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Recently, I went to a stress management seminar and I am much calmer now, since using many of the skills I learned there. I was so happy about the results I achieved that I emailed the facilitator of the seminar and asked permission to share some of the basics with you.

At the seminar we were taught a set of ‘Distress Tolerance Tools’. The acronym you can use to remember this is ACCEPTS:

A – Activity. Go for a walk, take up swimming, get a hobby. Anything that takes your mind in a different direction for a while. The problem will still be there, but you should be able to see it with fresh eyes when you return.

C – Contribute. Volunteer in your community or work for a charity. For example, in many rural areas the fire department is run by volunteers. In the town I live in there is a ‘baby cupboard’ for young mothers to get diapers, blankets and formula for their infants. Read or play music at a rest home. Find somewhere to contribute. The possibilities are endless. Read the rest of this entry »

When I look at my daughters and see their psychic abilities, it is almost commonplace to me.

I didn’t have the time, interest, knowledge or patience to foster their gifts, so they learned like I learned, by trial and error, and lots of studying.

Now I have granddaughters, and most of them are showing abilities.  Hailey is a medium, she talks to my mother and brother, who both have passed away, my oldest granddaughter, Bryanna, just knows things.

Rayme, the oldest daughter of my youngest daughter, has been showing healing abilities since she was three years old.  It was ridiculously easy to show her how to shift energy, and she has been ‘feeling it better’ since then. Read the rest of this entry »

I believe that we are given the opportunity to learn many valuable lessons by having many experiences. Hopefully we will learn a valuable lesson with each experience, which will bring us closer to becoming ‘enlightened’.

Some of the experiences we deal with provide us with the wisdom we need to someday help another human, who is in similar pain, understand and hopefully learn the same lesson themselves.

I also believe that if we don’t learn the life lesson we are meant to learn, the Universe will offer another opportunity to learn that same lesson again, but that it will be more challenging the second time around. Many years ago, I realized I had a problem with alcohol and joined a 12-step program.  After 9 months, I pronounced myself ‘cured’ and I stopped going to meetings. I successfully stayed sober for the next eleven years. Read the rest of this entry »

One of the questions I’ve been asked most frequently during Tarot readings is “when?” Timing is one of the hardest things for a Tarot reader to pin down, and there are several methods one can use. The following techniques are the two I personally use most often:

When I use the Celtic Cross or Double Celtic Cross spread for a reading, I also I draw two additional cards and place them to the left under the ‘past’ cards. The first of the two cards is the one I look to for time. Wands represents weeks, Pentacles is months, Cups is days, and Swords mean the decision has not been made, but it’s likely to stay stuck in that situation for that number of years. For example, the Four of Swords would represent four years. When using Swords as timing, the decision is still dependent on other factors; the Swords just indicate that the situation has to stay in its current status. Read the rest of this entry »

People have asked me on several occasions during psychic readings why they haven’t seen any signs. I usually ask people if they would recognize a sign as a sign. I believe it is best to stop looking for it consciously, because the sign will appear in its own way and in its own time.

After her death, my mother used to put certain songs into my head. They were songs I had learned in Sunday school, like I’ll Be a Sunbeam or Popcorn Popping on the Apricot Tree.  When I asked her to stop, she started giving me the punch lines to inside, off-color or politically incorrect jokes instead! Any time anything pops into my head, which is out of the context with what was going on right then or my frame of mind at the time, I knew it was her. Read the rest of this entry »

Are you interested in developing your ability to astral travel? Yes, it is an ability we all can develop. It raises our consciousness and offers us increased awareness of the etheric plane or spiritual realm.

According to OBE expert William Buhlman, the benefits of out-of-body experiences are a reality that each of us can experience. “All we need is an open mind and the proper guidance to access our unlimited personal potential,” he says.

There are many exercises one can use when trying to induce this type of out-of-body experience (OBE). These exercises have been developed over a number of years and I have shared it with many clients, who have expressed varied success.

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A subject that comes up fairly often in psychic readings is the concept of manifesting.  Manifesting refers to bringing your conscious desires or needs into your physical reality.  The way it typically works is by visualizing what you want, while meditating, or through ritual or prayer, and thus making it real, tangible.

When I want to manifest something in my life I kneel at my altar, light some candles and ask that my guides be with me. I always start by expressing gratitude for what I have already received. You could just do a simple meditation. Always start by an expression of gratitude, then begin to clear and quiet your mind. When your mind is quiet, start visualizing what it is that you want or need. Read the rest of this entry »