What To Do When He Disappears Into His Cave

He tells you he loves you, wants to be with you all the time, and can’t get enough of you. He calls and texts you constantly, and you feel like you’ve found the perfect relationship. You love the way he makes you feel. He must be “the one.”

Then, suddenly, he’s gone. No calls, no texts, no dates, nothing. Ghosted.

And you’re left wondering: What happened? Where did he go? Was it something I said, or did?

Well, no. He just retreated into his “cave.” It is where your man goes to think, breathe, and figure out what’s going on in his head.

This is the mysterious and often frustrating time-out that men often take when they realize things are moving too fast, or when they start to feel deeply attached.

For us women, especially those who are spiritually aware and emotionally intuitive, this sudden withdrawal can be very confusing and even painful.

Women tend to thrive on connection and open communication, and we naturally want to nurture and support others. So, when the man we care about suddenly becomes distant, it can trigger our deepest fears of abandonment or rejection.

But here’s what you need to understand: his retreat is not about you.

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