Teaching Others How To Treat You
Do you also believe that we teach others how to treat us? It is a motto I have religiously adhered to for most of my adult life. However, I must add that I have made some radical changes to my ‘teaching strategy’ over the years, and this change in my approach has brought me much inner peace and harmony with others. I have learned that we can ‘teach others’ with much less fuss and drama.
In my early adulthood I used to take a firm stand on just about everything and everyone who I felt were out of line. I am someone who often feels compelled to stand up for others, as well as for myself and my beliefs. I also have this annoying habit of constantly wanting to side with the ‘underdog’ in any given situation. Like most empaths, I just cannot come to grips with any form of injustice or underhanded behavior. Circumstances that are unfair, dishonest or cruel really trouble me, and people who are unreasonable, inconsiderate or simply mean have always been one of my ‘pet peeves’. Continue reading
New Paths, New Roads, New Life
I recently went through a very traumatic personal experience. Yet, through the veil of pain I realized what a wondrous thing had happened. I had experienced and learned invaluable lessons about synchronicity, and also about myself and how I operate. The whole experience was a real eye opener.
We often speak of people entering our lives for specific reasons. Most people nod when they hear this; we have all experienced this, no exception. But there is a difference between acknowledging and knowing.
In my younger years I was traumatized every time someone left my life: friends, family, romantic partners. Each of these experiences hit me in a different way, according to the role each person had in my life. When my friends left I felt I would never again be as close to someone as I had been with them. If a family member left I felt abandoned. And when my romantic partner left I felt lonely. Continue reading
The Babysitter Who Changed My Life
While I was working out today at the gym, which I try and do most mornings, I saw a little old lady who used to babysit me and my brothers when we were little children.
I will never the wonderful times we had with her. She was always making it so much fun. She wasn’t on the phone all the time or watching television. She wasn’t ignoring us kids like so many of the other babysitters my mother sometimes hired to watch us.
This morning I walked up to her and her daughter in the gym and told her that I remember her so well. I also thanked her for giving me some wonderful memories and teaching me so many valuable life lessons. The one thing I specifically remember her telling me was to always be careful about what we “put into our minds”. At a young age she had already made me realize that what we think about can either help us or harm us. I have always held on to that wisdom in my life. Because it is worth more than gold. Continue reading
The Mystery Woman In The Kitchen
I had an unusual childhood as the member of a psychic family. I also grew up in a haunted house, which is something we did not openly discuss in those days.
One particular ‘ghost’ story is something I will never forget. It was one of those unusual instances where my psychic abilities would not provide any of the answers. It was also an incident that would change my family forever.
My mother was terminally ill and shortly before she passed away we were sitting in the living room talking to her. She kept referring to this woman she saw cooking dinner in the kitchen. She described this woman as being in her early 60’s, with an apron and light, goldfish brown hair. My mother was not pleased that this stranger was busy cooking in her kitchen. What was she doing there? Continue reading
Quantum Versus Classical Living
Every day we run into people. We meet clerks, bus drivers, cashiers and all kinds of people that we bump into around the neighborhood.
We greet and are greeted in different ways. We pick up on other peoples energies based on how they treat us, and sometimes we can telepathically feel what they are feeing and telling us with their eyes.
It’s up to us, each of us, to give light or darkness in every single interaction we have with one another.
I hope to empower each and every person and inspire everyone who reads this at this very moment. I want us to awaken from this very sleepy realm we live in; this physical weighed down realm. Continue reading
Digging Up Old Landmines
There is a conscious awareness that has been making itself known for as long as time has existed. The ascension shift is here and many of us are feeling it, the more unpleasant aspects seem to be the topic of discussion with many of my clients lately.
Now surfacing are emotional issues that had been restrained for so very long. The ones that have created the same chaos in your life over and over again. The emotions and behaviors that seem to destroy your dreams, your goals or your relationships.
At times some of these emotions and behaviors are in place unconsciously to destroy anything in their path; after all they kept us safe. Or did they? I believed they protected me from impending failure, for it is better in your mind’s eye to shut down on your own terms and not anyone else’s. Continue reading
Sixth Sense A Link To The Other Side
It is generally accepted that we only have five senses, namely sight, hearing, smell, feeling and tasting. But have you ever wondered about the sixth sense?
Believe or not, we all have six senses. There is the normal five, but each of them has a deeper dimension, which is collectively known as the ‘sixth sense’.
When someone close to us crosses over to the other side they use our sixth sense to let us know that they’re still around. Not only do they do this to let us know that they are in a better place now, but also to reassure us that they’re thinking about us. Continue reading