Your Life Reflects Your Inner Being

Sometimes people have many issues with others in their life while they neglect to acknowledge that many of these problems are merely a mirror reflection of their inner being. This denial of personal responsibility is often the main cause of conflicts and drama in many people’s lives.

Everyone faces challenges in life. It is how these challenges are managed and released that gives one inner strength and peace.  The answers are always within. But when we refuse to go within and face our inner truths, while instead venting our frustration, anger, envy, fear, and other pent-up negative emotions, it just brings so much more of the same crashing down on us.

That person you see with a huge smile on her face…her life is not necessarily all ‘sunshine and roses.’ Maybe she has just chosen to live with joy and gratitude in the present moment, instead of dwelling in the past or obsessing over the future. Maybe she has chosen to release that person or circumstance that had caused her pain or grief, and have chosen to move forward in her life with a knowing that bigger, better blessings are awaiting her on the other side of the pain.

The concept is simple, but the work is difficult.  I am just as guilty of this human shortcoming as the next person. In my own life, I have also held onto things for so long that it stunted my spiritual, emotional, romantic, and financial growth. I held on to the resentment, bitterness, and vengeful thoughts, and it stunted me to the point that I found myself stuck in a very dark state of mind for a long, long time.

However, once I realized that both my psychic reading work and energy healing practice are absolutely dependent on clarity, love, compassion, and positive energy, I became determined to find ways to release the past and move forward, without any ill will towards another. Was it easy to find my way back to my inner truth and higher self? No, it was not. Was it worth the effort? Definitely!

 It is never wise to seek or wish for another’s misfortune. If malice or envy were tangible and had a shape, it would be the shape of a boomerang ~ Charley Reese

When you see someone that is financially wealthy, do you feel resentment, because you are struggling to pay the rent or buy necessities? When you see someone that is happily married, with children, and a wonderful home, do you feel envious that they have the perfect life that you don’t? These feelings will not impact their abundance and prosperity; it will only poison your own heart and mind.

A joyous, fulfilling, abundant life is impossible to achieve without acceptance and allowing. Be happy for that person who has a dream job, successful business, happy marriage, and loving family. Celebrate their good fortune. What we often don’t know is, those ‘lucky’ people have often overcome many obstacles and survived their own traumas. They usually had to work hard to achieve those blessings, be it physically, emotionally, mentally, or spiritually.

Furthermore, contrary to what we may believe about the fortunate lives of other people, nothing is ever perfect. We see only the outer appearances and superficial aspects of their lives. We all face challenges, face struggles and battle demons in our lives. Never assume anything and do not judge a book by its cover. Those people we resent, or envy may be dealing with much more behind the scenes than we can imagine.

Our soul is guided by Spirit, God, Source, Universe, the Divine. Our higher self, guides and angels have the answers. Yet, we often choose to question it and ignore our intuitions and inner guidance. This is important to recognize. We must truly listen within and follow the guidance that comes up for us.

Take heed you harbor not that vice called Envy, lest another’s happiness be your torment, and God’s blessing become your curse ~ Wellins Calcott

That perfect job…you can find it. That successful business…you can build it. That happy, healthy relationship…you too have it. You must, however, be happy for those that already have those things because you cannot attract abundance and prosperity to yourself if you do not also wish it for others. What you think and feel on the inside will create your outer reality and become manifest in your life.

Open your heart and mind, and allow goodness to flow. If you need help understanding this, or need support working through negative feelings towards someone else, feel free to contact me. I will guide you from my guides to yours.