How To Attract True Love Into Your Life

Have you ever felt so good that not even the most negative person you encounter can ruin your day? That is the type of energy you need to envelope yourself in to be a magnet for attracting love and all that is positive into your life.

I have known some very sad individuals, who constantly get nowhere in life because they seem to be perpetually negative and assuming the worst. Whatever they look at or hear, they always put a negative spin on it – whatever it may be.

These negative people are to me a type of ‘energy vampire.’ They try to bring you down to their level so that they can feel better. If you are protected, however, you can remain in balance and alignment spiritually and emotionally. You can empower yourself on all levels, so that you essentially have an invisible, but very powerful shield of protection around you. This way you can deflect their negative energy. It goes right back to the sender, or the one who is trying to drop their ‘poison’ on you. It renders harmless their ‘psychic attack’ by way of their pessimistic words, harmful thoughts and negative energy.

As we increasingly master our perceptions, beliefs, and thought/feeling patterns, we magnetically attract that which we most desire ~ Luanne Oakes

You will start to notice a difference immediately once you start to accept that there are some well-intentioned people who don’t even realize what they are doing to others with their negativity. They are often oblivious to how they are affecting others. In my experience most of these negative people had a very negative upbringing or traumatic childhood, with lots of yelling and hurtful, angry tension. Sometimes people that had to deal with this type of upbringing never learned how to think and be a different way. But there is always a choice that one can make to change your outlook on life.

So here are some steps you can take that I have found over the years that can be very effective for you to achieve true happiness and inner peace:

1. Put your ‘happy face’ on and keep a happy song in your heart.

2. Be selective about what kind of information you allow into your field of awareness. It is so hard in today’s world to do this. The media and the news can keep us from being optimistic. But if you keep all things negative at arm’s length, you will find it easier to do this. The music on the radio sometimes may also not be healthy to listen to. We need to listen to calming music that lifts our hearts and minds up.

3. Be aware of the ‘enemy’. I have found on an energetic note that the enemy, as I like to call evil, works over time to bring us down. No matter how you choose to define the opposite of the Light or Divine, know that there is indeed an opposite and it wants nothing more than to set up snares in your life, and create obstacles for you to destroy your happiness. Don’t let the enemy win. Simply put your happy face on and sing a happy song of light and love, and you will be putting yourself on a path that leads you to all that is good and right in this world. You will also meet others that are on the same path. It works! I get amazing feedback from my clients on this one.

Inherent in every intention and desire is the mechanics for its fulfillment. And when we introduce an intention in our pure potentiality, we put this infinite organizing power to work for us ~ Deepak Chopra

4. Learn to say no! You don’t have to do it all, or accomplish this or that at all cost. You should only pursue it if it seems right to you, and if it is something that you need to do for soul growth. If it’s going to make your cup seem half empty, it probably isn’t something good for you. Maybe someone else can benefit from taking on that task or chore. Stop being a people pleaser! Let go of that way of thinking. Your heart will thank you in the end.

5. Pay attention to any negative, repetitive thought patterns. Listen to that voice in your head to make sure you are not condemning or judging. If you learn to just abide in that state of ‘feeling-realization’… that is enlightenment! And once you get to that way of being you can connect with those who are on a higher frequency. You can even meet great teachers – people you can learn from and connect with that will help you to keep on that path of higher thinking.

6. Find your true nature beyond thought and form. Having an inability to feel this connectedness gives rise to the illusion of separation. Separation from self, and the world around self. So many people view themselves in an isolated, fragmented way, and that is where fear comes in and conflict become normal for these people. Trust me, you don’t ever want to live like that. That is how people invite all kinds of health problems into their bodies. Once you start just being a human being, instead of constantly judging, and over thinking, and analyzing, you will have arrived at a higher state of being and you will feel your deeper self. Then the negative thoughts lose their power over you and you are no longer energizing the negative only.

7. Fill your mind with positive thoughts and you will saturate your being with the maximum amount of bliss that serves your highest good. This will attract you to others who feel and think the same way. Those are the types of friends, partners, spouses, or life partners you want to share your days with. But first it starts with you, once you get yourself on the right path to right thinking, you will meet others and connect and attract those that you want in your life.