The Sublime Joy Of Solitary Bliss

There’s something truly magical about solitude. I’m not talking about loneliness or feeling isolated. I’m talking about that golden, nourishing moments of ‘me-time’ when you can just be alone in peace with yourself — and only yourself.

For me, taking time out from the noise and chaos is not just a preference. It’s a sacred necessity. I mostly like to do things on my own, at my own pace, without interruption. Whether I’m meditating, walking in nature, or simply brewing a cup of tea, being alone allows my heart, mind and soul to breathe!

Some people thrive in the company of others. They feel alive in the presence of connection and togetherness. And I respect that. We all walk different paths, and what nourishes one soul may not nourish another in the same way.

But for those of us who find peace in solitude, the inner sanctuary is a silent temple — where we commune with the divine, reconnect with our essence, and return to the world feeling centered and whole.

Solitude is not just a lifestyle choice for me — it’s the grounding force that supports everything else in my life.

When I am peacefully alone, I can focus better, think more clearly, and become truly aligned. My energy is mine. My time is mine. My thoughts are mine. There’s no need to filter, explain, or adjust to anyone else’s expectations. It’s just me, myself and the universe — and in that space I feel centered and complete.

One of the places I feel this most deeply is in nature. Something incredible happens when I walk down a quiet path, away from the noise of the world. The trees become my companions. The breeze whispers secrets. The birds share with me their gossip. God, Source, Spirit feels closer — closer than close.

Inside myself is a place where I live all alone, and that’s where I renew my springs that never dry up ~ Pearl Buck

Whether I’m praying or meditating, silently watching a butterfly, or simply breathing on the morning air, the peace I find in nature is profound. I don’t need a spiritual retreat in a tourist destination or a fancy yoga studio. Just give me a quiet corner of the world and a little sky above me, and I’m good.

I remember reading the novella Jonathan Livingston Seagull by Richard Bach when I was very young. That book changed me. Jonathan isn’t just a bird — he is a symbol of spiritual freedom. He flies beyond the flock. He flies beyond boundaries. He doesn’t need permission to explore his own truth and destiny. That story still lives within me, reminding me that the path to awakening isn’t always crowded. Sometimes it’s wide open – and solitary – for a reason.

For me, spening quality time on my own is not just about relaxation and comfort — it is about clarity and alignment. When I’m surrounded by too much noise, energy, or drama, I lose my connection to my higher self, spirit, the divine. In fact, I can actually start to feel physically ill. Headaches, tension, the works. It’s like my body is always gently nudging me to go back to my solitary sanctuary. The moment I do, everything is recalibrated. My psychic senses sharpen. My intuition kicks in. I feel rejuvenated and, dare I say it, divinely attuned.

I’ve never really called myself a “solitary practitioner,” but if the shoe fits, I’ll carry it barefoot in the woods! I just naturally gravitate toward doing things alone. Cooking, cleaning, meditating, praying — even singing. There’s something wonderfully freeing about doing things without an audience. Just me and my task, flowing together.

It’s a gift and a privilege to be able to enjoy your own company. It’s a kind of inner romance, a soulful courtship. And I wish more people could discover how delicious it feels to be alone and not feel lonely. You don’t have to be holier than thou or completely disconnected from society to appreciate solitude. Just being okay with yourself, by yourself, is a sign that you are awake. Fully connected. Fully free.

So, if you’re someone who lights up when the world goes quiet, who feels closest to the divine when no one else is around, know that you’re not weird or flawed — you’re just wired differently, more beautifully. And that is something to celebrate.

There is a charm in Solitude that cheers. A feeling that the world knows nothing of. A green delight the wounded mind endears after the hustling world is broken off ~ John Clare

Ways To Embrace Sacred Solitude

To help you deepen and protect your sacred alone time, here are some practical guidelines I’ve picked up along the way:

Honor your own rhythm. If you need quiet time, take it without apology. Your energy is precious.

Create a personal sanctuary. Designate a space in your home that’s just for you — no explanations needed.

Unplug often. Turn off the noise. Log off. Take a break from the digital world.

Walk in nature. Nature is a divine mirror. Spend time under trees, by rivers, or under the stars.

Pray or meditate daily. Even five minutes alone with spirit can transform your entire day.

Journal for your soul. Put your thoughts, dreams, and revelations on paper in your private sanctuary.

Say no when necessary. Protect your alone time like it’s a sacred appointment — because it is.

Perfom solo ceremonies. Light a candle, draw a card, brew tea with intention. Make it sacred.

Read something soulful. Books like Jonathan Livingston Seagull can be lifelong companions on the solo path.

Remember: you are whole. You don’t need external validation to know your worth or your spiritual connection.

Solitude isn’t about hiding or withdrawing from the world forever — it’s about returning to it more aligned, whole, and filled with love, inner peace and light. So, embrace your time alone. Soar like Jonathan. And always remember, it is in silence that our soul speaks loudest.