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Past Life Love Difficulties
Have you ever wondered why you feel so connected to a certain person, but don’t know why? It’s that ‘familiar’ feeling when your talking to someone for the first time. You may also experience déjà vu – that you have known or been with this person before, although you have never met them. You may even see flashes of yourself with that person in a different country, or distant place and time.
These experiences come from cell memory connected to past lives. In that moment you are tapping into a past life with that person.
When this happens it’s important to realize that there is still soul growth that needs to take place and that is why you both met up again in this life. Sometimes it’s not a positive experience, but you need to go through some potentially unpleasant experiences with that person. This may come in the form of romantic relationship challenges, or reaching that person on a deeper level by learning how to be true friends. Certain things need to take place between souls, and sometimes much work needs to be done and it may take many lifetimes. Continue reading
Perfect Love Is For Better Or Worse
What is perfect love? Is there such a thing? How can two people make their love last? Do we belong together? If we argue, does that mean we are not soulmates? These are a few of the questions I get asked in relationship readings.
The answer is the best of marriages have had their ups and downs. Perfect love is loving your partner when things aren’t perfect. It’s seeing through the negative energy and working through it.
Working through can take many forms. It may be leaving the house and taking some time away, or spending some time away from one another in some way, shape or form. Space and time heals all, especially for those that are living together, or married. There is much truth in the popular Chicago ballad, Hard to Say I’m Sorry, because everybody does need “a little time away”. Continue reading
Destination: Self-Realization
What can really make a person happy in life? In my work as professional psychic I talk to all kinds of people, including some very wealthy and financially secure folks. There often seems to be a void in their life and they are generally not happy. In fact, some of them are truly depressed and miserable.
I also talk to many folks who are married, have loving and caring partners and even a great sex life. The have the whole package, but they too are unhappy and depressed at times and not entirely content.
While no one is completely happy all of the time, you would think we could all get to the point where we would live a content, happy life, like the enlightened beings of the world. But sadly, many of us can’t afford to go far away to India or live in a cave to find out what this is that we need to get in touch with to be truly happy. Continue reading
Just In Time
Time is a fascinating concept, and I say this even as I sit here having not worn a watch in twenty something years!
Time, as we know it, is an incredible thing. It heals all wounds, it mends fences, faces and most cuts and scrapes and bruises. It helps marinate things to a tastier level than previous. Time is also money. The list is endless.
I watched a movie the other day, In Time with Justin Timberlake. What a trip that movie was! The basic premise is that time is the only currency. A person is given 25 years to live, and then after that their own personal ‘time clock’ on their wrists starts to tick-tock away. There is no money – everything is bought and paid for ‘in time’.
What would you do if you had all the time in the world? It made me ponder, and it made me look to the past and go around times in my life where I thought for sure this was ‘it’. Although, in retrospect I’m not entirely sure what ‘it’ even was. I certainly never knew it, even when it was right there in my face! Continue reading
Soulmates Reconnect After Many Years
A beloved client, who have been doing readings with me for over 15 years now, called me up the other day and told me something I knew would happen. The thing that made her go ‘white’ as she put it, was the fact that she swore up and down she would never ever in a million years hear from soulmate again, and now she did!
I told her to not lose the faith and to hold on to the love that they shared, because one day he would come back. She would always roll her eyes and would say, things like “in my dreams” or “when pigs fly”. She just couldn’t wrap her brain around the fact that he would come back. I told her that I saw him reaching out to her right around fall of 2012.
In truth, I could not believe it myself, because I thought for sure her negative emotions would block her from re-connecting with him, but when you are connected to someone and you’re that person’s soulmate, it’s bound to happen one way or another. For her, I saw it would happen in this current incarnation, this life time! And so it did, just as I predicted. Continue reading
Just Let it Go
Can you imagine how wretched you would feel if you kept trying to wear a pair of shoes at age 30 that fit you when you were 6? The pain would be unimaginable, excruciating and intense. You would cripple yourself and in all likelihood be unable to walk, be unable to move.
But you wouldn’t do that, right? That doesn’t make any sense, you say. Well, of course it doesn’t make any sense. And of course you’d never try to do that, because they wouldn’t fit you anymore!
At certain times in our lives it becomes really important to acknowledge that something or someone just doesn’t fit us anymore.
Is a person any different from a pair of shoes in this context? Of course not. Yet so often we keep on trying to make a person fit into our lives. We bend ourselves out of shape, trying so hard to make this person fit, when in fact their time, just like the old pair of shoes, has by now long come and gone. Continue reading
Recipe For Attracting Zen Love
I have spoken with many people who really want someone special to come into their lives, but it never seems to happen for them. They wonder why they can’t connect with anyone, why they can never find true love.
I have witnessed many times that the basis of this problem lies in the fact that people either want it too much, or that they turn themselves and the other person they are trying to attract into magnets that push each other away, instead of being attracted to one another.
To attract what you want into your life, you have to let go and essentially focus on it without force. Stay clear of any negative emotions, as that will not help in keeping you in Zen. Continue reading