Monthly Archives: July 2012
The Real Secret To The Law Of Attraction
Some people seem to take the Law of Attraction to mean that if we “want” something long and hard enough we should get it. And if somehow we don’t, it is probably our own fault if we don’t get it! This to me is like a small child wanting to eat candy all day, and spending time praying for that when we adults know that so much sugar would only make one feel sick.
The secret to the Law of Attraction is not to ‘lust’ after material things, relationships, our version of success, and so forth. All those desires of the ego are literally like candy to a child.
“If only I had … (fill in the blank) I would be … (fill in the blank… with “happy” or “content” or “successful”). When we make a statement like that, we make the material world the ‘god’ that we worship and pray to for happiness. Continue reading
The Mystery Of Mom’s Silverware
It’s been almost 19 years since my mother passed away and today I can still remember as if it was yesterday. I have wonderful memories of her, from her making her little cherry pies to Sunday dinners.
When I lived at my parents house there was a silverware set that I wanted, and nothing else. That was it. As a child I would rearrange this silverware set when she was not looking. I would place the forks where the knives were supposed to go, and I swapped the bigger spoons with the smaller ones.
The cutlery set was mounted on the wall and every time I did this she would get upset with me, because she had to put them back in order again. I continued this silly game into my adulthood, as childish as it may seem. After she passed away I didn’t know what happened to the silverware set and I ask my dad about it. He said, “Your sister had it and she was going to put it in the yard sale.” I was naturally very upset. I wanted something that I can look at when I was at my parents home and picture my mother pretending to get upset with me when I would rearrange her precious set. Continue reading
Don’t Resist Change
Don’t resist change – even in love. Change is good, even if it seems like it may be the death of a relationship. Trust me, sometimes the door on a relationship needs to be shut, so that another door can opened up later on or down the road.
I have seen it in my own personal relationships and in those of my clients and loved ones. If it’s meant to be, and true love resides between two souls, there really is never a permanent goodbye. Rest assured there will be other opportunities for your loved one to return to you, or for you to return back to your loved one.
We all experience the pain of saying goodbye to someone whom we love very much. It really puts a damper on how we view life, to have to find closure or shut the door on a loved one, especially if we don’t want the relationship to end. Continue reading