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Life Lessons To Make You Stronger

Get a free psychic reading right now at PsychicAccess.comAs we wander through life, we often face many roadblocks, many stumbling blocks and many disappointments. There are many questions that arise as we walk our path and at times it feels like the entire world is against us, as we progress on our journey.

Many people blame God, Spirit, the Universe, or other people for the situations they are in, and cannot get past. This simply an illusion that we create in our humanness. Spirit does not want us to fail in life. Spirit does not want us to be unhappy. Spirit does not want us to live a pauper’s life.

It is time to sit down, take a look at all what has happened to you and discover two things about each situation. Why did it happen, and what was the lesson you learned from it? As you look at the examples of pain, suffering or disappointment in your life, what do you see? Were they life lessons from Spirit?

When the Japanese mend broken objects, they aggrandize the damage by filling the cracks with gold. They believe that when something’s suffered damage and has a history it becomes more beautiful ~ Barbara Bloom

For example, you have been with the love of your life for many years; married with children. One day you wake up and your life partner has left you for another person. What could you have done to prevent this? What could you have done differently?  Why were you not enough? You were in love, totally and unconditionally devoted to this person, and you thought they felt the same way about you. Why did they do this to you?

In almost all cases where this happens, there is nothing you could have done to prevent this.  It was not you who walked out of the marriage, it was your partner and all people have free will and free choice.  This was not your decision to make.

The first lesson to be found here is you cannot make the choices for another person, as they have their own life path. You may be hurt along the way, however you are not in charge of another person’s choices and actions.

Asking what you could have done differently does not matter, as you cannot change the past or what has happened. So, you need to let it go at this point. Thinking you were not good enough is a self-esteem issue. We often go to this place when a partner leaves. This is a basic necessity of all people – to have their own sense of self-esteem. Yet, when our power is given away to another, we lose that.

The second lesson is to take back your power and be in charge of your own sense of self-esteem. Know that it comes from within you – not from another person.

Why did they do this to you? This is a huge question with a simple answer. They did not do this to you, they did it for themselves. There are always two sides to this answer. Their path changed or was pre-ordained by their actions. However, even though you may not see it at the moment, this action has in many cases taken place in order to free you, and allow you to grow to a higher level. There is a bigger blessing coming to you and if you had stayed with this person, your growth would have been stunted and your blessing postponed.

Diseases can be our spiritual flat tires — disruptions in our lives that seem to be disasters at the time but end by redirecting our lives in a meaningful way ~ Bernie S. Siegel

The third lesson is that this event probably occurred to remove someone from your life that was going to hold you back from achieving your highest good. You may not see it at the time it happens, however when you get a year or two down the road, and look back, it will be as clear as can be. When you can release the person that does this without anger, resentment or thoughts of revenge, and you can let your emotional attachment go, you will see the truth of where you are going, how you are growing and what wonderful new adventure is in store for you.

Let’s look at another example. You have applied for the perfect job. You believed that you were the best candidate based on your knowledge, what they were seeking, your experience and your skills. You did everything you could to manifest this job and to be chosen as the perfect addition to the company.

The interview was perfect, you had an immediate connection with the Human Resources Manager. You answered all the questions with confidence and ease. You felt that you had this job in the bag. You were already envisioning your office and how you were going to spend that first pay check.

A week goes by, two weeks, three weeks… and nothing. Then, you hear that someone else was hired. They were less qualified and less personable than yourself. You ask, “Why did this person get hired and not me?” You are angry, hurt and knocked for a loop.  You don’t understand.

You move forward. A couple of years later, you are still working for the same company, however you hear that the company that did not choose you closed their doors and went bankrupt.

The lesson here is that Spirit prevented you from getting that ‘perfect job’ as Spirit knew the doors would be closing and you would be left out in the cold. Spirit did not want you to have to worry about losing your house, as the company closed so suddenly. Spirit will always intervene in situations that are not for your highest good. You may be angry or disappointed at the time, however as time passes and things happen, you look back and see that Spirit loved you enough to help you move forward. Whew! What a relief.

There is in every true woman’s heart a spark of heavenly fire, which lies dormant in the broad daylight of prosperity; but which kindles up, and beams and blazes in the dark hour of adversity ~ Washington Irving

There is always a reason for the negative actions that occur in our life, whether we attract them with our thoughts, words and actions, or whether it is to save us from a greater pain, or to allow us to access a higher level of ascension. Look again at some of the events of your life that did not meld with what you wanted at the time. How did they change you? What good came from them? How have you moved forward for the better, or are you still hanging onto the anger and bitterness?

When something negative happens to you, always know that Spirit is watching over you. Spirit is holding your hand and helping to pull the detrimental parts of your life out of the way so the new and improved can come in. It doesn’t happen on your timeline, it happens on Spirit’s timeline. And that’s okay.  When you are ready, in Spirit’s eyes, you will have all that you want to have, be or do in your life. Trust, believe and succeed. You are worth it.


About The Author: Sheri

Sheri is an international psychic and angel reader who provides clear answers on finance, career, relationships, manifesting your dreams, and working-out the kinks of life. Since 2004, Sheri is the owner on an International Spiritual Healing Centre where she runs her Reiki practice - either working on clients or teaching them the levels of Usui Reiki. She utilizes her office space for readings that are conducted via mail, phone, chat or live. Since 2008, she's honed her gifts on various psychic service websites, where she's provided telephone, chat or email readings. She also works on a spiritual network for people who have suffered horrific loss, applying her own first-hand experiences with such tragedies. Sheri's work has been described as honest, compassionate and life-transforming and she would like to see all of her clients soar free to a higher level of spirituality and growth, and exponentially change the world to the best it can be. You can get a psychic reading from Sheri at PsychicAccess.com.

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