The Key To A Lasting Relationship Is Inner Peace

One of the most consistent issues that often come up in relationship readings is what I call the ‘peace vibe.’ And this kind of inner peace is associated with our capacity to trust in an abundant universe. Most of my clients believe there is a divine power greater than us, but trusting that this power can help us create a positive momentum in our lives is another story entirely!

It is said that Albert Einstein once remarked that the most important decision we have to make in this life is whether we believe in a friendly, or hostile universe. This is the foundational question when talking about whether we are in the ‘vibe of peace,’ or not. If someone is constantly waiting for the proverbial ‘shoe to drop,’ they are likely not living in peace.

You see, our point of attraction is determined by our vibes (energy vibration), which is why inner peace is such an important concept in manifesting a lasting, successful relationship. Trust is the key foundation for all relationships. Sure, all relationships also pose an element of risk, but a hyper-focus on the risk will only create a mental and emotional environment that does not facilitate a happy and healthy relationship. In fact, with my experience of doing love and relationship readings for the past 20 years, I would go as far as to say that without trust there really is no relationship.

So, how does this work? Well, have you ever noticed that highly critical people will always find something or someone to judge or criticize? There is never a lack of reasons for criticism from disapproving or disparaging people. The same is also true when there is a lack of inner peace. Chaos naturally follows chaotic people, while people who choose serenity and joy experience more serenity and joy in their lives.

Peace is the result of retraining your mind to process life as it is, rather than as you think it should be ~ Wayne W. Dyer

There is no way we can create or sustain a relationship without kindness, love, joy, and inner peace. The best that can be achieved without it are temporary states of painful longing or frustration, or even the desire for other people, or the world around us, to change. We all want our world to be better, and many people also cultivate the futile hope that other people will change to suit their needs or requirements. However, none of us have that level power over the world, or other people. We can however contribute to making our world a better place if we choose kindness, love, joy, and peace. These are fundamental principles or ‘vibes’ for living a conscious, fulfilling life.

We can only create based on two different vibration principles. We can manifest through lack, or abundance. The abundance vibes for relationships are found in a person’s capacity to experience compassion, love, joy, and peace. These are not ‘one and done’ principles.

If there’s no inner peace, people can’t give it to you. The husband can’t give it to you. Your children can’t give it to you. You have to give it to you ~ Linda Evans

We must make the choice every day to accept ourselves and others, to express ourselves genuinely, and to trust. Even the most advanced person will have variations of these challenging choices on their spiritual journey. The good news is that no matter how stuck someone feels they are,they always still have a choice. The goal is not perfection, but to be better than the day before, and the day before that.

The power to choose kindness, love, joy and peace exists for you right now. It does not matter how terrible things may seem, or how many life challenges you may have gone through. You can make the choice today to choose better vibes.