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Every day we make choices. Sometimes if we stop and look at those choices, it will give us a good indication of our patterns. For example, we say we want to be happy, but do we then make choices that will bring us happiness during the day a priority?

Perhaps we say we want this or that, but then we put it last on the list for the day, or don’t put it on the list at all. We can choose serenity over a boyfriend or girlfriend. We can choose peacefulness over fussing and fretting. We can choose quality time with our child rather than going out drinking. So sometimes, we are our own worst enemy with the choices we make each day. Often we do not see the patterns of our choices, and we cannot change something we do not see. This is when self-awareness must be developed.  Read the rest of this entry »

Often times we are at a crossroad and life changes depend on our actions. For example, we are with a person we love, who cheats on us. We call for a psychic reading about that person and our future with him or her. So if you can accept the cheating, there is one reading. If you are willing to put your foot down, that is another reading. Psychic readers cannot make up your mind for you and cannot be strong for you.

We are here to do two things while we evolve as a soul having a human experience: to have fun and to learn. Sometimes we get to do both together. The learning part can be difficult.

Remember that learning means we need to hear, see and experience what we don’t know. Sometimes readers can open that door, but only if there is an indication from the person that they are indeed willing to consider opening a door never before opened.  If the person is not willing, the psychic has little choice but to discuss what the person can face, not what he or she cannot face. Read the rest of this entry »

Psychology and readings sometimes go hand in hand. There are also times when you may just need some plain, good old common sense – not a reading. For example, if your loved one has an addiction problem, why do you need a reading? Better maybe to get to a support group, go to Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) or Al Anon, or see a therapist.

Readings help identify issues, but then you have to be willing to do the work. Psychic and mediumship readings do not make magic happen, or make a cheater loyal, or sober up an alcoholic. Readings can confirm your suspicions, but then you have work to do.

It does not matter if you decide to stay in the relationship or leave. If you stay, you have to develop skills to deal with the shortcomings of your loved one. If you leave, you need to figure out why your radar picked out this person and if your radar needs a ‘re-boot’ and readjustment. Read the rest of this entry »

I could share so many stories about times I thought I said, or did the ‘wrong’ thing, while I was doing psychic readings or energy work, only to find out sometimes months later that what I was guided to say or do was exactly what was needed, even if at the time the situation didn’t look the best.

When we allow Spirit to guide us, and if we stop trying to control results, life takes miraculous turns. When we try to take care of everyone and every situation, we can become control freaks and our human solutions are always so limited compared to what Spirit provides.

When we come from a place of surrender and guidance, we are free to follow the magically twisted path of Spirit, that seems to handle every detail far better than we could have ever imagined. Situations that seem to baffle us get easily resolved. Horrible circumstances are removed in ways we could not have planned, and new people come to us through round about ways that we could never have anticipated. Read the rest of this entry »

Psychic reading is a powerful spiritual tool to help us approach, understand and deal with life. However, sometimes we have environmental factors that can affect us, which we might wrongly attribute to a psychological or spiritual issue.

It is a good idea to make sure when something affecting us that it is not possibly environmental, because we need to deal with that first so we are balanced enough to progress spiritually. A good example of external, natural phenomena that may affect our well-being are solar storms.

Powerful solar storms have been rolling into our atmosphere in recent years, as per the National Aeronautics and Space Administration (NASA) warnings. Some people are extremely sensitive to the electromagnetic field (EMF) emissions that these storms generate and can experience symptoms like depression, mood swings, erratic behaviors, and migraines to complete immobilization. Read the rest of this entry »

Not everyone is here to have a soulmate. We are souls having a human experience in order to evolve. For some of us that may mean having a terminal illness as a life experience, so we can be nurtured and loved through a difficult time.

Some of us are here to have a ‘vacation’ life, with not many challenges or growth. Some of us are here to be obese or unattractive, for us to learn about unconditional love and self-love in a society that worships being skinny, attractive and youthful.

For those who are here to have soulmates, that relationship is pretty effortless. We don’t have to go chasing it. It comes in, we connect, and it just clicks. Yes, there are the normal ups and downs, but if your partner is cheating on you, or treating you very badly, you can be sure that you are not having a soulmate experience.

So, what about the people we are so deeply drawn to? Well, we often do not willingly go towards our life lessons. We get stuck in wanting to have fun, or to “have it all” on earth plane terms. Like children who do not want to eat our vegetables; spirit often times has to ‘sugar coat something for us to engage. Read the rest of this entry »

Psychic readings are like weather reports. We cannot control the weather, but we can adapt and plan around the weather.

If we know rain is coming, we can plan to stay indoors, or go out in rain gear, or go out to play in the rain.

We change our plans and expectations based on what is coming, so we are not taken by surprise, and we can find ways to have fun or relax, no matter what.

It is harder to take this position when we are asking about love, or finances, or career. Suddenly our lightheartedness can become obsessive, or demanding. Why can’t we have what we want, instead of the weather that is coming in…darn it! Read the rest of this entry »