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Intending And Manifesting

Click Here for a FREE psychic reading at PsychicAccess.comIn-between lives we are with our guides, liberated from a physical body and all its desires and needs. We are pure energy – a soul. It is in this higher form that we carefully plan all the details of our human life, before coming to Earth.

Again, you plan all the details. Yes, all of it. You intend and manifest it all, before coming here. Why? You do this on the Other Side, with your wise guides, detached from physical, human needs and desires.

What are these desires? We have five senses. Therefore things like eating (taste and scent), sex (touch), beauty (sight), music (sound), as well as intellectual stimulation (mind) start to dominate our desires in this physical life. We start to worship money, romance, adventures, security, possessions and many other distractions. These desires are distractions, because you already decided and arranged to have wealth or poverty, a successful love life or loneliness, and many other circumstances before you came here.

You arranged your life to come here to evolve as a soul. That means some of us came here to be billionaire entrepreneurs or famous celebrities, while others came here to be unsuccessful, destitute, or even worse. Each set of circumstances is a lesson, a course of study that you came here to experience. And human desires are distractions when they are worshipped, when you pray for them, hunger for them, focus your life around them.

Personally, I have never met anyone who was working hard on manifesting world peace, or setting an intention to be a more generous or selfless person. The self-help industry offers thousands of books and workshops for people to learn to manifest money, a better love life, a career that will feed the ego. For example, I doubt anyone has ever done affirmations, or created vision boards to manifest a successful home cleaning business!

I can control my destiny, but not my fate. Destiny means there are opportunities to turn right or left, but fate is a one-way street. I believe we all have the choice as to whether we fulfill our destiny, but our fate is sealed ~ Paulo Coelho

I actually saw an ad for an online workshop where the presenter claimed that she had a “direct line to God,” and if you paid for her amazing workshop she would tell God what you wanted… and you would get it. What is more unbelievable is that people actually signed up for this with their hard-earned money.

Can we intend and manifest? Yes, we can. But I am sure you have seen this scene play out in a supermarket: a small child becomes obsessed with taking a toy or candy from the shelf, and makes a fuss. The parent refuses, and the child continues to fuss, eventually throws a tantrum, and just will not let it go. The only thing the parents can finally do is give the child what they want, and work on the issue at a later time. It is either that, or the parent might have to assert their authority and deal with the subsequent fall out.

When we are in a human body we are child-like, compared to our higher self, and Source. When you set about intending and manifesting earth plane desires, you are basically making a fuss like a child. Sometimes Spirit will ‘give in’ and will work with you to get you back on your original path. And sometimes Spirit will have to use something more drastic and traumatic, to literally save your soul, because you simply won’t listen and you are headed for danger, while you are obsessed with manifesting your desires.

Worshiping your earth plane desires will ultimately weaken you spiritually, delay your soul growth and make your path more difficult. You set up certain challenges before you came here. Trying to control them once you are here, or trying to avoid them, is like going off trail without a map or four-wheel drive.

Nothing ever grows, or even exists, without some form of challenge. Sunshine every day is a desert. No challenge, you die. In nature, fires, floods, earthquakes, extreme weather all exist. Yet, they all bring forth new life and beauty.

Electricity does not flow without a positive and negative pole. We need friction and resistance to get strong, grow, and expand. Gemstones are geodes when mined, and then are polished with friction to become jewels, just like humans. We shine when we get through challenges. It brings out the jewel, the shine, and the best in us. Every life has challenge, and every life has beauty whether you are climbing the Himalayas in a storm, or sailing in the Caribbean on a sunny day.

I find it interesting that the meanest life, the poorest existence, is attributed to God’s will, but as human beings become more affluent, as their living standard and style begin to ascend the material scale, God descends the scale of responsibility at commensurate speed ~ Maya Angelou

You used your free will to decide to come to Earth, and to design and commit to your current life. You chose it, no one forced you. Why would you pray to change that after incarnation? You only do that because you are tired or afraid, and have lost your connection to Source.

Once here you still have free will, to live this life either connected to, or disconnected from Source. You have free will to take care of yourself or abuse yourself, free will to go against the path you designed and chose, and free will to make your life harder by praying and intending to manifest what you think you want (that you hope will make you feel better), because now that you are in a human body you are feeling overwhelmed.

When you focus on manifesting something else rather than accepting what is in front of you right now, you miss important aspects of your originally intended journey. You are not present. You are somewhere else, preoccupied, missing the lesson and the love.

Earth is fun. It is part amusement park, part national forest, sometimes a scary movie. Throw in some Las Vegas, some Manhattan, and overall lots of different terrain and weather. Instead of working hard to try and control it all by manifesting what your human form is craving, fully participate in the adventure – all of it.

By all means, do intend and manifest. Intend to understand and commit to the path you designed and chose with guidance, when you were in Spirit. Pray to understand what, and why you came here to learn and evolve as a soul. Manifest your warrior spirit to take on the journey you designed to challenge you. Learn to accept and love all aspects of your journey. Stay your own best friend, and keep connected to Source for guidance while on this Earth. Choose love and learning, challenge and peace.

About The Author: Nonna

Nonna lives in Southern California, and is a professor of psychology and a teacher of psychic development, energy work and meditation, who has recently finished her PhD. She has been a counselor for both humans and animals for thirty years, removing energy blocks through her expertise in the spiritual arts. She also has numerous years of study and practice with classic psychological therapeutic models, family work, twelve-step processes, nutritional and body/mind/spirit healing, complementary, alternative, and quantum medicine. Nonna is brilliant at unearthing the gems in every client's soul and polishing them to a fine finish. To release your own soul's sparkle, contact Nonna at

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