Archive for June, 2012
The past two months or so I have been reading for an unusually high number of clients that are discovering their empathic abilities. The majority have been in very high stress romantic situations, which does nothing but magnify what these very sensitive people are experiencing. While this is no doubt confusing, frightening and intense for the empath, remember it also greatly impacts your partner.
An empath is defined as a person who has the ability to read and understand people and be in-tune with or resonate with others, voluntarily or involuntarily. This can manifest itself in many ways from a physical feeling to an inner knowing that something is not as it seems. If you are an empath, your radar will hone in instinctively on the truth of a person or situation.
Personal relationships, especially romantic ones can be a nightmare for empaths. When a person is saying one thing and the empath ‘knows’ or feels that person is feeling differently or being dishonest, the challenges begin. Read the rest of this entry »
Did you know that of the 54 million single people in the USA, as many as 40 million have tried online dating and approximately 17% of marriages in the last year were couples who met online? The researchers most likely didn’t ask about ‘chemistry’, because it wasn’t mentioned in the statistics. Maybe it’s the ‘Logical Libra’ in me, but I am certain that romantic chemistry cannot be transmitted through the cloud or Twitter or Facebook or any online dating site, or even through Skype. Until human pheromones can be electronically transmitted, I remain firm in my belief that real, in-person chemistry plays a huge factor in a couple’s compatibility.
As a psychic, I’ve spoken to many who fall in love without having met with the man or woman in person. The hope we all have is to meet our positive soulmate and live happily ever after. And why not? People do just that. But, when the hope becomes so overwhelming that we project desired attributes and hold on to what we read in the person’s online profile, all rational thought drops off the radar. Planning the wedding at this stage seems a bit premature. Read the rest of this entry »
As a young child, I had an imaginary friend, her name was Dee-Dee. My mother said I played with her often. She also said, I blamed Dee-Dee for almost everything. Saying things like, “I didn’t do it, Dee-Dee did!” My mother said when I was four years old, after my brother was born, Dee-Dee just went away. The rest of my childhood was pretty much uneventful, with the exception of a few prophetic dreams.
As a teenager, I had an uncanny ability to narrowly escape trouble. I probably should have been dead ten times over. Always, at the last second, I would always change my mind – decisions that ultimately saved my life. Read the rest of this entry »
I can tell really easily if two people are connected with what I call the ‘love cord connection’. I can tell if it’s just lust, desire or a crush, or the real deal full-blown love… the kind of love that never dies. I can see if two people are karmically connected. I can see if they have had past lifetimes together and what exactly they were to one another.
I can also tell if two people chose to be born in the same soul group together. Usually if they chose to incarnate in this lifetime together there is still much to be had by way of soul growth and soul evolution.
Sometimes two people may have a difficult time connecting. It may be that they are connecting at the wrong time, or maybe one of them needs to achieve some soul growth before they can meet up with the person they love so much. Being brought again once more into another life they can have that opportunity to connect with that person. If it doesn’t work out there’s always other lifetimes to be had to get that opportunity. Read the rest of this entry »
When we are able to control our response to any outside stimulus, we can more easily link in to subtle frequencies, enabling us to connect to the source of our being and to our own spirit guides.
To reach an inner sense of calm we need to still our thoughts. As our thoughts run haywire we can observe the pattern and try to ascertain why they run wild, and then attempt to bring them back to center and silence them.
If you are planning on developing this technique of stilling your mind for whatever reason, be it to connect with your spirit guides or just to be peaceful, keep at it without expecting immediate gratification. The process does take time, but is well worth the effort. Apart from assisting with your spiritual journey, the process will increase your energy levels, sharpen your thoughts and increase your sense of well-being.
There is a saying, “To remain silent is also an answer”. There are occasions when we are confronted with a tricky question or we find ourselves in a confrontational situation and we beat ourselves up to find a prompt reply or action. Either delaying our response or saying absolutely nothing is often the best option for us, whilst we silence our thoughts and find the best answer in that sacred space. Read the rest of this entry »
At the beginning of this year I did not realize how much my life was going to change. So many times over the years I have told clients that you never know how life can change when a blinking of an eye. Well, that is exactly what happened to me too.
On the last Friday of February 2012 I lost my full time job and they made me retire. I was very shook up, because it was very unexpected and I gave them 27 years of dedicated service. Suddenly, I was on the side of the fence, where many of clients have been who call me to ask what is going to happen in their lives.
How was my life going to pan out? As a psychic we usually see with clarity for others, but not for ourselves. It was time to reflect on my future; what I needed to do and where I was going. I knew in my heart for the longest time that this day was going to come, and I needed help to see what was going to happen. I asked God to show me ways in my life that I never seen before and one thing that came up was I needed to go back to school. Read the rest of this entry »
Kindness takes little effort and is such a great gift. “Practice Random Acts Of Kindness And Senseless Beauty” is a well-known slogan that can be seen on posters and on bumper stickers everywhere.
We all watch movies where we admire any kindness that is shown. Many of us go to temple or church and hear about kindness from the pulpit. We see acts of kindness in public and watch in appreciation of the giver and the receiver. And, although kindness is something we all admire, it is often difficult to show kindness to those who need it most. And it is often difficult for us to recognize kindness on its way to us as well. Often, when I am doing phone psychic readings for people in relationships where there is difficulty communicating, my advice to the caller is to balance honest discussion with their partner, about what is hurting them, with kindness. Read the rest of this entry »
I’ve written many blogs about psychic issues, spirituality, God, The Goddess, The Universe and so forth. The more answers I get the more questions arise. And I am always learning and being shown new ways, paths and messages. This is one of those messages.
We ask so often, “Why does this happen? What is the answer? Why did he hurt me?” I have at times also asked these questions, because I am human after all. Anything I teach I have learned the lesson myself – very often the hard way! But I have found that for many questions, ultimately, there are few answers. Because the answers we think we want can never truly satisfy us. Why am I bringing this up? Why am I talking about this and what am I even talking about, you may well ask. It’s because of an experience that happened to me recently. Read the rest of this entry »