Let It Be, Let it Go…

I know a few friends who feel they have to control everything. They are seldom happy. Always frazzled. They seem to have this constant air of uptightness and anxiousness about them.

Do you know anyone like this? Often times, when doing readings for people who have control issues, there is a song that usually comes to mind for me: Let It Be by John Lennon and The Beatles. It is a wonderful song that talks about letting things just be and go where they are supposed to.

I have found that people that feel they have to have everything a certain way, who try to dominate how things are going to be, have so much unnecessary distress in their lives. People who instead just go with the flow, and allow life happen as it will, generally are more serene and often even seem to be in a state of bliss.

Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. Don’t resist them; that only creates sorrow. Let reality be reality. Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like ~ Lao Tzu

I like to live in a state of Zen and take things one day at a time. I try not to make too many plans, as I know things can easily and quickly change. I just try to live in the now and let the future take care of itself. Life is simply easier that way, and much more carefree. Just how I like it.

If you find you are getting easily stressed out, or hysterical about the smallest details, it could be that you are taking on too much and not spending enough time in solitude and quiet contemplation. Meditation is wonderful for those wanting to bring clarity and inner peace to their lives.

So, just let it go where it’s supposed to and enjoy the ride of life. Everyone loves to be around people who are calm and joyful. It is after all your birthright to be happy, and happiness is a choice. Choose to be happy and you will reap wonderful health and well-being benefits.