A few people have been asking me about what they must really do when faced with renting a haunted property or living space. When faced with one spirit, I would say I would probably be able to comfortably reside with an idea of a person that had passed on. I could probably handle a family maybe, a few past owners, perhaps even a haunted burial ground – as most of the spirits would have been safely tucked into the golden fleece of the afterlife lifestyle.
I would urge you to think of people that have not been laid to rest to be well looked after as well, as if the act of not letting them be at peace were our duty, the duty of the living only, and this should never be true, as a free spirit I may never allow the living to be the judges that put me to rest. I think an intelligent universe of God would not make us be the guardians of passing.
Please remember how important it is, if you are a sensitive individual, to include meditation in your daily rituals. Often empathic imprints and your own thoughts or emotions are indistinguishable from each other if you are not centered. This centering can come throughout the day in the form of mindfulness.
Mindfulness is based on the Buddhist ideology of being present within oneself within the moment. This being ‘present’ can be self taught in many different ways. Throughout the day, be present in yourself whilst breathing. Be present in yourself whilst eating. Be present in yourself whilst being alone. Be present when overwhelmed by emotion. Remember that you are not your emotion, or that your emotions are having you, and that you are not the sum of your emotions. You are the sum of your mind. You can learn to control this through connecting to the part of yourself that is still. Read the rest of this entry »
Readings consist of several layers. I would liken a proper psychic reading as complex as a four dimensional Rubik’s cube. To me readings can be governed by Physics, and also Mathematics – apart from the number symbols such as Numerology and Astrology, complex pathways that seem to intelligently intersect. You will have many different layers in one reading and it there is an intelligent design.
You may have noted that I most easily cue into empathy first as I am primarily emotional, sensate and very interested in Psychology and social behavior. To me that is like mixing paints, complete with color and texture. It’s fascinating as I love to explain each personality and their motivations, and no two personalities are alike. Read the rest of this entry »
It’s almost like being a ventriloquist on occasion – my voice will not change but if the person is in a stern frame of mind it may reflect in my vocal tone, or the way I emphasize certain phrases. I have been told I can parrot conversations verbatim, though I would say I would never know when I am. It is not like the words sound any different to me when I get them. If I were getting fragments of conversations, which I seem to, and then assume like an actress a little bit of their emotional gait, then you know I am deeply involved in the energy of the person I am assuming, and may act it out a little. Read the rest of this entry »
My ex was actually a very good empath. I never knew this. I knew him well, but I had no idea that our thoughts were bouncing back and forth between each other. He at first, had no interest in the spiritual, but upon watching me work, he became interested. Then he actually became aware of empathy. I used him as a research tool, and he would occasionally call me and ask me if I was thinking of him, if I needed anything.
Awareness is the key to telepathy and empathy, or any psychic work. We all pick up thoughts, have visions or have psychic impressions or dreams, but we are unskilled in picking them up, and usually uncertain as to what they mean. Read the rest of this entry »
As my proclivity tended towards telepathy in my work, I have tried to ‘train’ my clients to ask questions more presently focused on empathy, though I still may encounter questions about the future outlook from time to time and am happy to answer them. The problem I encounter is letting you know when the prediction will come true.
As readers we often commune as colleagues, and I know that many of us have a deep sense of responsibility to our clients. We worry quite a bit about the effects we have on our clients. We pay in karmic debt, what we have to tell you. We don’t take this lightly. I take the energy of the client with me after each reading, even if I don’t remember their name months down the line, I will remember their pain. So it’s important for me to try and leave a person feeling in control. Read the rest of this entry »
You are online dating - you are looking for that ideal person. You wonder why you stop just at that one icon. It’s in the eyes. Look into their eyes. The first flash of emotion will seem obvious to you. “It looks like he is just making an expression in the picture, anyone can read that!”. Go a bit deeper. This principal expression is actually a caricature of the person he is, in other words, it is intensified. You can take that information and go with it. If he looks angry: he is. If he looks frantic: he will not have the time for you, etc. It’s really that easy.
Next: Which profiles stick out at you? Is it their color or their composition? You can sometimes get a rough ‘feeling’ off of a picture. It may be gentle, sad, or confusing. Take note of this feeling. Read the rest of this entry »
I have felt many different forms of love. There are so many feelings to describe it. Yet, someone loving you may have no bearing on where the relationship is going.
Really? How can that be? He has told me he wants to marry me!
I believe that empaths have a hardwired ability to tune into that love. Women especially seem to get into dangerous relationships because they ‘feel that the person loves them’. This is not to exclude men, but I believe it’s a slightly higher percentage. Maybe it is women’s biological inclination to nurture and protect the roost that enhances their empathic skills, or the highly developed language center. Read the rest of this entry »