In my previous blog post I recounted my personal experiences with reading the Tarot. It is a very personal method of divination, and can be used and interpreted in so many ways, depending on the decks one uses.
My primary talent is empathy – or a subtle form of emotional transfer – and this stems from my naturally sensitive personality and Pisces moon. One’s moon in one’s chart is the way we feel our express our emotions. I can assure you that people with this configuration could be deemed as overly sensitive, but fortunately with my cool Aquarian Sun I am very adept at analysis, and I enjoy relationship ‘strategies’.
I decided to promote myself as an empath as I had the perspective of: Why does that person feel this? Is this directed at me? What do they think of me? And with this natural people-pleaser characteristic I started asking all these questions early. I created this niche in 2002 and have been blogging about it ever since.
Empathy is full presence to what’s alive in the other person at this moment ~ John Cunningham
All I need from you is the person’s name. Once I have this information I quickly access their emotional state, which to me means I am temporarily assuming some of their emotions. I also tend to find their insecurities very quickly. It is extremely rare for me to read anyone who doesn’t have them, so I identify these fears and I quickly assign them to a personality type. With this information in hand, and with your questions, I am able to tease out their desires, their motivations, and their feelings for you, and regarding the relationship.
I think having this talent is only for the brave, because it is a fact that most people seem to see the faults in us first. With this in mind, I usually meet people in real life and put up a ‘firewall’ in essence. I work best over the phone sometimes, because I will not be distracted by body language – even subtle cues, like crossed arms for example, could put me on the defense and skew my reading.
When you call this is the typical format you can expect:
Client: Please tell me about Marc?
Carmen: Marc is aggravated right now. He seems like he is in a bad mood, or tired. I am not certain if at this point it would be good to read him in entirety as his day seems ‘colored’ right now as far as his outlook goes, or he is depressed and this may not reflect on you. Nonetheless, beyond his frustration, I pick up that he is anxious.
Client: Anxious? About me?
Carmen: No, he has anxieties about relationships in general. It feels to me like he is moving at high speed when he is put in a vulnerable situation. This is why he may be hard to hold onto.
Client: Does he care about me?
Carmen: He has some muted feelings about you right now, because you have not spoken for a while. This means he has temporarily detached. But beneath that detachment, I feel he misses you and this makes him anxious.
The great gift of human beings is that we have the power of empathy, we can all sense a mysterious connection to each other ~ Meryl Streep
Client: Has he moved on?
Carmen: At this point, I am going to take out my cards to define this for you better and try and obtain a brief overview in through the Tarot cards to get any details I missed. They will then show me an outcome. I can tell you though he has not ‘moved on’ – he still worries about you.
[I then lay out the cards]
Carmen: I know he is thinking about the next contact, so I don’t feel he has moved on. You are also getting ‘contact cards’ coming up in your reading, so I feel he won’t be able to. This doesn’t mean he is going to make a move right now. This is only indicating there will be contact in the future.
Client: Does he love me?
Carmen: I feel all kinds of love from different people, each one is unique, so let me characterize this: it is anxious and wants to please; it is shy but frustrated that it cannot speak it’s truth; and he can get depressed which makes me feel you have affected him deeply. I feel you need to see each other.
Finally, we will move into the latter half of the reading, which is the Tarot or outcome analysis, which I detailed in my earlier blogs. In total I do well with about seven minutes for an empathic reading, and I work extremely fast with the Tarot. Please be aware that I may not be able to explain everything in detail initially, but given an average of about fifteen minutes, I will be able to give you a thorough, primarily empathic reading, with a near future outlook – ranging from a few hours to a few days – and an intermediary outcome, up to a few months, as well as a long-term intuitive assessment.
If you work with me over time, one can adjust aspects of the relationship along the way, which to me is the best feature of my work. It means you have some control over the outcome!
© Carmen Miro 2011
| PsychicAccess.com.Carmen’s waking dreams have provided accurate glimpses into the future for celebrities as well as political and international figures. Her non-judgmental, Empathic approach, as well as her unique method of Tarot reading, affords her the reputation as a groundbreaker in her field. This European born Canadian is the first online psychic to promote the idea of Empathy and emotional thought transference, and she has written a great deal on the subject. For a comprehensive Intuitive reading that will transform your life, you can find Carmen at |
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