Drama, Chaos, Anger, Oh My!

I have known too many friends, relatives, family members and clients who have suffered needlessly because of disease (dis-ease) and many different health ailments, all because they couldn’t get away from negative people and situations. I have read for numerous clients that have called asking about relationships only to have the reading turn into a health reading for themselves, and my clients being completely freaked out that I could tell they were having the issues they were having without them even mentioning it to me.

I can tell right away by the sound of their voice the energy around them, as I can close my eyes and see their aura even from a distance on the phone. I can tell if there is someone around them emanating angry, negative tension which seems to cause a lot of health issues – from thyroid disorders to acid imbalances in the body. I want you to know that you don’t have to stay in unhealthy relationships, or be around psychic vampires and toxic people that are not good for your health.

We do not have to be mental health professionals to identify the traits of the possible sociopaths among us ~ P.A. Speers

It seems cancer is on the rise and so many other health-related issues. We have to treat our personal space the way we treat our food. Many of us are careful what we choose to eat, we make sure it is healthy for us and not riddled with chemicals. We have to do the same thing with the companions we choose and make sure they are not sucking the life out of us with their negativity.

If we don’t take action, it can cost us… with a decline in our energy level, our health and well-being. If you don’t have your health you really have nothing. Think about it. So, today sit quietly and think about the people you choose to spend time with. Do they gossip, do they invite drama and chaos, is it difficult to have a real meaningful conversation? Do they live in denial about things they do to others? Maybe they are the ones who planted the seed that made the situation what it is? Evaluate your life and those who you allow in it. Time waits for no one and if you don’t start being proactive, you may find that you start to have health problems, or maybe you already have them.

Here are some things to think about and ask yourself when around certain toxic people that could be contributing to dis-ease in your life:

1. Does this person make my blood pressure rise or make me feel on edge?
2. Does this person or environment make me feel like I’m being attacked?
3. Is this person making me feel like I did something wrong, when I know very well I have done nothing?
4. Do I feel drained after spending time or being around this person?
5. Do I feel like I can’t keep it real around this person, for fear they will gossip to others about what I’m sharing?

There’s folks you just don’t need. You’re better off without em. Your life is just a little better because they ain’t in it ~ William Gay

If you answered yes to some of these questions, the odds are you may need to think about what people you need to steer clear of and maybe try the “less is more” approach when dealing with these folks. Your health is so vital and important, especially if you have grandchildren or children, or have a weak immune system. Stay strong and healthy for yourself and those that need you.

Meditate or talk to someone who can help you protect your energy field. I teach people how to protect themselves energetically, especially those that feel there is no getting away from the difficult people in their life. There are other options, but my best advice is to change your situation so that you don’t have to be around them. Anger does kill, and living in a hostile environment day in and day out can be extremely toxic. So make that change. Be safe and keep yourself energetically protected. Your health depends on it.