Learning The Lesson Is The Only Way Forward

Doing readings for people all over the world, I am asked ‘why’ questions every day. Why am I so unlucky? Why does nothing ever go right for me? Why is God punishing me? Why can’t I ever win in life? Why am I never successful and happy like everyone else?

Prior to coming to this earth plane, each of us asked to experience certain life challenges and lessons for our soul growth. For example, some of us asked for the lesson of unconditional love. However, to achieve unconditional love, someone must first cause us harm or hurt, for us to learn to truly forgive them. Only then can we truly experience unconditional love.

I have had many clients tell me over the years that they will never forgive someone for what they had done to them. They refuse to let it go. It is indeed a difficult lesson. In fact, all life lessons are very challenging. To make matters worse, if we do not successfully learn the lesson to complete the process, the same lesson will be presented to us again, and again, until we do.

This is why you someone will repeatedly have the same relationship issues with different partners. No matter who they form an attachment with, the complications, challenges and dramas are always more of the same. The spiritual growth lesson is never dealt with and released. Many people spend a lifetime in these never-ending loops.

Ask yourself what you want to see change or happen in your life. What do you consider to be the most positive, best outcome for your future?  Then imagine for a moment that you have already achieved this life goal. Now, how does it feel to be in that positive place? If you can see yourself in that place and sense the love of your guides and angels in that place with you, then and only then, are you truly ready to move forward with the positive energy you need to actually achieve it.

To forgive is the highest, most beautiful form of love. In return, you will receive untold peace and happiness ~ Robert Muller

How do you move forward and accomplish your life goals and spiritual mission? Easy. Quit carrying forward all the negative stuff. Let go of the hatred, anger, resentment, spite, self-pity, and victim mentality. Give yourself permission to accept, to forgive, to release, to love.

And this does not mean you have to forgive others in person. Forgiveness is not a gift you give to others. It is a gift you give to yourself. Often the people we hold in a place of unforgiveness in our own mind, do not even realize they need your forgiveness. And some who do, simply do not care.

You do not need their involvement, unless you feel it is necessary to include them for their sake. If not, simply tell the Universe that you are forgiving and releasing all that has been locked up in your heart. Once you do, those burdens will start to fall away, as you begin to open a door of freedom to the next chapter of your life.

I know of people who dragged the heavy burden of anger, bitterness, and hatred all the way to their grave. If this is what you also intend to do, know that you will take all of it with you. And when you return in the next lifetime, you will experience it all over again, only in a much harsher, more agonizing way.

The act of forgiveness takes place in our own mind. It really has nothing to do with the other person ~ Louise Hay

The best way to leave this earth someday will be in a state of clarity and cleanliness of soul. The sooner you allow yourself to begin to accomplish this, the more fulfilling, peaceful, and happy your life will become moving forward. Be kind to yourself and others. Keep your heart filled with love and your soul in a clean state and watch how your life begins to shift and change for the better.

You are a creation of the Divine and you have the sacred power within to be in an abundant, joyful state in every aspect of your life. Start looking in the mirror and recognize the petty, pointless choices that are holding you back. Then find a way to let them go.