Moon’s Mailbag # 2

Welcome to my monthly blog, Moon’s Mailbag, wherein I answer a variety of questions. Each month I select a few of the questions I receive from my clients on Psychic Access and answer them here for the benefit of all. Please remember, if your question doesn’t feature this month, it could potentially be answered in a future publication.

Q: How does one do a house cleansing? I live alone in an apartment and for some reason I feel inundated by negative energy. Please help.

I feel that the neighbors that live above and below you, as well as to the left and right, are all part of the issue. Begin by smudging your home with sage. Start at the entrance. Close all windows except for the back bedroom window; instead open it halfway for working the negative energy out of your home.

Say a cleansing prayer; there are several to choose from. You can say the Lord’s Prayer or something else that you find resonates with you. Once you have smudged the entire apartment, go out into your hallway and smudge your front door. This will seal your home from any further negative energy.

For further maintenance, after your home is cleared of all the ‘energy cobwebs,’ take some tourmaline and grid your home by placing a a tourmaline stone in every corner. This will absorb any negative energy that may seep into your home from all directions.

Sprinkle salt around on a regular basis, and then vacuum it up. This works really well. I have found diffusing essential oils to be also very helpful. Lavender, frankincense and rose are great choices. Speak or chant a mantra, or healing affirmation every day, or say something out loud to claim your space or domain. This will cast out anything that doesn’t belong there.

If your building is facing the sun, open your windows frequently and let that sunlight shine in. Sun is great at cleansing the energy in a home! Also play positive, uplifting, high vibrational music that emits good energy whenever you can. Buy some plants, as they also are great for absorbing negative energy.

Think about who you allow in your environment and who your companions are. Do you like their energy? Are they doing things that could invite in negative energy? Ask yourself, do I resonate and enjoy the energy of this person? If not, then do not invite in them into your home in future.

Q: I recently found an old friend of mine from high school on a social media site. I’m sad, because have always been close and the best of friends. She was super health conscious in the past. We would go to the gym together and always enjoyed each other’s company. Now, when I’m around her, I just feel this void inside of her. She admitted she did drugs and still drinks. I feel like she isn’t the same person and not sure if I want to continue the friendship. Do you sense what is going on and what I should do?

It is alcohol. Before I even read most of your email, I immediately saw an image of liquor that would indicate she is doing something to alter her mental faculties. I have a feeling she has been doing this for some time as well. I want you to ask her to maybe go to a Yoga Class with you. I have a feeling you do this and I bet she would just love this too. It will cause her to think about her choices and quite possibly make healthier ones.

I feel she wants to stop drinking, but needs something to fill that void. Yoga I feel may just be the hot ticket. Once she stops drinking the light in her eyes will return. I see that you both are on two separate paths. I would go with my intuition. Do what feels right to you in your friendship.

Q: I have been married for 25 years. I love my wife, but feel we have grown apart. She is very uninterested in anything I have to say and she no longer wants to be intimate with me. Frankly, I don’t think she is attracted to me anymore. I feel alone in this marriage. She and I decided against counseling, because we both feel this won’t work. Friends of ours have had really bad experiences and it cost a fortune…and they ended up divorced anyway. We argue all the time. My question is this: should I stay, or go? 

I feel there is still unfinished business and that you both have many more seasons or chapters together. However, I also see this will be a tough time for you both. I feel that she is inundated with so much worry. She is stressed out. It’s hard for her to connect. But things will change.

I’m also seeing she has been care-giving for an older person – more than likely a mother.  Communication is key of course. I feel there are kids involved, so this also makes it hard for alone time.

I agree that there are just as many good counselors and coaches, as there are the less effective ones. This goes for all professionals and it is a matter of finding the right one for your needs.

If you both are willing to do the work, stay! If you both are not, go. I will send healing prayers and energy for you both. Love always wins. But one must be willing to do the work. Sometimes life becomes so busy, we can’t think clearly. If you’re faithful and thinking with clarity, and she is too, and you both truly love each other, love will find a way.