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Many people have experienced, or at least know someone who has experienced a spirit coming into their space. There are, however, those who balk and laugh at even the notion that a spirit may exist. Some people are also terrified of paranormal phenomena, while there are those that co-exist comfortably with spirits, like old friends. Which person are you?

For the skeptic, just leave them to their beliefs. It is their right of free will to see what they choose to see, or not see what they choose not to see. Many of them have experienced some type of spirit encounter, however they have buried it and fluffed it off as nothing. With the skeptic, there is no use trying to convince them otherwise, as their mind is made up. And that is their prerogative.

In Eastern culture, people see ghosts, people talk about ghosts… it’s just accepted. And in Western culture it’s just not ~ Jessica Alba

Today’s message therefore is aimed at the other two sets of people: the fearful, and the complacent.

Spirits do live among us in all shapes and forms. They can be people who have crossed over intentionally (suicide); people who have crossed over without being ready and are stuck in-between realms(accidents); people that were abused terribly or murdered and refuse to cross over until justice or peace has been served; and finally our loved ones who have crossed over when you were not ready to let that person go.

I have spoken to many people that are terrified of the spirits they have in their homes. They tend to sleep with the lights on! I use the word sleep lightly, as they often tend to suffer from insomnia. The fear of the unknown, or that uneasy feeling is just too powerful for them to handle. They have nightmares of death and often they are a part of the nightmare, and do not know how to remove themselves from what is coming up for them.

People who live in fear and are totally uncomfortable with spirits in their home, most often just want them gone as quickly as possible.  The steps to remove an unwanted entity from your home are simple. You will need:

  • a white candle (can be a tea light or larger candle);
  • a candle holder that you don’t want any longer;
  • some smudge (white sage works best, however you can use a mix of white sage, cedar, lavender);
  • something to burn the sage in so you don’t burn yourself.  You are going to clear each room of the house, slowly and on purpose (meaning with intention in each step you take).

Go to the furthest room from the door and start there. Light your candle and light your smudge. Take a moment to smudge yourself. Just let the smoke of the smudge embrace your body, from your head to your feet. Allow the essence of the smudge to build its protective armor around you.

Apparitions are often confused with hauntings. The difference is that apparitions are ‘live’ (intelligent consciousness) and hauntings are ‘recordings.’ ~ Loyd Auerbach

Next, place your candle in the middle of the room and set it down.  Take your smudge and walk from corner to corner of the room while saying, “I acknowledge your presence in this room however it is time for you to follow the light and come with me. Thank you for seeing this white light which is meant for you.”

Pick up the candle and take your candle and smudge into each room and do the exact same thing. Place the candle on the floor, smudge each corner of the room, and repeat, “I acknowledge your presence in this room, however it is time for you to follow the light and come with me. Thank you for seeing this white light which is meant for you.”

Work your way from the outermost room to the door. Do not miss any rooms. If there are closets, open the doors while you are in the room and just give them a quick essence of smudge. You want to clear all entities from the space and leave it purified.

When you get to the door, take the candle, holder and all, outside the door and set it somewhere away from the home and allow it to burn out on its own. Do not blow it out. Just let it burn until it goes out on its own.

This next part is imperative: do not bring the candle or the holder back inside your home. When you take your garbage out, toss it in a bag or can. Do not take it in your car to take it away. Toss it in an outside disposal bin if you have access to one. Do not take it into a building. It is to be outside, so the entity that followed the white light will not re-appear inside your home, or anyone else’s.

This may have to be done more than once, however know that each time you are purifying your space and cleaning the aura of the room. You will soon notice the change. It will be very clear to you, or any family member who was overwhelmed by this energy.

If you or a family member is still frightened, even though you know you have cleared the house, purchase a Labradorite crystal and wear it, or keep it close to you or the family member who is having difficulties or fear. It will provide protection and a sense of calm to the person wearing it. It is a very inexpensive crystal, but very powerful.

Not all spirits are negative, nor do they intend to cause fear to the humans that are still living in the same space. Many spirits just want to laugh with you, enjoy your presence and watch over you.

There is certainly a world beyond our normal consciousness from which neither space nor time divides us, but only the barrier of our sense-perceptions…. this threshold is not immovable ~ William F. Barrett

My grandmother came to me within three days of her passing, to tell me she was okay. She gave me a sense of peace and I didn’t see her again. Years later, my mother came to me too, to let me know she was okay and that all was well where she was at. It was also a one-time visit.  However with my step-son who committed suicide and my father it was different.

My step-son started to show up at his house (he had left a wife and two beautiful boys) on a regular basis. He would turn lights on or the tap. In the middle of the night she would hear our grandsons talking and giggling on one of their rooms. They were only two and three years old at the time he passed. She would go investigate, as she thought they were up to mischief, however it would only be one of them in the room. When she asked who he was talking to, her boy would say “Daddy was here.”

Children are so intuitive and my daughter-in-law knew enough not to try to convince them otherwise. This brought a sense of peace to my grandsons, as they both experienced this on different occasions. My step-son still comes once in a while, to watch a race with us, or to just play around. My father has slowly let go as well. My granddaughter, who had never met my father, would stare in the corner at night, towards the ceiling, and just laugh, as my grandsons did. My father was there entertaining her. It was so sweet to see the light glow from her face. She was not afraid, she felt safe and loved.

Know that what you see, feel and hear from spirit can be amazing, if you allow it to come through. Before you kick them out of your space, talk to them, allow them to be a part of your space and then make a decision as to whether you would like them to stay and play, or to give them the boot.

About The Author: Sheri

Sheri is an international psychic and angel reader who provides clear answers on finance, career, relationships, manifesting your dreams, and working-out the kinks of life. Since 2004, Sheri is the owner on an International Spiritual Healing Centre where she runs her Reiki practice - either working on clients or teaching them the levels of Usui Reiki. She utilizes her office space for readings that are conducted via mail, phone, chat or live. Since 2008, she's honed her gifts on various psychic service websites, where she's provided telephone, chat or email readings. She also works on a spiritual network for people who have suffered horrific loss, applying her own first-hand experiences with such tragedies. Sheri's work has been described as honest, compassionate and life-transforming and she would like to see all of her clients soar free to a higher level of spirituality and growth, and exponentially change the world to the best it can be. You can get a psychic reading from Sheri at

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