Yes, setting boundaries does pave the way to better relationships! The best way to back up this claim is to share with you an experience I’m having with a new friend.

First, some background. We live in close proximity, each in private quarters. We enjoy each other’s company and mostly respect each other’s privacy. I love her spontaneity and we spawn that in each other.

Our initial meeting was serendipitous, and as I am learning, so are our respective lives. We “get” each other, although we have lived very different lives.

As we got to know each other, she started to talk about things that were highly personal. She’d knock frantically at my door, even when the “Reading in Progress” sign was on the door – just to ask my opinion on which dress she should wear. I moved the sign higher, because she’s tall and I thought maybe she couldn’t see it. Read more »

It is always good to hear a new client tell you that they have finally found someone to read for them that they feel they can trust.

Just last week a new client said she never knew that she could actually trust psychics. After yet another bad experience with a psychic in her area, she decided to search the Internet to find a reliable psychic. When she came across Psychic Access and saw their strict hiring policies, she felt that she had found the right place. Read more »

The fifth chakra, or Vishuddhi is located at the neck. It is symbolized by a silver crescent within a white circle, with 16 pale blue, or turquoise petals. The animal totem of the fifth chakra is the white elephant. The musical note that resonates with this chakra is “G”.  It is considered the communication chakra and its color is blue.

The fifth chakra rules the shoulders (with the fourth chakra), as well as the neck, throat, vocal chords and esophagus. The corresponding gland is the thyroid. Foods to stimulate the fifth chakra include blueberries and water. Physically, Vishuddhi governs communication, emotionally it governs independence, mentally it governs fluent thought, and spiritually it governs a sense of security. Read more »

As a psychic reader I often deal with questions about love and relationships. Many clients have questions about meeting their soulmates, and I usually explain what a soulmate is and then immediately help them out with the proper terminology.

I’m a Virgo, so naturally I have to be precise. I don’t know if it’s a blessing or annoyance, but my clients always seem grateful for the knowledge. Sometimes I will just email them additional information, as I don’t want long explanations to cut into precious reading time. If you want to know the difference between the three kinds of soul connections read my blog post titled: Soulmate, Twin Flame or Spirit Twin? Read more »

In the psychic world we often refer to the seven “clairs” when discussing psychic abilities. “Clair” is French for “clear.” In the mortal, mundane world, we receive messages via text, email, or in person all the time. In the psychic realm there are almost infinite numbers of ways to send and receive messages, and if you’re gifted with one of the “clairs” as some people are, you will know this.

While we as humans only have five senses, there are believed to be seven basic types of psychic ability: clairvoyance, clairsentience, clairaudience, clairtangency, clairscent, clairgustance, and claircognizance.
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I am still not sure why I tend to attract challenging, and sometimes negative personalities into my private space. Am I truly enabling others to give me this lesson over and over again?

I know that having the very experience of these negative souls in my space enables me to identify with the customers I read for. Many of my clients find themselves either in a similar situation, or in a situation whereby they love someone who doesn’t reciprocate their kind or encouraging ways.

Not a day goes by that I will not come across instances where one of my callers is subject to abusive, manipulative or controlling behavior, be it from a spouse, child, neighbor, colleague, or friend. Read more »

No one gets out of here unscathed; we all have scars. But we must remember to let go of that which is no longer a positive influence in our lives. These influences could be a variety of things: from holding on to traumatic memories and the sadness that it brought you, to not letting go of a lover that doesn’t respect your relationship.

You deserve to be treated the way you treat your significant other. It is a waste of your time and energy to love someone who is unwilling to show you the same love in return. There are many other connections we could be making that can be just as strong and significant. Read more »

No matter how hard we try, it often feels that nothing in life ever changes. The truth is, something always changes. We change.

We have all said the wrong thing, at the wrong time and to the wrong person. We have all yelled at the gods in some way, or blamed the wrong people for choices we made ourselves. We have all felt badly about ourselves. We are not always happy at the end of a day. But somehow we always make it through.

We sometimes wonder why we spend so much time alone, yet we fail to realize that our very aura puts out an energy that builds a wall around us, so no one wants to come in. We don’t realize that no matter how we pretend to ourselves that we are trying to be positive, no matter how much we want to make it about “no one loves me, I’m going to go eat some worms,” our pity for ourselves creates an aura, an energy, that tells others that we don’t like ourselves. Read more »