Healing Painful Soul Memories

Every moment in our life creates a soul memory. Some of those memories are wonderful, and some are dreadful. The most horrific memories can be buried so deep, that the are no longer conscious memories, but they still affect how we move forward in life.

For example, a person who was sexually abused as a child may gain excessive weight or become self-destructive in their habits, in order to punish themselves, or to protect themselves from being the source of someone wanting to abuse them again.  Because this abuse can happen at such a young age, the child may not have a conscious recollection of it until something in the present triggers it. They often have the barriers of protection they have created, but they do not know why.

When a trigger comes to surface that brings up a subconscious soul memory, it needs to be dealt with, or it will start to eat away at all the enjoyment in a person’s life. It will ruin their relationships, friendships and even work relationships, because the person simply cannot function at their true and full capacity with joy in their soul.

How do you heal painful soul memories? It takes a lot of work. It does not happen in a moment, or overnight. It is a matter of looking at each aspect, one at a time, forgiving what happened, forgiving yourself for carrying it for so long, and releasing it from your soul memory.

Just as our bodies hold memories of everything that has happened to us in this lifetime, so our auras, our electro-magnetic fields around our bodies, hold memories of everything that has ever happened to our soul ~ Hazel Williams-Carter

One way this can be done is by writing it down in as much detail as you can on a piece of paper, holding the paper in your hands, asking the angels to assist in clearing the issue and the memory from your soul and helping you to apply forgiveness to the issue. Then simply tear up the paper, put it in a metal bowl or a fireplace, and burn the pieces to ashes. Once you have the ashes, take it either to a water source, such as a river, lake, ocean, or stream, or somewhere in nature, and let it go. Ash composts and dissipates, so it does not pollute or hurt the environment.  By letting it go, you are saying, “I am free of this.”

Will it come back again? Some will, some won’t. Strong issues may take months to move beyond and many times spiritual counseling or psychological therapy can be very beneficial. You have to take charge of your life; no one else can do this for you. No one can make the hurt go away, except for you.

The reason I write about this is, I am one of those children. I have come a long way in my self-work and self-healing. I have performed many soul ceremonies and they are a bit more detailed in what I have written as the synopsis of this. It is something that will bring tears, anger, hurt, sadness, more anger and then suddenly a sense of ‘all is well and I can move forward.’    When you get that feeling, no matter what the issue, it is euphoric. Spirit rejoices within you and you rejoice outwardly.

The process of healing emotional wounds can feel uncomfortable at first, but I promise it will be a very rewarding journey. The energy we currently spend on trauma will be released, and the space inside ourselves that trauma took up can instead be filled with new, more positive energy that can help us build a life that we will love ~ Andrea Brandt

I have thanked my angels and guides many times for the work they do within me, through me for others, and around me as I walk my path. They understand, as do I, that I am never alone and none of this happens as a punishment to me. It simply happened and they will give me the strength I need, whenever I ask.

If at first you don’t succeed, please do not give up. Healing is essential to living your best life. If you would like more assistance with your soul memories, please feel free to contact me at Psychic Access and I will give you the detailed steps to move your life forward for your highest good.