Searching For Beauty Under A Knife
I am often amazed by the amounts of money people spend on their appearance. Many people want so desperately to be beautiful. Some even go as far as cosmetic surgery, in order to be what they would deem attractive. I’m sorry, but nobody will ever be able to convince me to have surgery unless my life truly depended on it.
If only more people would realize that true beauty does not depend solely in your appearance. From what I have seen some of these so-called ‘beautiful’ people certainly are not very kind to the elderly or to children, neither are they gentle with animals. I’m not saying that taking care of yourself is a bad thing. But what is truly taking care of ourselves? In my life it means taking vitamins, getting adequate rest, meditating or praying, eating healthy and doing some exercise.
Beauty is not in the face; beauty is a light in the heart ~ Kahlil Gibran
But in today’s society we have taken it to an all new level. Cosmetic surgery? Who’d have thought of that some 100 years ago? I really feel we need to count our blessings more often.
I am convinced that if someone, who has been considering getting facial surgery, had to discover that they actually have a life threatening illness, such as cancer or some other horrible ailment requiring them to go under the knife, their plastic surgery ambitions would be out the window immediately. They may even think how silly they have been and how they have lacked insight.
It is amazing how complete is the delusion that beauty is goodness ~ Leo Tolstoy
It’s so sad to me that people feel that they have to look a certain way to get ahead in society; to be accepted or to be loved. If someone doesn’t love you for who you are, then they do not deserve you. And if you don’t love yourself because of your looks, no amount of surgery will change that. It will still be the same you on the inside. If your appearance secures you a romantic partner or a promotion at work, then it is ill-gotten and will probably not bring lasting happiness.
I wish that we lived in a society that treated people based on how they treated one another and not on how they look. It’s just so classical, not quantum. It’s so materialistic and selfish and egotistical and superficial.
Cosmetic surgery is terrifying. It never looks good. Those women look weird. They look in the mirror and think they look great, but they don’t see what we see. I think it’s hideous. They scare small children ~ Jerry Hall
I pray for everyone who may need healing, so that they can learn to unconditionally love themselves and the beautiful face that God gave them. If people don’t treat you well based on your looks, they are not worth your time period. Forget the cosmetic surgery and use the money to go on a vacation with like-minded people!
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I can see some of the points made and where these people are coming from. To some extent some people do go over the top with their appearance and needing to look attractive and perfect at all times, mostly through insecurity and low self esteem i imagine.
I hate to say this and don’t mean to sound arrogant or big headed but i am one of those naturally born attractive people, i hear you cringe and just know you don’t want to carry on reading this post now, but please bare with me.
Life is not a bed of roses for all attractive women.
I have suffered for being attractive my whole life and mostly by women who only see my outer appearance and not whats on the inside. I have been ignored pushed out of groups of friends and hated in the work place by other women because of jealousy and spite about how i look and also though fear if they befriend me i might just try and run off with their husbands or partners! Ive even had people take photos of me and distort them before posting them on facebook for people to comment on.
I am a very spiritual kind and forgiving person and will do what ever i can to help people even those who have caused me distress and upset.
Others see me but don’t feel me or who i am or what I’m about. I know there are other women out there who experience this too but its not really recognised as a from of bullying or abuse and very rarely spoken about.