Tale-Bearers Seldom Smile

It is interesting how information comes to those of us who are seers. I am sure it is different for everyone, but I can be walking down the aisle in a grocery store and suddenly perceive a loud voice coming to me, saying something to alert me or to impart some message that is meant for a person in the vicinity.

A very good reason to try and ‘turn off’ this kind of incoming information, whenever we can, is that we sometimes have to share information that is not welcomed, or appreciated. That is why sharing psychic and mediumship information in a professional work setting is usually much more appropriate, as I have learned the hard way from a personal experiences.

We all have intuitive flashes when we feel something to be right and true. It tends to come to fruition if we pay attention, because we are usually right in our intuition, feeling or prediction. A good example is that moment when we feel someone cannot be trusted with information, or that feeling that someone is a gossip.

Watch out for the joy-stealers: gossip, criticism, complaining, faultfinding, and a negative, judgmental attitude ~ Joyce Meyer

An older lady I am connected to, is a gossip in a way that alienates her relatives. They do not want to be around her. Over the years I often saw her gossip with co-workers, and I witnessed her own son-in-law wanting to have nothing to do with her, as he also many times overheard her gossiping.

Seeing her in action one day, the word “tale-bearer” came to me clairaudiently. It was a very loud sound and I heard this several times. Later I looked up the word in a dictionary and apparently it was used in the 15th century to describe a person who constantly gossips or reveals secrets.

Together with the sound, I was also getting an image of a ring bearer, only the person wasn’t holding wedding rings, but words instead. He was holding it up for anyone who wanted to hear it.

Over the course of the past two decades, the lady in question never, or hardly ever smiles. I have never witnessed her smiling in any photographs, for example. I have also begun to realize that she would gossip about those she supposedly loves, cares about and whom she is supposed to be a friend to.

Her conversation is pure tale-bearing. For her it is completely normal, but to others it just makes her unpleasant to be around. I have found that I also no longer want to spend time with her.

Sometimes one wonders why some people, when they grow old, lack the companionship of family. Maybe relentless tale-bearing is one of the reasons? Tale-bearing is never attractive. In fact, I have found that after one spends their life doing this they lack grace and joy. They almost never smile.

How would your life be different if…You walked away from gossip and verbal defamation? Let today be the day…You speak only the good you know of other people and encourage others to do the same ~ Steve Maraboli

These days the tale-bearing lady’s person face comes to me clairvoyantly when I am doing readings. Whenever the subject turns to gossip and betraying other people’s confidences, it is always her face that pops up. Each and every time.

So, my advice to those of us who wish to grow old with loved ones and friends surrounding us, and to be looked upon as a kind, loving, compassionate person: do not gossip about others. It is so unbecoming, and unattractive. Spirit says, “Don’t be a tale-bearer, for it will make you unsightly, forlorn and deprive you of your smile.”