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To know what something is, we also need to understand the other side of the story, what it’s not.

While it may be difficult to define the word love, we can put together a story of what love ‘looks’ like, or in my case… doesn’t look like.

The story and analogy I’d like to share is from the perspective of what love is not. Let’s use the example of a marriage between a man and woman who’ve been married for 10 years. While not every relationship is the same, there are some key ‘love-dicators’ that will certainly raise a red flag to anyone looking from the outside.

I coined the term ‘love-dicator’ as the way to notice when someone is using the word “love” as the excuse or apology for their behavior. It’s the indicator that makes you stop and take notice of what’s really going on. Read the rest of this entry »

Is there a rule of thumb to how many psychic readings an individual would benefit from? Does anyone really need more than one per week, per day or even per hour?

We don’t really need to have multiple readings per day, unless we are seeking guidance on different areas of our life. If you find yourself asking the same question over and over to different psychics, you may need to consider asking yourself why.

If you feel the issue is so important that you need answers in the form of three or more readings in one day, then what my guides shared with me is that you already know the answer. When we receive a strong desire to search for something and one answer isn’t enough, it’s because deep down our soul is awakening that part of us that we’ve been denying for so long.  In other words, it’s no accident you are asking about something, because it’s time to be aware and awake to the truth and break through the illusion that’s been your experience until now. Read the rest of this entry »

We’ve all heard the term, just go with the flow.  But what does that really mean and how can we be ‘in’ it?

Being in the flow means surrendering all tendencies to control the outcome of the situation you are in. For example, consider where in your life you are seeking change. Do you desire a life partner, new career, residential move, financial abundance or do you want to start a family?  Most of us want something new in our life, or wish to change what we already have.

The first step is to ask your higher self, the angels, God, the Universe, whomever you label your source of higher power.  The name doesn’t matter, as long as you ask and believe in something greater than yourself. Read the rest of this entry »

There are many things that take place ‘behind the scenes’ during a psychic reading. One of the most important things is for the psychic to prepare herself beforehand.  This is common sense, but something you may or may not be aware of.

How a psychic shows up during the reading is just as important as what they were doing prior. Would you get a reading from someone who just came back from happy hour? Of course not!

There are some specific steps that prepares the psychic for receiving clear and ‘unfiltered’ guidance. The first and most important is for the psychic to set aside her own ego intentions, judgments, bias and beliefs. This allows the psychic to be a clear channel and receive clear guidance without any interruption or distraction from her ‘human’ self. Read the rest of this entry »

Recycling has become a commonality in many modern households all over the world. We recycle everything from glass and newspapers to cell phones and batteries. Unfortunately, we also tend to do this with our thoughts and ideas.

When it comes to being innovative and coming up with new ideas, why is it such a challenge to come up with something new?

If our thoughts really do create our experience (which I believe they do), why is it so difficult to trust any new thoughts that show up?  How can we change the thoughts we’ve been recycling since childhood, and allow inspired ones in? Most humans have the same thought patterns, which in essence, creates the same experience in their life.

Until we become aware and conscious of our thoughts, we’ll keep having the same recycled thoughts and same experiences, over and over. Read the rest of this entry »

Free will, pre-destination, choice, fate and destiny are all common terms that many psychics and mediums use during readings, to explain why certain things are happening in a client’s life.

Personally, I didn’t really give it a second thought, until it was brought to my attention recently that these concepts sometimes confuse people..

I had the pleasure of chatting with a client who is very passionate about finding the truth around these concepts. My conversation with her prompted me to probe further into explaining this terminology, and share how I’ve come to understand it. From the perspective of my guides and I, here is how we see “free will” and “pre-destination”.

Many of us, who are involved in spiritual teachings, philosophies and lifestyles, hear the term free will very often. But what does it really mean? How much free will do we actually have? Read the rest of this entry »

We all know what happens when you throw a boomerang. You toss it and it comes right back at you, without hitting the ground.

Traditionally they were used by ancient civilizations as a weapon or a hunting stick, but these days we know them as toys made of wood or plastic, flat, and shaped almost liked a banana.

The symbolism of the boomerang is applicable in many areas of our spiritual life. The Law of Attraction states that ‘like attracts like’. Whatever begins with us ends with us, like a boomerang.  Whatever we send out will ultimately come back to us.  What goes around comes around. I believe we can apply our understanding of this basic principle with much more success in our lives, especially in the areas we’re struggling with.

The first thing to do is ask yourself what area of your life you want to change. Let’s use the example of a 44-year old woman who is constantly single and wants to get married, but continues to enter and exit one bad relationship after another.   Read the rest of this entry »