Everything Happens For A Reason

Challenges, setbacks and disappointments are inevitable in life. Sometimes it can even feel like the entire universe is conspiring against us!

But this perspective is an illusion born of our human experience. Spirit doesn’t desire our failure or suffering. Instead, it seeks to lead us to joy, abundance, and fulfillment.

Many of us, however, fall into the habit of blaming God, Spirit, the Universe, or others for the hardships we face. But to truly grow, we must change this mindset. Instead of dwelling on blame, it’s important to examine the lessons hidden in each challenge. By asking why these situations arose and what we can learn from them, we transform pain into wisdom and setbacks into stepping stones.

Consider the heartache of losing a long-term partner. You may have built a life together – marriage, children, shared dreams – only to wake up one day to abandonment. Questions arise: Why did this happen? What could I have done differently?

It’s important to realize that in most cases these events are not your fault. Free will governs each person’s choices. While her decision to leave may hurt you deeply, it is a reflection of her own path, not your worth. Self-doubt often creeps in, especially for women, as thoughts of inadequacy arise. But self-esteem cannot come from others-it must come from within.

Instead of focusing on what you could have done, consider this: their departure may have been necessary for your growth. Spirit often removes people from our lives to make room for greater blessings. In hindsight, you may realize that staying with that person would have hindered your potential or delayed the arrival of something better.

Trusting the universe means surrendering to the flow of life and having faith that everything is happening exactly as it should. When we trust the universe, we open ourselves up to the infinite possibilities that life has to offer, and we invite in the magic and mystery of the unknown ~ Bernadette Logue

Imagine you applied for what seemed like the perfect job. You excelled in the interview, felt confident, and began to envision your new role. Weeks later, however, you learn that someone else has been hired – someone seemingly less qualified. The rejection stings, and you question your worth.

Years later, you hear that the company you wanted to join has gone bankrupt. What once felt like a devastating loss now reveals itself as Spirit’s protection. Spirit has prevented you from entering a precarious situation and has shielded you from potential hardship.

Such moments teach us that Spirit works behind the scenes, orchestrating events for our highest good-even when we can’t see it at the time.

Negative events, though painful, often serve a higher purpose. They can result from our own thoughts and actions, act as a protective measure, or serve as a catalyst for spiritual growth. Everything happens for a reason. Think about the challenges you’ve faced. How did they shape you? Did they lead to unexpected opportunities, newfound strength, or deeper self-knowledge?

Holding on to anger or bitterness only prolongs suffering. Releasing these emotions allows you to see the blessings hidden in adversity. When we surrender to Spirit’s timeline and trust His wisdom, we open ourselves to new and better possibilities.

Life’s trials are not evidence of Spirit’s abandonment, but evidence of Spirit’s active role in our journey. Spirit is lovingly removing obstacles and preparing the way for something greater. Trust that everything is unfolding as it should, even if it doesn’t match your immediate desires.

When you embrace this trust, you step into your power. You allow spirit to lead you to the fulfillment of your dreams – in divine time, not yours. Believe in the good that awaits you, for you are worthy of all that life has to offer.

Every setback is an opportunity for growth, and every disappointment carries the seed of a future blessing. As you face life’s challenges, remember: Spirit is always at your side, guiding you toward your highest good. Trust the process and know that better days lie ahead. You are capable, deserving, and infinitely supported.

Mankind accepts good fortune as his due, but when bad occurs, he thinks it was aimed at him, done to him, a hex, a curse, a punishment by his deity for some transgression, as though his god were a petty storekeeper, counting up the day’s receipts ~ Sheri S. Tepper

Try some of these spiritual practices to help you navigate life’s challenges, uncover lessons, and align with spirit’s guidance:

Meditation

Cultivate inner peace and clarity through regular meditation. Practices such as mindfulness or guided visualization can help you connect with Spirit and find perspective during difficult times.

Prayer

Engage in heartfelt prayer to connect directly with God, the Divine, your Higher Power. Prayer is a powerful tool for seeking guidance, expressing gratitude, releasing burdens, and finding comfort.

Create a personal daily prayer for your current situation, such as:

Dear God, please grant me the wisdom to see the lessons in this challenge, the strength to release what no longer serves me, and the faith to trust in your divine plan. I release my fears and open my heart to the blessings yet to come. Thank you for your unfailing love and guidance. Amen.

Regular prayer strengthens your spiritual connection and fosters a sense of trust and peace in the unfolding of life.

Journaling

Reflect on life’s events by writing down your thoughts, feelings, and experiences. Use prompts such as “What is Spirit teaching me through this challenge?” or “How can I grow from this experience?

