The Cautionary Tale Of The Lovestruck Witch

Once upon a time, there was a goodly witch named Wanda. Though she sometimes had a fiery temper, her heart was generally in the right place.

For many years, Wanda lived a cozy life with her partner, Colwyn the Brave, in a happy and fulfilling relationship.

But one day, out of the blue, Colwyn announced that he was ending the relationship. Although he still loved Wanda, he explained that he no longer had the romantic or emotional feelings necessary to sustain the relationship.

But Wanda was no fool. Fee-fi-fo-fum, she knew by the prick of her thumb…that he was lying through his teeth! The truth was that he had decided to dump her for her so-called best friend, Suvanna the Enchantress.

Wanda was devastated. She had dedicated more than two decades of her life to this man, standing by him through thick and thin. And her friend’s betrayal only added further insult to injury.

Realizing the extent of the pain he had caused, Colwyn tried to comfort Wanda, assuring her that one day she would meet someone who would make her much happier than he ever had.

But his words fell on deaf ears. Wanda was heartbroken and very, very angry.

Then she remembered…she was a witch. She could make things happen, especially with the help of her sisterhood of witches.

“I will get him back,” she vowed with a raised fist. “If necessary, I will move heaven and earth to do it.”

With the support of her coven, Wanda set out to use magic to bring Colwyn back. Together they devised an elaborate spell, knowing it would take time to manifest, but Wanda was patient. Every detail had to be perfect: timing the moon phase of the ritual, preparing the incantations, brewing the most powerful love potion – with just the right amount of herbs and essential oils for maximum effect.

The truth is unless you let go—forgive yourself, forgive the situation, realize the past is over—you cannot move forward ~ Steve Maraboli

Wanda didn’t just want Colwyn back – she wanted him back for good. She was very pleased with her plan.

But one day, while walking in the enchanted forest near her home, she met the Wise Woman of the Woods. Brimming with excitement, Wanda confidently told her about her plan to win Colwyn back. The Wise Woman listened intently, then sighed and shook her head.

“You may have magical powers, my dear,” she said, “but are you using them properly? It’s great to have power, but only if you use it wisely.”

Wanda was both astonished and a little annoyed. The old woman’s honesty surprised her, but her words struck a chord.

“Know this and be forewarned,” the wise old crone continued. “You are acting against a man’s free will. Yes, you can manipulate his mind and body to convince him to return, but his heart will never be in it.”

Wanda began to wonder if she really wanted to be with someone who didn’t really want to be with her? Could she face a man every day knowing that he was with her out of compulsion, rather than desire?

After much soul searching, Wanda realized that this was not what she really wanted. To the astonishment of her coven, she called off the magical plan and let Colwyn follow his free will path without her influence or interference.

Colwyn never returned to Wanda. Instead, he moved on with someone else (after later also dumping the duplicitous Suvanna). And Wanda moved on, too. In time, both found happiness again, proving that sometimes letting go is the best way forward. And just like in fairy tales, they all lived happily ever after, except maybe Suvanna, who was never heard from again.

Seek not that the things which happen should happen as you wish; but wish the things which happen to be as they are, and you will have a tranquil flow of life ~ Epictetus

How To Let Go And Move On

While the above may or may not be a fable, it conveys an important truth: sometimes we need to let go, even when it feels impossible, for the greater good of all involved. How do we do this, especially when love still lingers? Consider the following sage advice:

No Contact: Minimize or eliminate all contact with your ex. Continued interactions only intensify feelings, reopen wounds, and hinder your ability to move on. Create physical and digital boundaries by unfollowing or muting them on social media. The distance will allow you to focus on your own recovery and well-being.

Express Yourself: Suppressing your anger, pain, and disappointment will not help you heal. It’s hard, but allowing yourself to truly feel and process your emotions is an important step toward recovery and getting an ex out of your system. Write in your journal, cry if you need to, hit a pillow with a baseball bat, or express your feelings through art or music. Emotions are like waves-they come and go, but acknowledging them helps the healing process.

Social Support: Reach out to a trusted friend, family member, or colleague for emotional support. Talking about your feelings with someone you trust can provide tremendous relief. Consider joining a support group or seeking professional counseling if necessary. Building a network of understanding people will help you feel less alone during this difficult time.

Spirit Support: Ask your departed loved ones, ancestors, spirit guides, or the angels for support, guidance and healing. Spirit can offer wisdom and guidance, helping you to navigate your feelings, understand the lessons from the breakup, and find the strength to move forward. Call on Archangel Raphael, the archangel of emotional healing for comfort. Whether you speak aloud or silently in your mind, he will hear you and help. Visualize his soothing green light surrounding you, bringing peace to your heart. Remember to thank him for his divine assistance.

Prioritize Self-Care: Shift your energy away from your ex and redirect it to personal and spiritual self-care. Invest time in activities that bring you joy and fulfillment. Exercise regularly, meditate to find inner peace, eat nutritious foods, and spend time in nature to recharge. This is your time to rediscover your passions and prioritize your happiness.

Energy Healing: Energy healing can be a powerful tool for recovering from a relationship breakup by balancing emotions, reducing stress, and promoting relaxation. It also promotes self-awareness, self-love, and compassion while addressing unresolved trauma and emotional wounds. Methods such as Reiki, acupuncture, crystal healing, and chakra balancing can provide significant support on your healing journey.

Find Forgiveness: Forgiving someone who has hurt you isn’t easy, but it’s necessary for your own peace of mind. Forgiving doesn’t mean condoning their actions; it means releasing the burden of anger, bitterness, and resentment. This act of letting go will lighten your emotional load and allow you to move forward with a clear heart.

Practice Gratitude: Even in the midst of heartache, there is always room for gratitude. Reflect on the positive aspects of the relationship and what it has taught you. Perhaps it provided valuable lessons, cherished memories, or personal growth. Gratitude helps shift your perspective and opens your heart to new possibilities.

Rediscover Yourself: Sometimes in a long relationship, we lose touch with who we are as individuals. Take time to think about your personal interests, hobbies, and goals. What activities or dreams have you put aside? Reconnecting with your authentic, original self will help you rebuild your confidence and develop a stronger sense of identity and renewed purpose.

Set New Goals: One of the best ways to move forward is to create a vision for your future. What do you want to accomplish in the next month, year, or even five years? These goals don’t have to be monumental-they can be small steps like learning a new skill, planning a trip, or tackling a project. Setting goals will give you a sense of purpose and excitement about what’s to come.

Trust The Process: Healing takes time, and there will be times when it feels like progress is slow or nonexistent. Trust that letting go is part of life’s journey and that everything happens for a reason. Believe that the universe has better plans for you, even if you can’t see them yet. Be patient with yourself and remember that better days are ahead.

By incorporating these strategies into your healing process, you’ll gradually find yourself letting go of the past and stepping into a brighter, more fulfilling future. Remember, just like Wanda the sensible witch, you have the power within you to release what no longer serves you and embrace the life you truly deserve.