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How To Block The Energy Of Negative People

click here for a free psychic reading at PsychicAccess.comIt seems that negativity and negative people are becoming more prevalent these days. Just a decade ago, I can remember people being afraid to be “publicly negative.” No one wanted to be seen as being negative, or as someone that brought others down.

I find myself avoiding large groups and big events, because I just don’t want negativity and lower vibrations impacting my happy life. But I do go to activities and fun events for the sake of my 3-year-old child, and often some of the moms, women who are forming impressionable minds, can’t seem to help themselves, but go to the negative! A few weeks ago, for example, I complimented a mom on her daughter’s excellent vocabulary and she told me no one had ever said anything like that to her before. She said people just tear each other down nowadays. How sad.

I am currently five months pregnant. I keep having other moms asking me how I am feeling, which is very nice. However, when I say I feel great, they seem surprised, even sometimes put off. They ask, “You don’t have any unpleasant symptoms?” Well, yes. Of course, I do. I’m pregnant! But whatever the symptom is, mild though it may be, it is still a gift to me – a pleasant reminder that I am so incredibly lucky. Even when I got morning sickness, I remember thinking during it, it’s okay, it’s okay, it will be over soon. You’re lucky. This means you’re pregnant!

Actually, I am up writing this blog at 3:00am, because I have pregnancy insomnia. Right now, I am up, because I am pregnant. It’s okay. I’ll sleep properly again in another five years, when both of my kids are older. Meanwhile, I’m getting a lot done that I can’t do during the day.

Don’t let negative and toxic people rent space in your head. Raise the rent and kick them out ~ Robert Tew

I’m  a firm believer in venting to friends. I see that people I care about, who hold their anger and sadness in, tend to not do very well emotionally. However, that is very different from constantly venting about every little irritation in front of strangers or acquaintances. That changes the vibration of the room. It can change the vibration of the people in the room too, if they started off having a lower vibration. It can even make people physically sick. It will definitely wear people down.

I refuse to ever insult people. If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all. Or find a compliment in there somewhere. There is something worth complimenting in every human being.

I am also having more and more clients call me these days due to negativity, because they are feeling drained by toxic people in their family or work. So, how do you deal with this problem? Well, if these people cannot be avoided, which should always be the first and best option, there are many other ways to block their energy from causing you harm.

When a person is around me and they start spewing negativity, I compliment them, for example. Sometimes I even interrupt them!  It usually stops them in their tracks. Keep in mind, these people are miserable. They are hurting. Spending five minutes with them can make you sick to your stomach. Now, imagine being them 24/7! Often just complimenting them puts a smile on their face, and gives them a few minutes break from the nightmare that is their life, and into which they want to pull you down with them.

I also send negative people some white light energy. I smile with joy and envision them surrounded by white, healing, loving light. If they block it, at least I am at peace. You can’t send light and be stressed, or in a negative place. And, remember, whatever you send to another, good or bad, comes back to you! So, you are in essence also sending yourself some white light love.

Stop letting people who do so little for you control so much of your mind, feelings and emotions ~ Will Smith

Additionally, whenever I am around negative ‘energy vampires,’ I keep my hands on my third chakra, the solar plexus. Many of these people are energy stealers, since they have cut themselves off from the Source. They no longer smell the flowers, smile at the birds chirping, or see the vibrant colors in nature. They do not live with an attitude of gratitude and appreciation for whatever is still good in their life.

They bow their heads in a sea of toxic waste, buried in their cell phones, trying to stay distracted from the hate and sadness they are living. They have cut themselves off from any joy in life. Because of this. They often steal energy from others, almost always unconsciously. Protecting your third chakra is therefore important, so they cannot drain that vital energy center.

If someone is intentionally trying to insult you, or tear you down, pretend like they are complimenting you. Just don’t get sucked in. That has been one of the most effective things I have found to do when I am around jealous, insecure, competitive people. I don’t hear their negativity, or I pretend I don’t hear it.

You don’t need to get even. Keep out of the ‘revenge’ mindset. It’s unhealthy and it keeps you locked into attracting more of those kinds of people than you need to. You can’t avoid all negative people. They are everywhere. However, you don’t want to attract more than you have to, because you are locked into a mindset of vengeance or retribution.

Turn their negativity around. Don’t get mad or hurt. They smell it, sense it and crave it. They want you to feel the misery they feel. Happiness and self-esteem is the best way to drive a miserable person crazy, and it makes them turn elsewhere.

About The Author: Satya

Satya lives in Northern California and is a natural Clairvoyant, Empath, Conduit, teacher, author, animal lover, healer, Reiki Master and an advanced yoga instructor. She has provided valuable psychic assistance to Hollywood stars, athletes, and everyone else in-between. A multi-layered Intuitive, with many unique gifts at her disposal, she can give you a doorway into the past as well as a gateway to a happier future. With her long distance energy work, she provides healing for people and animals too! She instantly spots karmic connections from past lives that directly affect current situations, helping clients to move through them quickly. For accurate solutions on just about any pressing problem, you can find Satya at

One Response to How To Block The Energy Of Negative People

  • Hi this is what I’m suffering with negativity from others !!!! Today for instance I feel like what do I have to do on life just hide away and not be around others live this lonely desolate life ????? We’re all different and there’s other people that pick up on the fact that you won’t fight then back either !!!! They delight in this in fact attacking innocent loving kind people. … I need healing I’m a woman three kids who was raped and abused for years at the hands of violent narcassiistic liar who has brainwwshed my children and tried to turn them against me and I’m lonely for them they are 20 and 21 now. My mom has gone and I have been overwhelmed by grief on and off since she left. I feel as if something wants to take me into me the sickness mode cos it would be easier just to leave me in that negative state. How ever I am very energetic positive person and have been around all the drainers for a while that have been antagonising me. I have met some lovely Christian’s lately hut that’s not for me it brings about more stress and I don’t like stress I’m like you. I try to tell some people that I’m not like then and they think I’m judging them no I’m not you just drain the life from me. I need to be around others who are the same as me and not be around the negative ones. I hate arguing or fighting or anomosity and people are always trying to change me to be like them and don’t get it. I can’t stand their ways any more their ideas or their thoughts and views on life etc. I have awakened spiritually with no one round me the same. I used to dance in a night club and loved to just depends stress In life at the weekend s because that was the only way I knew how to let go I was free to do so. Dancing and just depends stressing was the best way to destress ever I felt free and loved it. The week would go by so fast and I was that tired from dancing all night that no one bothered me at all !!! It went straight iver my head if nayone bothered me. Since stopping all that I’m lost. I’m lost without my kids and without my dancing too.

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