Energy Healing

Practices such as Reiki, chakra balancing, or pranic healing can clear negative energy, restore balance, and help you move forward with a renewed sense of empowerment.

Grounding

Energy grounding improves stability and calm, enhances focus, and maintains emotional balance. It increases awareness of the present moment, fosters inner reflection, and taps into intuitive insights that support personal growth. Grounding also strengthens your connection to the earth, promotes spiritual clarity, and keeps you centered and aligned with your higher self.

Ground yourself by walking barefoot on natural surfaces such as grass or dirt to connect directly with the earth’s energy. Alternatively, try a grounding meditation by sitting comfortably, closing your eyes, and visualizing roots extending from your body into the earth, anchoring you. Deep breathing exercises, where you focus on your breath and imagine the earth’s energy rising through your body, can also help you feel more grounded and centered.

Tarot / Oracle Cards

Draw cards with the intention of gaining insight into your situation. Use spreads designed for clarity, healing, or uncovering hidden lessons.

Try this 5-card spread designed to bring clarity, uncover lessons, and guide you toward healing:

Focus on your intention or situation as you shuffle the cards. Arrange the cards in a simple arc or vertical line. Reflect on the meaning of each card and how it relates to the others, trusting your intuition and spirit’s guidance.

CARD 1: Core Of The Situation

Represents the heart of the issue or challenge you are facing.

CARD 2: Lesson to Learn

Identifies the key lesson or spiritual growth opportunity in this experience.

CARD 3: Hidden Influence

Identifies unseen factors such as unconscious patterns, spiritual guidance, or external influences.

CARD 4: Way Forward

Offers advice or actions to take to overcome the challenge or embrace the lesson.

CARD 5: Hidden Blessing

Indicates the positive outcome, hidden value or future opportunity that awaits you as you move through this challenge.

This spread is versatile and works well with both tarot and oracle cards, providing deep insight while offering a sense of hope and direction.

Releasing Ritual

Perform a letting-go ritual, such as writing down what you need to release (anger, regret, resentment) and burning it safely to symbolize transformation and healing.

Gratitude Practice

Cultivate a habit of gratitude by focusing on the blessings in your life, even in the midst of challenges. Gratitude raises your vibration and helps you align with the abundance of Spirit.

There are many ways to practice this instead of keeping a gratitude journal. Simply spend a few minutes after you wake up in the morning reflecting on things you are grateful for. Or write small notes of gratitude throughout the day and put them in a jar to read later. Before bed, think of three things you’re grateful for that happened during the day.

Dreamwork

Pay attention to your dreams and keep a dream journal. Spirit often communicates through symbols, metaphors and messages in the dream state, providing insight and guidance.

Affirmations and Mantras

Use positive affirmations or spiritual mantras to reprogram your mindset. Examples include

I trust the divine plan for my highest good.

I trust in my journey and accept every challenge.

I learn from each experience that life brings me.

I align myself with the wisdom and guidance of spirit.

I am resilient and can overcome any obstacle.

I trust my intuition to guide me.

I release fear and embrace the unknown.

I attract positive energy into my life.

I honor my inner power and divine support.

I welcome change and growth.

I release what no longer serves me and embrace new possibilities.

I am at peace knowing that I am where I need to be.

Sacred Movement

Engage in practices such as yoga, qigong, or ecstatic dance to release stagnant energy and connect with your inner self. Movement can facilitate emotional release and spiritual connection.

Being Of Service

Engage in acts of kindness or service to others, such as volunteering, mentoring, fundraising, or simply offering a listening ear or a helping hand. Helping others shifts your focus away from personal struggles and aligns you with the higher vibrations of compassion and generosity.

Service not only uplifts those you help, but also deepens your connection to spirit by reminding you of the interconnectedness of all beings. In giving and focusing on others rather than ourselves, we often find healing, empowerment, and renewed purpose.

About The Author: Sheri Sheri is an international psychic and angel reader who provides clear answers on finance, career, relationships, manifesting your dreams, and working-out the kinks of life. Since 2004, Sheri is the owner on an International Spiritual Healing Centre where she runs her Reiki practice - either working on clients or teaching them the levels of Usui Reiki. She utilizes her office space for readings that are conducted via mail, phone, chat or live. Since 2008, she's honed her gifts on various psychic service websites, where she's provided telephone, chat or email readings. She also works on a spiritual network for people who have suffered horrific loss, applying her own first-hand experiences with such tragedies. Sheri's work has been described as honest, compassionate and life-transforming and she would like to see all of her clients soar free to a higher level of spirituality and growth, and exponentially change the world to the best it can be. You can get a psychic reading from Sheri at PsychicAccess.com.