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Embrace Life’s Turbulence With The Right Attitude

FREE psychic reading at, Click Here NOW!!!With the many ups and downs we face in life, it is sometimes possible to feel euphoric one moment and utterly devastated the next. Yes, life is challenging at times. But Spirit says that our attitude makes all the difference.

Life’s emotional roller coaster is an inevitable part of the human experience. However, by choosing the right attitude, we can transform this journey into an opportunity for growth, learning, and profound spiritual awakening. If we choose the right attitude, it can soften the emotional roller coaster ride of life.

Our soul purpose requires that there be times of great happiness and deep sorrow, for it is through successes and hardships that we learn how to evolve spiritually.

But when we choose to trust the process and embrace our journey with the right attitude, it becomes much easier to deal with the stressful issues and demands of everyday life.

Our attitude toward life’s ups and downs plays a pivotal role in shaping our experiences. By adopting the right attitude, we can greatly reduce the emotional turbulence that accompanies life’s challenges. It’s like putting a cushion in the seat of a roller coaster – it doesn’t eliminate the dips and drops, but it does make the ride more bearable!

We cannot change our past. We can not change the fact that people act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude ~ Charles R. Swindoll

The spiritual wisdom of embracing life with the right attitude is not a new concept. Since the dawn of civilization, ancient philosophers, enlightened gurus, and wise sages have recognized and taught this truth. Their teachings echo through the ages, reminding us that while we may not have control over the events that unfold in our lives, we do have control over how we respond to them.

Spiritual traditions and teachings have long emphasized the importance of attitude in navigating the journey of life. Our soul’s journey is designed to encompass a full spectrum of experiences, from the peaks of joy to the valleys of sorrow. This duality is not a flaw, but a feature of our existence that serves as a crucible for spiritual evolution. Success and hardship are the twin engines that propel us forward on our spiritual path, offering invaluable lessons that contribute to our growth and development.

Attitude Is A Choice

We all know people who seem hardwired to always walk on the sunny side of the street and see the glass as half full. But we also know many cynical people who focus primarily on the doom and gloom. They allow their present circumstances to define their future. These self-limiting people bring everyone down because they choose to be frustrated and unhappy.

You see, our attitude is really a choice. Regardless of the circumstances, some people manage to face each day with the strength of their convictions, while others assume the worst is about to happen. Over time, this constant negativity wears on the psyche and makes life seem even more like a never-ending uphill battle, even on a good day!

Adopting a positive attitude does not mean ignoring the realities of life or dismissing the pain and challenges we face. Rather, it is about choosing to trust the process and embrace our life journey with optimism and resilience. In doing so, we open ourselves to a deeper understanding of the purpose behind our experiences and develop the strength to navigate through them with grace.

Your living is determined not so much by what life brings to you as by the attitude you bring to life; not so much by what happens to you as by the way your mind looks at what happens ~ Khalil Gibran

Attitude Is A Habit

Attitude is simply a habit or learned behavior, so it is always possible to make some changes to improve your outlook on life. Many of us also need to work on raising our “level of deservingness. If you are surrounded by many doomsayers and naysayers who want to keep you in your current state of negativity, don’t be afraid to stand up and assert your position in this world.

It is also important to realize that as a spiritual being, you have the divine ability to create, attract and manifest whatever you set your mind to, whether you focus on positive or negative scenarios. If you have an attitude of defeat, victimization, self-pity, lack or resentment, you will still manifest a result; it just won’t be the result you were hoping for. Focusing on the positive will attract more positive things into your life. Look around you and see what you have accomplished and manifested in your life so far. If you are not impressed with your results so far, then make the decision right now to focus more on what you really want to accomplish instead of worrying about what you see around you right now.

By cultivating the habit of a positive attitude, we not only lessen the impact of life’s challenges, but also increase our ability to experience joy and fulfillment. It enables us to face the demands of everyday life with a sense of peace and confidence, knowing that every experience, good or bad, is a step on the path of spiritual evolution.

Now, once you make the decision to change your outlook, how does one cultivate a better attitude toward life? Spirit says it all starts with two key habits: gratitude and mindfulness. They are foundational practices for cultivating a positive attitude towards life’s challenges because they collectively reframe our perception of adversity and enhance our resilience.

Mindfulness grounds us in the present moment, allowing us to navigate difficulties with a calm and focused mind, diminishing the impact of stress and anxiety. It encourages acceptance and awareness, making us less reactive to negative circumstances.

Gratitude, on the other hand, shifts our focus from what we lack to what we have, fostering a sense of abundance and well-being. By appreciating the good in our lives, even during hard times, we cultivate an optimistic outlook that can transform challenges into opportunities for growth.

Together, mindfulness and gratitude strengthen our emotional resilience, enabling us to face life’s hurdles with grace and a positive spirit, thus improving our overall quality of life and well-being.

External things are constantly changing. They can be lost at any moment. But the good news is that the real source of happiness is not outside us. It’s within us. It arises from our mental attitude ~ Dalai Lama

How To Practice Gratitude

Gratitude is often mistaken for simply saying “thank you” all day long, but it is much more than a polite gesture or a momentary feeling of gratitude. At its core, true spiritual gratitude is a profound recognition of the universal flow, the interconnectedness of all things, and an acknowledgement of the divine abundance that permeates our lives.

