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Continued from: Paranormal Phenomenon In Chilliwack (Part 1) >>

As the days passed, my doubts in my own abilities rose rapidly.  I felt taunted, dull, depressed and in a constant place of anxiety.  As soon as I pulled into the driveway of the house I would kick into ‘fight or flight’ syndrome. I chose to fight.

I smudged, cleansed and sealed the house to no avail. In truth, ‘it’ became more aggressive each time I took a stand against it. The nights were always the worst, but it certainly didn’t stop it from getting our attention during daylight hours either. A few weeks after we moved in my parents called to let me know they were coming out for a visit.  I had just opened a high end clothing store that I was very excited about and they wanted to see what I had built. The timing, of course, could not have been worse. Read the rest of this entry »

I struggled with whether or not write this blog article, since it’s not about rainbows and unicorns, nor is it a Hollywood version of ghosts, angels and demons. It’s the story of several paranormal experiences in the Chilliwack River Valley. I will also be bold and say that few people will ever have this type of encounter or experience. I am therefore not writing this to offend or challenge anyone’s belief system.

I have heard many interviews with well known paranormal investigators who insist they have been looking for real demons and have never encountered any. Every encounter could be “classified” as “debunked”, or acknowledged as a real haunting. They are open to the experience, but until then they don’t believe that these entities exist.

Fair enough and completely understood. I believe that light cannot exist without dark, and vice verse. Simply believing something does not exist doesn’t protect you from it either. Read the rest of this entry »

All of us have in some way, shape or form made lists of what we want in our lives. Whether you’ve written your desires on paper or listed your intentions in your mind, you have decisively moved in that direction and pulled in that energy.

Some of us have also received exactly what we asked for and found it wasn’t what we wanted at all…so it was back to the drawing board. As the years pass, the list of wishes, hopes, desires and intentions become more streamlined due to our life experiences.

We make our wish lists thinking that it will bring our ultimate happiness and fulfillment when we ultimately get what we asked for. I work with many clients, for example, whose ultimate wish is for their lovers to leave their spouse to be with them instead. That’s all they want. Read the rest of this entry »

I recently had the most amazing conversation with my dearest friend. It was one of those moments that fulfill the desire for knowledge and connection to a truth. We talked about Karma.

It’s odd how we sometimes throw around words that we think we know the meaning to, but we don’t. In popular definition it is said that whatever deed you participate in, whether negative or positive, will return to you with the same results. Simple enough, or is it?

Is Karma a cosmic rule? Most of us think so, but there is more.  At this very moment, as you read this you are living in the moment. If you look to your left, imagine a place where there are straight roads, then curvy, and there are mountains and hills representing your past. If you look to your right, imagine the mirror image of the scene on your left. This represents your future. Read the rest of this entry »

Writer’s block. I’m one of those people that always has something to say, but today’s subject is… on ‘nothing’.

It reminds me of the concept behind Jerry Seinfeld’s popular 90’s sitcom: “The show about nothing”… which always turned out to be something.

It also makes me wonder at this moment what my subconscious mind may be stirring up for me.

So, this morning on Facebook I was chatting with my sister-in-law. She shared a personal pet-peeve with me, namely when a person says that they “do not have a choice”. I agreed wholeheartedly, there is always a choice. I have had interactions with people who defended their choices by stating that they didn’t have one… really? Read the rest of this entry »

They say that when we are born, the only fear we have is the fear of falling and loud noises. That being said, where do the rest of our fears come from? As we grow up, our parents, friends, co-workers and society all contribute to our belief system, including some of their fears.

There are meanings behind everything we fear. In my family, the top of the list was spiders – creepy and scary was what most people taught me. One day, I looked up the meaning of spiders and what they represent in Native American animal medicine.

I discovered that the spider represents creativity and that she teaches us to weave our lives. As spider weaves her web, so we weave our realities and our fate. This medicine teaches us to remember that we are the creators of our own life experience. So, when spider appears in your life, think about writing down your thoughts. Read the rest of this entry »

I was speaking with a girlfriend the other day about how much women share with each other as friends. We really do.  This kind of ‘sharing’ is emotional, spiritual, and deep. This, in turn, helps us deal with stress and difficult, if not impossible life experiences.  It is a way for us to share our innermost fears, dreams and secrets, with support and love.

Of course, many of us also have family support. With family we share ideas and, for most, our family is a ‘soft place to land’ when things get tough. Then there is also the relationship support we get from a romantic partner in our life.

These are great support systems, if you have it, but not all of us do. And that kind of support is much different than the support we get from our girlfriends. All three have a different purpose and a different effect on our lives.

I am blessed with having a close ‘inner sanctum’ of friends who I love dearly. They are there for me when I need them, and they are unfailing. Read the rest of this entry »