The past few months have been a very difficult time in my life. I had a lot of time to reflect and put my own needs in perspective. My experience with this stress has given me coping skills that I want to share with you.
We all have choices in life when we believe that we have hit rock bottom. We can choose to stay at the bottom and focus on that negative energy, or we can look for the positive side and see that there is nowhere else to go, except back up to the top.
My mother is fighting cancer right now. She is strong and healthy and has always focused on a healthful and active lifestyle. Why is this happening to someone who does all the right things in life, when there are so many people that do not take care of themselves and then live a longer life?
I could choose to focus on such negative thoughts or I could choose to find the positive in this situation. Spending time with my mother, taking her to appointments, cooking her favorite meals and offering my listening ear has created a positive spirit for both of us.
An effort made for the happiness of others lifts us above ourselves ~ Lydia M. Child
I am trying to spend as much time with her as possible, giving her time to live, love and laugh. We focus on today and make plans for tomorrow. By keeping busy and reminiscing over the positive memories we shared, is truly helping me through this very stressful time with my mother.
On top of dealing with my Mother, I have a nine year old Doberman dog that is very close to me. He has just been diagnosed with liver disease and his prognosis is not good. The added stress of my dog’s health has been challenging. Sometimes I think that if it wasn’t for bad luck, I would have no luck at all.
Yet, I choose to focus on the power of positive thinking. This is not always easy, when we have more stress in our life at one time than we can handle. I have decided to make my time with my Mother and my dog more comfortable and meaningful by putting my own life to the side temporarily, and focus on quality time with them. This will give me the satisfaction of knowing that I have made the last chapter in both their lives more comfortable.
It is one of the most beautiful compensations of this life that no man can sincerely try to help another without helping himself ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson
When I have too much time to think, I try to keep busy with positive people and avoid the negative people that bring me down. By doing this, I am focusing on my own needs, so I can better help the ones that need me the most.
I have found my greatest strength in life is giving back to society and sharing my positive energy. Helping others in need is the best way to combat stress! This is one of the reasons why I really enjoy doing psychic readings for all my clients on Psychic Access. We work together to find the positive in each and every situation If you have a difficult situation and need help, contact me anytime I am available, so I can help you deal with the stress and difficult time in your life.
| PsychicAccess.com.Carli is an international psychic advisor, based in Canada. She is a Certified Early Childhood Educator with a background in Communication and Psychology from Capilano and Douglas Colleges in British Columbia. Carli currently team teaches full day Junior and Senior Kindergarten for the puplic school board in Ontario. When she is not working with children, Carli is available on Psychic Access. She loves to help people from all walks of life, all over the world with her unique and gifted psychic abilities, to guide them on their special pathway in life. Carli possesses the qualities of a kind, caring and compassionate individual with sensitivity and empathy in regards to the needs of others. Get a reading with Carli at |
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