We Choose How We Wish To Cross Over

Death and crossing over is a unique process for each individual. At the time of passing, the soul may leave the body in a variety of ways. Sometimes the soul will even leave before the body fully ‘shuts down,’ eager to transition to the bliss, peace and harmony that awaits on the other side. And sometimes the human ego is not ready to embrace the transition and resists the departure. When we do not want to leave our physical body, we cause ourselves more anxiety and frustration and simply make it harder for our soul to pass into spirit. But there is no reason to resist or fear our passing. I know this for personal experience.

Some of us will also choose to pass quietly into spirit, when our loved ones are not around. My husband chose to pass this way, as I was not in the room when he secretly went. He wanted to spare me the trauma of that decisive moment and did not want me to suffer his loss any more than I needed to.

So, he went quietly to God, and I know that he is in the most beautiful place now that one could ever imagine. I know this because I have seen it myself in a near-death experience, but it wasn’t my time to go back then, and therefore I chose to come back.

But what I saw, I will never forget. Imagine a perfectly beautiful spring day, the sun shining so warmly on the most beautiful flowers that you have ever seen. We also return to spirit in a younger state, with no more aches and pains, and we always return home at the age we feel the best. Seeing my departed loved ones again was so amazing and surreal, but as much as I wanted to stay with them, I knew I had to come back to my loved ones here.

If we listen and observe carefully the dying can teach us important things that we need to learn in preparing for the end of our own life’s journey ~ Robert L. Wise

Because of what I had seen, I no longer fear death, because I know what I am going home to. When we come to this planet we must be born and we have to go through death. It is all part of the journey, and when we struggle to understand and accept this, we can become very fearful of it and the process.

The work that we do while we are here on Earth is to progress our soul. This is the purpose for our being here. Earth is like a classroom, and we never stop learning.

I believe that the soul usually provides the opportunity for us to say goodbye, but there are no set rules. Great things await us on the other side. We get to see our loved ones again, as well as our pets, if we have had them in this life. It is a huge celebration returning to the spirit realm, because they are so happy to have us back. They are all waiting for us to come home, when it is our time and not any sooner!

We never cross over alone. Our departed loved ones in spirit are always by our side to guide and protect us. This is why one often finds that when someone is ready to cross over into spirit, they will see and speak to people who have already passed. It is known as death bed visions. They are becoming more spirit than human, so this is a normal thing to happen.