We have all tried at one time or another to help someone close to us, because we wanted to do something nice for them. People with gifts to see, hear and feel will know what I’m speaking of here. Of course, we can’t just go up to someone randomly if we had decided to stay ‘tuned in’ when we are out and about. It is usually at these times that the urge to approach or assist may come up. I have an abundance of energy and feel it not necessary to turn off my psychic abilities, for example when I am just quickly running down to the grocery store, or stopping at the library.
There are times in life when people must know when not to let go. Balloons are designed to teach small children this ~ Terry Pratchett
Sometimes, while waiting in line, just because I am bored, I might ‘turn on’ and just scan people’s energy, aura, thoughts. see just whatever intuitive flashes come in. Some psychics may claim they never do that, but we all do at times, of that I am sure. Sometimes we just cannot help it.
We do it, however, with good intentions. I will often send out comforting, loving energy to someone an aisle away, whom I see may be struggling with the loss of a loved one. Or I may share some healing energy with a person with poor health or send some strength to a young mother who is a little frazzled, because she has demanding children with her. I will send people an extra amount of uplifting energy to help carry them through their day.
However, not everyone is eager to help their neighbor, and we can also only help people who wish to help themselves. Some people know better, but do nothing to change their lives to make their quality of life better, either for themselves or for a loved one. One example that comes to mind is a friend whom I shared a deep concern with in private. Someone in her family was repeatedly doing something to hinder their own health and mental well-being, and in doing so created a negative domino effect inside his family.
After sharing this knowledge with my friend, whom I thought would care, since this person is a close relative, she did absolutely nothing to help. She chose to remain silent, and decided to play the denial card. Later on, within a year, the relative I warned her about fell ill and had to be hospitalized,. In my opinion this was the Divine’s way of trying to wake this family up. I have seen dis-ease so abundantly in some families, that most of the members in the family suffered some form of bodily illness to one degree or another.
So, sometimes people do know better, but do not want to do anything about it. Anger can be deadly in the body, it can really affect your own wellness, as well as the people around you. When one lives with so much denial it can create so much tension, anxiety, and stress. When we deprive ourselves of peace and happiness, we really can invite a bunch of negative things into our lives.
Letting go doesn’t mean that you don’t care about someone anymore. It’s just realizing that the only person you really have control over is yourself ~ Deborah Reber
I have been around a group of people that has so much sickness that it is just baffling to me that they are not all in counseling. I feel that this particular group was raised in so much anger that it just created a huge disconnect from the Divine spark inside of them, that it just set them up for so many trials in both the physical and mental health departments. So much so that healing is never available to them.
I pray today that all who read this that know of someone who is dealing with stress, tension, or any form of mental distress will recognize that they can bring healing into their own lives from doing a few of the following things:
1. Remove any negative people from your life that emanate angry negative tension
2. If you are a healer or seer who is around someone who doesn’t want to change and you have no choice but to be around them, be it on the holidays or whenever, it may be best to stop directing healing energy their way. Take care of yourself first, because it can be very draining and these people don’t care. As well intentioned and loving as you want to be, you have to realize they are on their own path, they have chosen a path to not change, and maybe in some way there is a lesson in there for them to learn through self-inflicted suffering. Sometimes we ought not mess with their fate, even though we want them to feel and do better. We have to recognize we have done enough indirectly and cannot continue. Accept that it is sometimes just too draining on you, especially when your loved ones clearly keep tripping up in life and don’t want to make the necessary changes to have a better life.
3.Let go and let God. We can pray for those that don’t want healing and to make positive choices. But we must learn that that is all we can do. Otherwise we will inevitably continue to drain our own energy trying to help people who simply don’t want that healing change. Through prayer we give it to God. We have to learn to let it go and work around people that truly want to be proactive and want a better life.
About The Author: Moon Goddess is a third generation empathic healer and seer. She started to give healing readings to people more than 20 years ago. She has always been interested and studied all things metaphysical from a young age. Being hypersensitive she can feel and see things before they happen. Utilizing the Tarot, and with the help of her Guides, she is a source of support for many people all over the world. After he passed over, her grandfather kept his promise and came back to say goodbye and gave her the most amazing experience. Moon knows there truly is a Heaven, and it is wonderful! Sharing her experience has helped many people after they have lost someone, or anyone experiencing some form of grief. Get a reading with Moon Goddess now at PsychicAccess.com.
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