The Unconditional Love Of Spirit

I have never promoted myself as a medium, however on occasion I do get messages from those whom have crossed over. I have always received these messages from those that I have known personally and loved. However, for others it is only if they show themselves to me and allow me to access their energy.

One of the most often asked question from clients when they are hoping to connect with a loved one is often, “Are they happy?” Because of the misconceptions that sometimes exist of death, and what happens when someone crosses over, I have been led to clarify what has been shown to me over the years.

Life is eternal and love is immortal; And death is only a horizon, And a horizon is nothing save the limit of our sight ~ Rossiter W. Raymond

When someone is about to cross over, even when it happens in an unexpected way, such as an accident or murder, there is that brief moment when their guardian angel is right there with them and takes them by the hand to show them the way. It will be okay and everything is beautiful beyond the veil.

If you ever happen to be present with someone that is close to that moment of crossing over, even if they are in a comatose state, watch their face. You will often see them smile and a light that shines (or seems to shine) from their facial area.  That is the moment their angel has appeared to them. That is the exact moment they become at peace with what is about to happen.

When you lose someone, the physical body is gone, but the spirit lives on forever. The soul does not die. It does not disappear, it simply is. The spirit, all spirit is 100% unconditional love. When the spirit leaves the physical, there is no pain, there is no hate, no anger, there is no resentment. Absolutely nothing negative that remains. There is simply love – unconditional love.

Children sometimes ask if their parents who have crossed, are ashamed or proud of them. There is only love, so how could they be ashamed?

When you lose someone, know that the energy remains with you and around you. You can access it when you truly need to feel it.  You may not remember everything, however they are there. At times they may cause a car to not start, in order for you to avoid an accident. They may cause your alarm clock to not go off, so that you will be late, again to avoid some calamity.  They may cause a restaurant order to be sent back to the kitchen, when it was made wrong, because the person that made the original one did not wash their hands properly and they didn’t want you to get sick. They don’t stop everything negative from happening to you, however they do assist in your daily life at times, simply to show love to you.

In sorrow we must go, but not in despair. Behold! we are not bound for ever to the circles of the world, and beyond them is more than memory ~ J.R.R. Tolkien

I lost my stepson to suicide several years ago. When his wife and two young sons were traveling to go on vacation, their vehicle suddenly stalled. They had to pull over and were trying to figure out what had caused the problem, but nothing was wrong at all. They became frustrated, as they wanted to get to their vacation destination, but there was absolutely nothing they could do about it. A short while later, the vehicle simply started again, as if nothing was wrong. When they got a few miles down the road, there was a fatal accident that had taken place. Had they not had their van stall, they would have been a part of a multi-vehicle pile-up. He was there for them without being asked.

When I sit quietly and meditate, my necklace will roll up and down the back of my neck. It is very irritating, because I am trying to find that peaceful state. But that is actually my father, being a nuisance. I just laugh and say, “Hi dad!” And it stops.

Spirit likes to be acknowledged. So, when something happens, simply talk to the loved one that comes to your mind. They are listening. They are loving you, and even if you resented each other in the physical body, they are now loving you with 100% unconditional love.