Posts Tagged ‘ego’

My mother is a wonderful woman. Kind-hearted, giving, a great cook and a good listener. In short she is all the things a good mother should be.

My mother is also the most mean-spirited and callous woman you could ever not want to meet. She will cause a scene just to do it, just to get a rise out of someone, because she is bored and isn’t getting paid any attention. Which, to her, is all the time.

My mother is bipolar, with severe manic-depressive mood swings that leave you gasping for breath in the wake of an episode, the same way you gasp for breath after being sucked under by a huge wave of water. My mother has Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). There, but for the Grace of God, go I, as the saying goes. Read the rest of this entry »

People who are ‘old souls’ or, if you prefer, ‘highly enlightened beings’, become drained very quickly when around others of lower energetic vibrations. Why does this happen, a dear client of mine asked me recently. I meditated on this and asked God, the Source of all Love and Light, and what came to me was the following.

We become drained, because when our heart is open and we are connected to the Divine we unfortunately encounter souls who have not progressed enough, so there is negative inside of them, which causes the sensitive or empathic person to become drained very quickly.

These negative souls are also known to us humans here on Earth as energy vampires. These people drain our energy, because they do not know how to silence the mind and recharge their own batteries without someone else’s help. So, with their negative emotions they can get to us. Read the rest of this entry »

The creativity of the mind is like the mind of a child, working with LEGO® to assemble buildings, roads, cars, paintings. The mind is limited to the lower worlds, whether it deals with physical or energetic solutions, the mind can only work with what it knows. The mind cannot create anything spiritual.

Cultivated spiritual energy can be passed down to the mind, but the mind cannot create spiritual concepts. The intellect is not the point of origin for creativity. It only thinks it is.

We must align ourselves with Spiritual Energies if we want to reach higher states of consciousness and access a creativity that extends beyond the confines of the known laws of earth. So, the key to true creativity is not rearranging the concepts we already know, but to clear the way for Spiritual energies to alter our concepts of ourselves and our world. Read the rest of this entry »

We have to actuate what we learn. Talking is not becoming. We need to apply what we learn and know. Just like we know how to diet and exercise, it does not do us much good unless we apply what we know.

We all have a Higher Self that is connected to Source. Teachers, gurus, meditation, are all tools that we use to bypass the Mind in order to speak to our Higher Self, our Soul Energy. They are tools that create a pathway for Soul to have a voice, the dominant voice, in our day to day life. It is what Einstein was referring to when he said we cannot possibly solve a problem with the same mind that created the problem. We shift consciousness to access our Higher Self. Read the rest of this entry »

Are you truly happy? It’s quite normal and perfectly understandable if you are not. These days many people feel their lives leave much to be desired. Discontent truly is the ‘disease of our time’, and it feels as if our world is increasingly spinning out of control. Too many of us are wandering aimlessly through our lives.

But if you knew your potential to live a life of joy, purpose and contentment, you would never again spend another moment living any other way. Within you looms the potential for authentic happiness so infinitely beyond everyday measure, or common human understanding, that you will never again be willing to settle for anything less.

This is in essence what my new book Divine Living: The Essential Guide To Your True Destiny is about. It is a practical spirituality handbook for realigning with your Divine Self, and for reclaiming your birthright to enjoy a truly Divine Life.

Many people have in recent years experienced a profound spiritual awakening, but not everyone has been able to integrate their newfound spiritual awareness into the practical reality of their everyday life. I wrote Divine Living for this very reason. It is my hope that it will empower and inspire people to finally start living the connected and blissfully abundant life they always intended to have, since long before they were born.

Divine Living is the preferred lifestyle choice for many spiritually awakened souls all over the world. It is the new way of being that changes your life and perception of reality forever. As a species we are currently experiencing the inevitable dawning of a new era in human ascension. The new age of conscious evolution has begun. My goal with Divine Living is to provide the sincere spiritual seeker with a personal survival guide to successfully navigate this looming, global paradigm shift that is currently gaining critical mass all over the planet. Read the rest of this entry »

Some people seem to take the Law of Attraction to mean that if we “want” something long and hard enough we should get it. And if somehow we don’t, it is probably our own fault if we don’t get it! This to me is like a small child wanting to eat candy all day, and spending time praying for that when we adults know that so much sugar would only make one feel sick.

The secret to the Law of Attraction is not to ‘lust’ after material things, relationships, our version of success, and so forth. All those desires of the ego are literally like candy to a child.

“If only I had … (fill in the blank) I would be … (fill in the blank… with “happy” or “content” or “successful”).  When we make a statement like that, we make the material world the ‘god’ that we worship and pray to for happiness. Read the rest of this entry »

We all have dreams, big and small, but many of us are afraid to go after them. However, that is not what God intended. We have to ignore the ‘nay sayers’ and our own ego that tells us that we can’t do it, or that we have to live inside of a box and play it safe. We are all cosmic sparks that come from the same source and we decided to live here on Earth and overcome and learn from negativity.

It is very sad to see people waste their talents, because we were given those talents to use and to grow them to their fullest potential. If you like to write and it feels natural to you, then write as much as you can. if you are an artist then create art, and so on.

My brother Scott is an extremely gifted athlete and it has always seemed to come naturally to him, no matter what the sport. But he tends to let his ego give him doubts and doesn’t put himself in positions to use those talents at a high level. Read the rest of this entry »

I’ve written many blogs about psychic issues, spirituality, God, The Goddess, The Universe and so forth. The more answers I get the more questions arise. And I am always learning and being shown new ways, paths and messages. This is one of those messages.

We ask so often, “Why does this happen? What is the answer? Why did he hurt me?” I have at times also asked these questions, because I am human after all. Anything I teach I have learned the lesson myself – very often the hard way! But I have found that for many questions, ultimately, there are few answers. Because the answers we think we want can never truly satisfy us. Why am I bringing this up? Why am I talking about this and what am I even talking about, you may well ask. It’s because of an experience that happened to me recently. Read the rest of this entry »