force of energy with access to something incredible: your higher self.
When you begin to connect with your soul light within, everything begins to shift. Your energy changes. Your mindset changes. And before you know it, your whole life can start to look and feel completely different — your relationships, your health, your money, your confidence, everything.
And the fastest way to raise your vibration and step into this next-level version of you? It starts by synchronizing your heart, mind and body with the light and wisdom of your higher self.
To begin moving into this higher energy, you need a clear vision of where you want to go. This is more than daydreaming — it is creating a real energetic blueprint for the life you want.
Find a quiet, comfortable place where you feel safe and comfortable. Then begin to write out your future life as if it’s already happening. Imagine yourself a few years from now — how are you living? Who are the people around you? What do you wake up every day looking forward to?