Stuck In A Bad Relationship?

Why do we stay ‘stuck’ in bad relationships? Over the years I have spoken to literally hundreds of people who were stuck in relationships that were not in their best interest.

People who stay in dead-end, toxic relationships are not only energetically stuck in a rut, but they are actually resisting and blocking their own growth.

But many people seem to somehow perceive that having a ‘special connection’ with someone means they are ‘the one’.

We have all had that feeling of connection. However, it goes much deeper than that. These special connections may well be spiritual links from past lives, which exist for karmic reasons only. But these connections may also simply be a very strong physical or sexual attraction. Unfortunately, we seem to ignore the red flags all too often.

When asking yourself if you are with ‘the right one’, ask yourself these very important questions:

• Does this person treat me with respect?
• Do they do nice little things for me?
• Do they support my growth?
• Do they accept me for who I am?
• Do they make efforts to communicate with me?
• Are they giving and working at this as much as I am?
• Do I feel good when I am with them?
• Can I see myself still completely in love and wanting to be with this person ten years from now?
• Do I fear missing them if I leave them, or do I really fear missing what I hope they can possibly become?

However good or bad you feel about your relationship, the person you are with at this moment is the ‘right’ person, because he or she is the mirror of who you are inside ~ Deepak Chopra

When we are guided by our feelings only, our logic often goes out the window. We may also find ourselves hanging onto relationships simply because we fear we may not find another, and that this is all we will ever get. This is all too often our beliefs on a very subconscious level.

You will be doing yourself a very huge favor by looking at who your partner is right now, in present and past, and not pinning all your hopes on what you wish he will become in the future.

Take time to explore the questions above. Remember to be honest with yourself! If you are asking a psychic over and over again whether he will change, the likely answer is: no, he will not. It is vital to know when it may be best to walk away.

I have so often helped clients realize that they are in fact only clinging to what they hope this person may become, not what they really are. That is a very empowering breakthrough for many and can be very liberating once it is accepted.

Don’t rush into any kind of relationship. Work on yourself. Feel yourself, experience yourself and love yourself. Do this first and you will soon attract that special loving other ~ Russ Von Hoelscher

Trust your inner guidance. Ask yourself if this is for your own highest good. All relationships are meant to serve a purpose, and all of them are ultimately for our own growth and fulfillment.

If you are seeking clarification on a relationship like this that you are confused about, a psychic reading will help you to explore your options. A gifted love psychic can help you see if this is merely a phase the relationship is going through, or if you should move on. Working your way through these things and being honest with ourselves is often the way we find our true life partner in the end. Love yourself enough to be honest with yourself at all times.