Are You Desperately Seeking Your Soulmate?

As a psychic reader, I often deal with questions about love and relationships. Many clients ask about meeting their soulmate, twin flame, or special life partner.

A dear client once told me how desperate she was to find her soulmate. She said she wouldn’t be happy until she met him, as she believed he would complete her.

But Spirit did not respond with a simplistic prediction or quick fix. The message was clear and direct: she would never find a man to complete her. Instead, she would have to find happiness and fulfillment from within. Only after she accomplished this would she be able to find lasting happiness in a relationship.

I gave her some things she could do to help her and I was later thrilled to get an email from her telling me how thankful she was. She was looking to all the wrong things and people to give her the happiness she so desired.

She then asked me the right question and I was so happy she remembered! How could she connect with her true beloved?

I remote viewed and explained where I saw him and felt it was someone from her past and how she could find him by simply not looking, and we discussed many different things about this person.

She never realized it, until I finally mentioned to her, that this was her best friend that she had been in touch with for many years. They had had their ups and downs, but as I explained, even the best of marriages are like roller-coaster rides. It is not the easy connections that we gain the greatest amount of soul growth from. Instead, the relationships that aren’t easy are the ones that you become wiser from and gain the most wisdom from.

The minute I heard my first love story I started looking for you, not knowing how blind that was. Lovers don’t finally meet somewhere. They’re in each other all along ~ Rumi

She told me how he always wanted to date her, but she always looked at him as only a friend. She finally after 25 years asked him out on an official date and they are planning on getting married next month.

I’m so happy that I could help her see her life from all angles and help her to pinpoint and target through remote viewing who her twin flame was. It was after all the one that was closest to her that she could connect with right away. She called me up a month later and told me how happy she is, and how much joy and happiness they have together.

I poked fun at her to make her laugh, because I remember her first call to me and how desperate she was, and insecure, and fragmented emotionally. I reminded her what she said to me the first time I read for her, “I am desperately seeking my soulmate.”

She laughed and said how silly that sounded to her now. She was now anything but desperate.

How To Align With Your Beloved

When we stop chasing love and start nurturing the soul, we shift into the frequency where our twin flame can finally reach us. Alignment isn’t about fixing ourselves to be worthy. It’s about returning to our wholeness so we can recognize the mirror of our own soul in another.

Whether your true beloved is already in your life, waiting to reconnect, or yet to appear, these practices can help bring you into spiritual alignment with that sacred union.

Heal your core wounds: Begin by facing the emotional pain you’ve been carrying. Twin flames trigger our deepest fears—not to harm, but to heal. Emotional clearing invites clarity and transformation.

Stop searching, start becoming: Release the obsessive search for “the one.” Instead, focus on becoming the version of yourself that’s aligned with deep, soulful love.

Nurture your inner world: Meditate, journal, sit in stillness. The quieter your mind, the louder your intuition becomes—and twin flame connections are always felt on a soul level first.

Clear energetic clutter: Let go of old relationship ties, unhealed heartbreaks, and energetic cords that no longer serve you. Your energy must be clear to call in something so profound.

Raise your vibration: Do things that bring you joy, creativity, peace, and flow. When your energy radiates light, your twin flame can sense you—even across time and space.

Accept divine timing: Trust the unfolding. You cannot force a sacred union. Your paths will cross at the moment of highest soul alignment.

Strengthen the relationship you have with yourself: How you treat yourself sets the tone for all other relationships. Become your own beloved, and your twin flame will reflect that love back to you.

Be open to the unexpected: Your true beloved may not look or appear how you imagined. Stay open-hearted. Sometimes they’ve been right beside you all along.

Remember, a soulmate connection is not about finding someone to complete you. It’s about awakening to the powerful truth that you were always whole, and allowing that truth to magnetize a love that reflects your soul’s highest light.