People in dead-end relationships are not only stuck in a rut, but they are actually resisting and blocking their own growth.
But, somehow we seem to perceive that having a ‘special connection’ with someone means they are ‘The One’.
We have all had that feeling of connection; however it goes much deeper than that. These special connections may well be spiritual links from past lives, which exist for karmic reasons only. But, these connections may also simply be a very strong physical or sexual attraction. Unfortunately, we seem to ignore the red flags all too often.
However good or bad you feel about your relationship, the person you are with at this moment is the ‘right’ person, because he or she is the mirror of who you are inside – Deepak Chopra
When asking yourself if you are with ‘the right one’, ask yourself these very important questions:
• Does this person treat me with respect?
• Do they do nice little things for me?
• Do they support my growth?
• Do they accept me for who I am?
• Do they make efforts to communicate with me?
• Are they giving and working at this as much as I am?
• Do I feel good when I am with them?
• Can I see myself still completely in love and wanting to be with this person ten years from now?
• Do I fear missing them if I leave them or do I really fear missing what I hope they can possibly become?
When we are guided by our feelings only, our logic often goes out the window. We may also find ourselves hanging onto relationships simply because we fear we may not find another, and that this is all we will ever get. This is all too often our beliefs on a very subconscious level.
You will be doing yourself a very huge favor by looking at who your partner is right now, in present and past, and not pinning all your hopes on what you wish he will become in the future.
Don’t rush into any kind of relationship. Work on yourself. Feel yourself, experience yourself and love yourself. Do this first and you will soon attract that special loving other – Russ Von Hoelscher
Take time to explore the questions above. Remember to be honest with yourself! If you are asking a psychic over and over again whether he will change, the likely answer is “no, he will not”.
I have so often helped clients realize that they are in fact only clinging to what they hope this person may become, not what they really are. That is a very empowering breakthrough for many, and can be very liberating once it is accepted.
Trust your inner guidance. Ask yourself if this is for your own highest good. All relationships are meant to serve a purpose, and all of them are ultimately for our own growth and fulfillment.
If you are seeking clarification on a relationship like this that you are confused about, you are welcome to visit me at Psychic Access, and we will explore it together. I can help you see if this is merely a phase the relationship is going through, or if you should move on.
Working your way through these things, and being honest with ourselves is often the way we find our true life partner in the end. Love yourself enough to be honest with yourself at all times.
| PsychicAccess.com.Combining her psychic gift with her life coaching abilities, Spirit Speaks helped many make the right choices and changes in their life to be the happiest they can be. She was born psychic and uses no tools in her readings, only her gift from the Creator. Over the years she’s given thousands of readings and is very highly rated. Her vast clientele comes from all walks of life from throughout the world; many of her regular clients have sought her guidance for years. She specializes in love relationships, soulmates, family issues and child-parent relationships. She is also proficient with readings on career and finance. Get a reading with Spirit Speaks now at |
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