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Your Inner Child

click for a free psychic reading at PsychicAccess.comYou are never too old, too wise, or too ‘spiritually advanced’ to improve upon your relationship with your beautiful and wise inner child. I teach my students how to go inside and connect, to Self, so they can be receptive to the teachings and healings of Spirit. If no one is home, in your body, in your emotions, in your current life, then there is no one home to receive guidance from Spirit.

Your Higher Self, unlike other spiritual guides that you may have (or think you have) has only one agenda: your highest good for the evolution of your Soul. It does not represent any other groups, opinions or agendas. Your Higher Self is concerned with your life lessons. It keeps you on your path, and keeps you connected to Source.

Your Higher Self is that energetic part of you that is in constant contact with the Divine Source. It is this divine relationship to Source which functions as the central coordinator of your life’s plan – the one you created when you were Soul working with Source, the life you are currently living.

However, if you are emotionally wounded, be it from childhood abuse or neglect, or life circumstances, such as trauma, war, assault, racism, rape, extreme poverty, and so on, you will have emotional blocks and your energy pathways will be corrupted or twisted. You will be unable to be in a deep, loving and respectful relationship with Self. Your Higher Self’s connection to Source is then corrupted and weakened, like hearing static on your phone line.

By staying open-minded and listening to the needs and desires of your inner child, you open yourself up to the possibilities of anything and everything ~ Kim Ha Campbell

When your wounded Self rules your life you cannot clearly receive Divine guidance – guidance that could eliminate a great deal of suffering. It is much like students who are distracted by their phone or social media, while their professor or counselor is trying to communicate something important to them.  The Divine Messages will not be able to get through clearly because you are not all there, you are not able to be present, because the voices of your wounded self are dominating your thoughts, emotions, and even your energy field. In fact, you will most likely mistake the advice and decisions made by your ruling unhealed wounded self as ‘your guide.’

When you heal your wounded self, which is a huge part of your current spiritual journey, your energetic channels are cleared and only then can you connect to your inner child in its pure state. Only then are you able to experience that state of innocence and purity of love and joy that is your true state of being. Once you are on your way to healing, you will be able to see addictive and habitual patterns that you seem to repeat so often in your life, and finally start to make different choices.

You must choose to heal your wounded self. Spirit cannot force you to do this. When you are in a deep, authentic and loving relationship with your inner child, you are connected to your Higher Self and Source, and with this triad you are energetically capable of having Spirit release and remove the traumas and blockages.

Until you start healing you will continue to re-enact addictive and habitual patterns. These painful patterns are necessary, because they make you pay attention to your unhealed wounds that you have been trying to ignore, and will force you to feel them so acutely that you finally choose to heal them. Your unhealed wounds hold you back from emotional maturity and spiritual growth.

Even though we have found the light in ourselves today, we sometimes forget to heal old wounds of our past. Your inner child still needs to be loved in order to heal the complete self ~ Karen A. Baquiran

When you take on a conscious relationship with your inner child, you learn to re-parent yourself as a starting point, especially if your own childhood did not model good care and good parenting. You learn self-care and boundaries, which are the essential ingredients to a deep, loving relationship with your Sacred Self.

You are always connected to, and in a relationship with your inner child. Everyone is. However how you are connected is what is in question here. Do you treat yourself as if you have no value? Do you know how to check in on your inner emotions and energy, and do you know how to use self-care skills (re-parenting skills)? Like a good marriage or deep friendship, your relationship to your Self, to your Inner Child, is constantly evolving, growing and deepening, if you put in the time, effort and focus. Just like all relationships, if you neglect them, if you do not spend time on them, they deteriorate.

And just like your entire family benefits if the parental relationship is healthy and authentic, your relationships to your Inner Child and Higher Self will either grow and benefit, or will fall into disrepair, based on your commitment, time, energy and effort consciously applied by you.

When your relationship to your Inner Child is strong, authentic, caring and loving, the guidance from your Higher Self becomes a natural part of that flow, and you can barely tell them apart at that point, as the energies are so intimately entwined. Your ability to listen to your need, sense your emotions and energy and care for your Self, your Inner Child, means you are better equipped to hear, feel, see, sense and receive your Higher Self’s life path guided overview. This overview guides you in  your evolution, helping you to avoid pitfalls and helps you stay in the Divine flow of Source.

About The Author: Nonna

Nonna lives in Southern California, and is a professor of psychology and a teacher of psychic development, energy work and meditation, who has recently finished her PhD. She has been a counselor for both humans and animals for thirty years, removing energy blocks through her expertise in the spiritual arts. She also has numerous years of study and practice with classic psychological therapeutic models, family work, twelve-step processes, nutritional and body/mind/spirit healing, complementary, alternative, and quantum medicine. Nonna is brilliant at unearthing the gems in every client's soul and polishing them to a fine finish. To release your own soul's sparkle, contact Nonna at

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