Manifesting A Better Life

Many questions I am asked in psychic readings have to do with why someone’s life has not changed to what they want it to be.  Some people feel they have religiously applied the teachings of Abraham-Hicks, or they closely followed the guidelines of the book The Secret by Rhonda Byrnes, or one of the many other popular methods for manifesting through the Law of Attraction, but nothing has changed.

And when I ask these people what they have changed in their inner being or subconscious mind to allow the new to come in, often I receive the response, “Oh, I have already done all that!” However, had the person ‘done all that’ they would be manifesting their intentions. But they are not.

Some steps on the way to manifesting a better life may seem redundant – especially the detail work, the forgiveness and releasing, and the simply believing that it can come… and not specifically in the way that the person has set out in their mind.

By choosing your thoughts, and by selecting which emotional currents you will release and which you will reinforce, you determine the quality of your Light. You determine the effects that you will have upon others, and the nature of the experiences of your life ~ Gary Zukav

Too often the person that is trying to get ahead in life, however, always struggles with money, or has it in their mind that they have to work 80 hours a week instead of 35 to get what they are seeking. That is not allowing, that is trying to make it happen in their way. And yet the answers are so much simpler.

As I look at love, finances, work, material items, health, I see the world is in a state of turmoil for the most part. I see bad things happening to good people, and those good people simply giving up hope. And then I see the ones that are constantly growing and getting further ahead without much effort.

What makes their success in this area so much easier? It is where their head is at. They are not thoroughly focused on that one thing they want and then being discouraged, because it isn’t happening in their timeline. They focus on many areas of their life and they know that the thing that they desire, will come when the time is right.

The following are some potential problem areas one needs to be aware of as you are trying to manifest better things into your life. First you must be okay with you – who you are, where you are in your life and grateful for what you have achieved to date. Everyone has achieved something, everyone also has something to be grateful for. Every day you get out of bed, you declare that today is going to be the best day ever. And then you give thanks for that which you have at this time.

If you feel there is nothing to be thankful for, nothing will change.  Do you have fingers? Toes? Eyes? A roof over your head? Clothes on your back?  All the little things are just as important as the big things in life. Start with what you know and then work yourself up daily from that point.

Let your alignment (with Well-Being) be first and foremost, and let everything else be secondary. And not only will you have an eternally joyous journey, but everything you have ever imagined will flow effortlessly into your experience ~ Abraham–Hicks

If you are trying to manifest money, each time you receive anything, even if only your weekly pay, a penny on the ground, no matter how big or small, you give thanks immediately for the blessing. You might wonder what good is a penny… but when you don’t know the significance of the penny, then you will never understand the importance of a large sum. It is about basics and being appreciative to the Universe for the little things, so you will bring in the larger things.

If you are trying to manifest love, and you do not love yourself unconditionally, how is someone supposed to come in and love you unconditionally? When you feel you are flawed or not perfectly handsome or beautiful or overweight or don’t like this or that about yourself, but you are expecting that prince or princess to ride in on their white horse and sweep you off your feet – why would they?

If you cannot love who you are without doubt or conditions, no one else will break that down. Your mantra every day should be: “I am amazing, I am smart, I love myself unconditionally, I am perfectly perfect as I am.”  And with that, you have told the Universe, “I believe in me, so I know someone else will too.”

There is so much more to manifesting good things in your life and I would love to go into great detail about your specific area, so feel free to contact me with the details and what area you are trying to change.