Posts Tagged ‘significant other’

We are all walking magnets. We attract or we bounce off of one another. When we are lucky enough to find someone whom we don’t bounce off of, and feel a connection or desire to be with that person, it’s because we need something from them that can help us on some level. It could be spiritual, emotional or psychical.

There has to be something to help us evolve in this incarnation in order for us to feel that connection, or rather desire, to spend time with a person or share the same space for a time. I feel that this attraction remains alive and fresh; it never thins, our or dies out. It is the ‘magic ingredient’, if you will, that keeps us with a spouse or partner with whom we are in a relationship. Read the rest of this entry »

Just the concept of someone being in a position of knowing anything, no matter the type of expert they are can be intimidating for all of us. Add to that the creepy sounding  title of snooping around in someone’s heads without their permission can be intriguing to most people, but what if we don’t know who the person is who is determining the consequences of these thoughts?

Imagine the inconsistency between judgments and actual outcomes if we predetermined a relationship based on what a person was thinking now. For example:  him thinking he wants to marry you does not mean he will marry you. Or thinking of ending it with you is not necessarily what he will do so, nor if he thinks of dating other women that he will. Read the rest of this entry »

The Nine (a group of guides I work with) are stressing that I remind you that I am on this journey with you! It occurs to me, as you are sharing your life with me, that I am also sharing my life and experience with you.

Yes, I am psychic, and I know my primary function is to give you information you are unable to see, or to validate information you do feel and see, so that you can make more informed choices.

However, in all of this, I am very connected to you emotionally and care about you deeply. I have experienced many similar experiences and I am not ‘better’ than you! You get no judgment from me, or your guides, as to how you conduct your life. Read the rest of this entry »

Recently, I’ve been seeing a lot of soulmate connections coming together for many of my clients and friends. Having this on my mind, I thought perhaps you might also be interested in the subject of soulmates.

First of all, we connect with other people on many different levels:  spiritual, intellectual, physical, emotional, soul purpose, and life path. Not every soulmate will connect on all of these levels. Some will connect on just one level. You will feel a very strong bond with this person, but only on that one level.

The term ‘soulmate’, as it is generally perceived, usually indicates that you connect on four or five of these levels with the same person. A relationship with someone where you are connecting on this many levels is rare and can be pretty overwhelming, as well as unforgettable. Read the rest of this entry »

Sometimes we all get so busy pursuing our work that we forget the value of the current moment.

I, for sure, don’t set the best example of work-life balance, but I am learning each day from clients – here on earth and in the spirit world – how important it is to appreciate what we have now, rather than always striving towards the future.

One of my greatest life lessons is learning to be present for myself and the people that I love.

I remember a wise friend once sharing a well-known quote with me: “the past is history, the future is a mystery and now is a gift – that’s why we call it the present”. I don’t recall where this wonderful quote originates, but I love it. Read the rest of this entry »

To outward appearances, endings are a structural matter – now there is a relationship, now there is no relationship. From the soul point of view, ending is a different experience of the relationship.

Ending is not literal at all, but rather a radical shift in imagination. For example, a woman’s father passes on. In her soul the relationship may now intensify and may become the dominant myth shaping her other relationships, her career, and every other aspect of her life.

Memories of her father may now become more vivid than ever, and new feelings may surface. He may be more influential in her life now than when he was alive.

Another example might be a man who divorces his wife, thinking that now his thoughts will turn toward a new life. With the struggle of decision and separation now passed, feelings formerly nudged out of awareness now come to the forefront. Read the rest of this entry »

Dear Beloveds,

You have come from a culture that values self-sacrifice to the point of personal harm and degradation. We use such a powerful and strong statement to describe the outcome of your choices made in this context, because our message to you today is about ‘Selfishness’ and ‘Taking Care of Self’.

Your concern for not only the feelings of others, but also their perception of you gets in your way over and over again. You strive to fit yourselves into a mold of another’s expectations and values. We would never tell you not to consider other’s feelings in your decision-making, for truly we are all connected, and in the most direct and physical way possible, every choice you make, emotion you feel, song you sing, affects everything around you! Read the rest of this entry »

There is one power far greater than any power in the universe and that is the power of love. No one can break that cord between you and that someone special. Once a love that deep is established, no matter what happens in life, there will always be those feelings tugging at your heart strings and you will always and forever be connected to that person.

We all experience many incarnations, but we don’t keep reincarnating into the same world. We go to different worlds to perfect our love for the Almighty. It cannot be accomplished in just one lifetime.

When we gravitate to a certain individual it is because we have a ‘love cord’ connecting us to that person. It’s like two magnets – we either bounce off each other or we attract each other instantly. Read the rest of this entry »