Substance Abuse Destroys Relationships

How much time have you put into your relationship? How much time, effort and in many cases money? Sometimes it comes down to this: is your partner worth your time and energy? Are they affecting your time with God, your children, your parents? Are you distancing yourself from those you love the most, because you are not happy in your relationship? Are you getting from your relationship what you need to feel connected to the divine spark within you?

Often times we date, marry and have children; then our spouses disconnect, they find that time with their friends is more important. They shift their priorities to the vices or hobbies of their friends and their most intimate relationship begins to suffer.

So many, many relationships begin to go South because one of the parents doesn’t want responsibilities. They would rather do things that lower their energy level, such as disconnecting from God or abusing alcohol. I have seen so many relationships suffer because of this. So many. It’s so sad.

Better sleep with a sober cannibal than a drunken Christian ~ Herman Melville

The kids suffer. Where is mommy? Where is Daddy? And you can’t just say, “I’m sorry little Jack or Jill, but they are off with their friends, drinking and drugging!” It may sound harsh, but this is the sad reality of our society as we know it today. Then we wonder why these kids grow up and take on the same bad vices. We need to be strong and busy ourselves with our children, if one of the parents is immature. We have to sacrifice our own personal time for the betterment of our children; so that they can have better spiritual nourishment.

I can’t tell you how many readings I have done for people and the main reason why their marriage is not working out is alcohol or drug abuse. It surprises the client every time I see drinking is going on and they have to admit that I am correct. I know I’m right in these instances, because I can immediately see it in the aura of the person. If the aura is not healthy that means they are doing something to alter their energy field.

So, ask yourself If you’re in a relationship with someone who has a drug or alcohol problem. Why? Well, why waste your time? If they love you they will stop, if they don’t you know where there commitment lays. Many times its not one or two, but many drinks and it fully encompasses there whole being. It clogs the thinking process and it makes them angry. Then the children begin to suffer. It it has a huge domino effect and it affects everyone.

All excess is ill, but drunkenness is of the worst sort. It spoils health, dismounts the mind, and unmans men. It reveals secrets, is quarrelsome, lascivious, impudent, dangerous and mad. In fine, he that is drunk is not a man: because he is so long void of Reason, that distinguishes a Man from a Beast ~ William Penn

Take your power back and get busy, or get out of the situation fully. Get yourself involved in a support group or reach out to people who you trust to be there for you. If you feel you cannot do it by yourself then you need support and people around you that you can count on. You cannot count on people that have a substance abuse problem. I have also found that these people are deceptive and will use their words to manipulate others.

I can spot it like a bad smell in a car every time as soon as I connect with someone, by the tone of their voice and the intuitive flashes, if alcohol is involved. It’s just bad – any which way you cut it!

The devil loves it when people drink. It makes his job a whole lot easier to set up those snares in people’s lives. So, protect yourself spiritually if you are in a relationship with someone who drinks or does drugs, and surround yourself with people who understand and can be there for you. Busy yourself and do something to make yourself feel good, as your a good person and worthy of so much more!