Have you ever been around someone that makes you feel like you have to monitor every single thing you say, for fear you may be hurting their feelings?
Do you know it feels to be constantly cautious and guarded around someone, because they internalize everything you say? It really is like walking on eggshells.
I used to know someone like that. At first I complied, but then one day I decided to start talking like one would normally talk to most folks. I just wanted to see what would become of it.
It helped, as it made the person begin to see how silly they were being. This person even felt bad for making like the world revolved around them. I guess you could say it was very healing and embarrassing at the same time.
Also, have you ever known anyone that you shared some inner most concern with, and they just made like you were making a mountain out of a molehill, while you really had some major worries or anxiety over the matter? You feel safe and secure with sharing your inner most fear with someone, and they react like it is nothing. They may even turn around and act as if what you are saying is just plain wrong, or irrelevant! I have experienced this and it’s no fun, trust me. If you’re like me, you just stop talking to this person all together about anything that may matter.
There is nothing we like to see so much as the gleam of pleasure in a person’s eye when he feels that we have sympathized with him, understood him. At these moments something fine and spiritual passes between two friends. These are the moments worth living ~ Don Marquis
These interpersonal experiences can be frustrating or hurtful, but also very valuable if you learn from it. As soon as this kind of communication happens with someone, you can reflect on whom you can really trust and have faith in and who not. If you become more aware of whom you surround yourself with, more people will come into your life that will truly hear you and really have compassion and a deep understanding of what you’re trying to impart. They will also be willing and able to give great advice and be a great sounding board for you, without being egotistical or just uncaring!
Always pray to God to send compassionate people into your life, to help you and to be a support system and encourage you on your way, as you can do likewise. We must be careful who we open up to, as we could potentially be setting ourselves up for unnecessary disappointments.
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