The Secret To Attracting A Magical Relationship

Prior to calling a psychic, you may have a certain level of worry or anxiety around a particular topic, or you might be given a nudge by your spirit guides to get insight and clarity to help you move forward toward our goal. Many people ask me in readings if I see something manifesting in their life they have wanted for a long time, or the successful outcome of something they are currently hoping to achieve.

A psychic advisor can confirm if you are on track and anchored in our power. When I do a reading, I can see a person’s soul purpose and where they currently are on their spiritual path.  I can also see the likelihood of an event happening or not, based on previous events they’ve been through, or perhaps a current spiritual lesson they are undergoing. However, what I find callers don’t always realize is that for some of the questions they ask in readings they already hold the key to not only the answers, but also how to make things happen that they may be leaving up to fate.

Whether something is going to happen in your life, or not, is mostly determined by your own thoughts and actions. For instance, if someone calls me for a reading and wants to know if things will move forward with a particular person they are romantically interested in, there are many ways the situation can potentially play out. And the outcome will depend mostly on the caller’s own thoughts, ideas, beliefs, fears, energy frequency, and behavior patterns.

The early stages of a relationship and dynamics of love can be a funny thing. I liken it to ‘reverse psychology’ in the etheric world.  I say this because what I find works most often in attracting the love of our potential partner and get their attention is somewhat counter-intuitive to what we might assume.

For example, the old saying it is best to ‘play hard to get,’ holds far more value than we may think.  Granted, it does take a lot of self-discipline to pretend we’re not as interested in someone as we really are, but I can guarantee you that energetically it will pay off.

You must be strong enough to know that love will come to you when you are ready. You must be strong enough to know when to say goodbye, and know that letting go is not weak ~ Marisa Donnelly

If they are on the fence about you, and maybe have some issues of their own they are dealing with regarding relationships, they will feel a lot less pressure psychologically and psychically coming from you. Instead, they will experience the gentle invitation of your soul.

Furthermore, if the person you are pursuing is not at all ‘into you,’ they will fall away, so that the right person can step in to fulfill your dreams. There is never anything to lose when the person we are pursuing is complacent or stagnant. It is best to ‘pull back’ your energy and give them space to clarify what’s right for them. This is key.

Many people feel if they love someone, the other should love them back. It doesn’t always go this way.  A sign of truly loving another is wanting what’s best for them first.  We can love many people and many people can love us. It isn’t the only necessary ingredient for the perfect match. It has to be a functional, working relationship between two individuals who respect each other’s needs at that time.

Things that are meant for you have a way of flowing smoothly into your life. The more you fight for something that is not meant for you, the more it will fight you ~ Rania Naim

Allowing space and time isn’t always easy to do in love, but those who wait and trust in spirit find the most fulfilling and magical relationships in my experience. You hold much more power in your romantic life than you could even imagine, and it starts with loving yourself first. When we truly love ourselves first, we will attract someone who loves themselves too, and love us unconditionally. Now that’s a match made in heaven.