Releasing Your Heart From A Failed Relationship

How does one let go and move on from a painful, failed relationship? This is a regular question any psychic will receive from their clients.

It may be helpful to make a list of all of the negative attributes of the person your trying to get over, but when we look deeper, as psychic advisors, we often see a web of energy entanglement present between the caller and the person they are trying so hard to sever ties with. There is often so much more going on than simply the physical and emotional. Hence, the challenge to break free.

“I want to release him,” says the client, almost pleadingly. Sometimes the caller can feel as if they are just about getting over the subject of their affection, and then… wham! A message, a media post, or sudden surge of longing surfaces to claw them back into wanting the relationship at any cost. This often reminds me of popular oldies like Engelbert Humperdinck’s Please Release Me and Gladys Knight’s Midnight Train To Georgia (I‘d rather live in his world… than live without him in mine).

I think that you never fall out of love with somebody, you just let go and move on ~ Ashley Rickards

Basically, we are dealing here with the spiritual energy of two individuals tangled up like a spider’s web. In many cases, the caller is trying to break loose from a far from perfect relationship, which is often toxic or even abusive. More often than not, individuals have thrown themselves into a romantic situation too quickly, or even started out wishing an initial connection will evolve into something it never could. So, it will take a bit of time to detach fully and heal.

We all want to understand why things went flat or ended. To understand fully would be like trying to understand exactly what makes the other person tick, and they probably don’t even know themselves a great deal of the time!. Not to mention the difference between men and women. I guess many women assume that men think just like they do, and vice versa. They don’t.

We fantasize about what could have been, based on the magic we felt at the beginning of a relationship, and the other person could probably never have lived up to our projections anyway.

Having a connection with someone can mean they have been put in our path for the spiritual lesson of whatever emotion that lesson with him or her brings. It may be a repetitive painful lesson, a reminder that we’ve ‘been there, done that’, over and over, with heart-break at the end. It’s time to throw away that old T-Shirt.

The most difficult aspect of moving on is accepting that the other person already did ~ Faraaz Kazi

Also, that sudden rush of desire can simply be Nature’s ‘trap’ to have children together or, in many cases to bring us yet another fresh lesson.

If you are at this time without a partner, there is nothing wrong with you! On the contrary, you are experiencing a spiritual time of growth to fill your world with you. Let go of the feelings of rejection, and do not linger any longer in a web of negative energy entanglement with someone who is blocking your joy and spiritual progress.