True gratitude is a deep sense of joy, appreciation, and fulfillment that envelops us as we begin to see the beauty and value in every moment, every experience, and the many blessings in our lives, both great and small.

From a metaphysical perspective, gratitude serves as an energetic magnet for positive outcomes and experiences. It raises our vibrational focus from what we lack to what we have, from scarcity to abundance. This shift in perspective not only enhances our mental and emotional well-being, but also aligns us more closely with our spiritual essence. By practicing gratitude, we cultivate a heart and mind that is open and receptive, ready to receive the blessings that life has to offer.

Here are some ways to begin practicing gratitude in your daily life:

Morning Gratitude: Begin each day with gratitude for the gift of a new day. Take a few moments each morning to reflect on the aspects of your life for which you are grateful. This could be as simple as appreciating the warmth of the sun, the comfort of your bed, or the presence of loved ones in your life. Another powerful way to start the day is with a gratitude prayer to express your appreciation for being alive another day to enjoy the blessings in your life. Starting your day with a grateful heart sets a positive tone for the rest of the day.

Gratitude Journaling: One of the most effective ways to cultivate gratitude is to keep a gratitude journal. Start a gratitude journal to reflect on your productive interactions, accomplishments, milestones, and results. Find something positive to write in your journal each day. Whether it is as small as a crystal clear raindrop on a soft green leaf or as monumental as a long-awaited accomplishment, everything counts when it comes to gratitude. Over time, this practice not only increases your awareness of the blessings in your life, but also serves as a reminder of the abundance that surrounds you, especially during challenging times.

Expressing Gratitude: Gratitude grows exponentially when it is shared. Make it a habit to express your appreciation to others, whether it’s saying thank you for a kind gesture, acknowledging someone’s impact on your life, or simply offering a smile. These acts of gratitude not only brighten the day of those around you, but also strengthen your own feelings of gratitude.

Reflection & Learning: Cultivating gratitude isn’t limited to the good times; it’s also about finding value and lessons in the challenges we face. Reflect on difficult experiences and try to identify how they contributed to your growth or changed your perspective for the better. This practice not only builds resilience, but also helps you embrace life’s ups and downs with grace and gratitude.

Happiness is an attitude. We either make ourselves miserable, or happy and strong. The amount of work is the same ~ Carlos Castaneda

How To Practice Mindfulness

Mindfulness is a transformative spiritual practice that can greatly enhance your ability to cultivate a more positive outlook. By promoting awareness of the present moment, mindfulness helps you recognize and appreciate life’s joys, navigate its challenges with grace, and respond to situations with a calm and positive outlook.

Mindfulness, gratitude, and a positive attitude are also closely related. By practicing mindfulness, you become more present and aware of the beauty and blessings of each moment. This heightened awareness naturally leads to a deeper appreciation of life. Whether it’s savoring the flavor of your food, enjoying the beauty of nature, or cherishing a moment with a loved one, mindfulness enriches your experiences with gratitude.

Mindfulness also increases your awareness of your thoughts, feelings, and surroundings. This heightened awareness can help you identify negative patterns or triggers in your life. With this understanding, you can consciously choose to focus on the positive aspects of your situation or environment, gradually shifting your perspective to a more optimistic one.

Here are some ways to begin practicing mindfulness in your daily life:

Mindful Breathing: One of the easiest ways to practice mindfulness is to focus on your breath. Take a few minutes each day to sit quietly and observe your breath. Notice the sensation of air entering and leaving your body, and gently bring your attention back to your breath whenever your mind wanders.

Body Scan Meditation: A meditative body scan involves paying attention to different parts of your body one at a time, noting any sensations or tensions. Start at the top of your head and work your way down to your toes. This practice helps you connect with your body and bring your focus to the present moment.

Mindful Eating: Turn meals into a mindfulness practice by eating slowly and without distractions. Pay attention to the taste, texture, and aroma of your food. Mindful eating not only increases the enjoyment of your meal, but also promotes a more positive and grateful attitude toward food.

Mindful Walking: Take a walk and focus on the experience of walking. Notice the feel of your feet on the ground, the rhythm of your steps, and the sights and sounds around you. Mindful walking is an excellent way to practice mindfulness during physical activity.

Daily Activities: Incorporate mindfulness into your normal daily activities, such as washing dishes, taking a shower, or even brushing your teeth. Pay attention to the sensations and movements involved in the activity, and gently bring your mind back when it drifts to other thoughts.

Cultivating a positive attitude is a journey that requires regular practice and commitment. By incorporating these spiritual practices into your daily life, you can begin to shift your perspective, embrace positivity, and open yourself up to a more fulfilling and spiritually enriched life.

Life is precious. Dive in. Make a change for the better. Get a new attitude. Do it today.

About The Author: Monica

"What you think about, you bring about; what you believe, you become." This is Monica's philosophy, derived from her twenty-five years of experience as a Clairvoyant, Light Worker and Medium, living in Ontario, Canada. Monica has been a guest speaker at various Spiritualist churches, conveying Spirit greetings and messages from loved ones during Sunday services, All Mediums Nights, Healing Services, Meditation Services and special fundraising events. She's been an advisor to several international business leaders and connects with all of her clients on a level of love light and empathy. She delivers messages containing ideal outcomes and positive solutions with the help of her guides. If you'd like Monica to help shape your destiny, you can find her at

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