Always Keep An Open Mind In Psychic Readings

In high school, I predicted that a friend of mine would lose something valuable and then have a car accident shortly thereafter.

I also warned him that the loss of something valuable would be an omen: a sign from the universe for him to be more careful and responsible.

He looked at me like I was crazy.

A few months later he lost his wallet because he had been careless. He later told me it reminded him of what I had said and it shook him up enough to start being more careful in his daily life. He even stopped his bad habit of never using his seat belt when driving.

Good thing he did. A few months later, he drove his car off a cliff! The police officer told him that he would have been killed if he had not been wearing his seat belt.

He brought up the story at our ten-year high school reunion and praised me as the person who saved his life. Of course, I did not mention the eye-rolling and “you’re crazy” look he gave me at the time. Besides, saying “I told you so” is not very dignified.

Not much has changed since high school. As a professional psychic, I still have to tell my clients things that makes them doubt our connection or my ability, and sometimes even my sanity! You learn to suck it up and deal with the raised eyebrows and side-eyes.

I understand how it feels for them, because I have had to keep an open mind as a psychic client, too. Many years ago, a medium told me that I would also work as a psychic one day. I thought this was really strange because I had been in the performing arts most of my life, and in my mind there was no way she could be right. But here I am today. Even psychics don’t always know where life is taking them.

Your assumptions are your windows on the world. Scrub them off every once in a while, or the light won’t come in ~ Isaac Asimov

I have never heard anyone say that their life turned out exactly as they had hoped or planned. Many people marry someone who does not fit their description of the perfect partner, or divorce the person they thought they would spend the rest of their lives with. Some people have more or fewer children than they originally planned, or excel in a career they never intended to pursue, or move to a place they never imagined.

How many things in your own life have come as a complete surprise, good or bad? What if a psychic had told you ten years ago that this would happen? Would you have considered them a fraud, or inaccurate, or out of tune with you? Most likely you would.

We just don’t know every detail of our soul plan and life journey. This is why it is important to always keep an open mind when getting a psychic reading. You shouldn’t blindly believe and trust everything a psychic says, but at least keep an open mind.

I once told a client that she was going to have a baby girl. She did not believe that was possible. She had been traumatized at the age of five watching her brother be born and swore she would never give birth. In fact, she used three types of birth control to make sure. A few months later, she became pregnant with a baby girl and gave birth with an epidural. Always keep an open mind.

Over the years, I have had to be the bearer of bad news for many clients, telling them that the person they are currently dating, or hoping will come back into their lives, is not the person they are going to marry. Some get very sad, some get angry, some just hang up the phone. Some say they know I am wrong and I am just not reading them right.

The thing is, it’s very dangerous to have a fixed idea. A person with a fixed idea will always find some way of convincing himself in the end that he is right ~ Atle Selberg

Many call back later to tell me that they are now engaged to someone else. Someone much better for them and much more emotionally available has come along. Holding on to an outcome can only bring you pain. You don’t know what is for your greater good, or what or who will truly make you happy. Always keep an open mind.

I have done many psychic readings where the information I got was very subtle, incomplete, and even downright nonsensical. I wish the information always came in full sentences and complete novels, but it just doesn’t.

When the client is patient and receptive, I am usually able to clarify the message and help them connect with their loved ones. But when they become skeptical, rude, or impatient, the information becomes distorted or blocked, and I lose my focus. Sometimes I lose the connection altogether. I have even had a loved one from the other side apologize for their relative’s rudeness and impatience with me!

With modern technology and digital communication, we have become a very demanding and impatient society. Patience is one of the most important spiritual virtues. Always keep an open mind.

Once I kept seeing a white rabbit in a psychic reading. It made no sense to me. I asked if the deceased had a pet rabbit? No. Was the Easter Bunny her favorite storybook character as a child? No. Was Alice in Wonderland her favorite book? No. Did she like to do magic tricks? No.

Finally, the client remembered that her loved one’s favorite song was White Rabbit by Jefferson Airplane! Once that hurdle was cleared, the information poured in and I was able to see how she died and why, and I was able to give my client profound messages of love and healing.

Only an open mind still has room for new knowledge. What is outgrown and used up must be discarded to make room for what is yet to be learned ~ Robert Fulghum

I told a friend that she would eventually move to California after all her children moved there. They all lived on the east coast at the time. She told me that none of her children liked California and she really didn’t see them moving there. She also knew for sure that her husband would never consider moving to California.

That was several years ago. Currently, two of the three children live in California and the third wants to move there as soon as it is financially feasible. My friend is now divorced – another thing she never thought would happen after 30 years of marriage. Now that she is no longer with her ex-husband, there is nothing to keep her on the East Coast, and she is increasingly considering moving closer to her children. Always keep an open mind.

No psychic is 100% accurate and things change over time due to divine intervention and the free will actions of everyone involved. We do not always understand what we cannot imagine at the time. Looking into a fluid future is never clear and straightforward, so if you get some unusual or unexpected information in a reading, take a deep breath, with a healthy dose of skepticism, and always keep an open mind.